Mrs. Xu carefully looked at He Ningxin's face, and saw that she was stunned and didn't know what she was thinking, so she pushed her and asked, "What?" Scared? ”

When it comes to marrying, even if you marry your beloved, the girl's family will be uneasy. It's just that He Ningxin's situation is more special, like the second sedan chair and don't hug the pipa, it is more of a calm comparison and careful weighing.

For now, Jian Feiyang is a good man, but only God knows how long this good man can be good. He Ningxin is a very rational person, even if she has a little different feelings for Jian Feiyang, but compared with the long years to come, she knows that this affection is not enough to support the two of them to go on hand in hand. How many fū'qī, gradually drifting away, and finally becoming the same as a passerby.

"With her father and mother as her daughter's backing, if your daughter is still afraid of getting on a sedan chair, she might as well shave her hair and be a sister-in-law. - Doing anything is risky, so you can't skip eating for fear of choking, right? He Ningxin smiled slyly, speaking vaguely.

Such an answer was unexpected by Mrs. Xu. Neither the daughter of the boudoir talks about the shyness of her beloved, nor the yearning for the future days of the husband singing and the fairy-like days, but first thinking of the worst side, not like a girl who first married at the age of eighteen, but like ...... It's like a woman who has seen a thousand sails, leaning on the railing and sighing.

After thinking about it, Mrs. Xu still didn't understand how He Ningxin could have such thoughts. Although she was confused before, there are still a lot of children who should look like. Now she is much smarter and more intelligent, but she is also too mature to look like a girl who does not know the world.

Maybe after falling into the water in the backyard pond, He Ningxin, who has experienced life and death, has already realized it.

Thinking of this, Mrs. Xu always felt a little frightened. On the day of great joy, how do you think of those bad things?

Mrs. Xu retracted her thoughts and whispered to He Ningxin about the gift of Dunlun between fū'qī.

He Ningxin had married and had children in her previous life, so she naturally knew what was going on. But in this life, she is still a big girl in a sedan chair, and it is the first time, so in Mrs. Xu's whispered advice, she still can't help blushing.

After finally saying these unspeakable words, Mrs. Xu also breathed a sigh of relief, and ran through He Ningxin's black hair with her hand, and said with emotion: "These things are actually nothing, every woman has to pass this level, and it will be over by gritting her teeth." It's just that there are some things, but it's much harder than that. ”

He Ningxin raised her head and looked at Mrs. Xu, her bright eyes were black and white in the dark night, "What is the mother referring to?" ”

Mrs. Xu pondered for a long time, and said slowly: "In our family, your father has never taken a concubine, and there are no disputes between concubines and concubines in the family. But when I married into the Zhenguo Mansion, the noble family is very different from our civil official families. ”

He Ningxin is more familiar with the affairs of the nobleman's family than Mrs. Xu. Hearing this, he smiled and comforted Mrs. Xu: "Mother, the left is just a soldier to block, and the water is to cover it, what's the use of thinking so much?" ”

Mrs. Xu angrily and funny nodded her finger heavily on He Ningxin's forehead, and said angrily: "I think you are too lazy to get by, and you don't even care about your life's major events. - Let me tell you, Feiyang looks good now, and there is no concubine room, let alone a concubine who has not passed the door, so he has a concubine and a child who has come out. But if a man has no foresight, he will have near-term worries. You can't expect him to be like this for the rest of his life, he may be a good man in a million and can do it for a lifetime, but you can't be demanding. ”

This point coincides with He Ningxin's opinion.

He Ningxin nodded vigorously and said, "My daughter remembers." If Feiyang can only have a daughter in his life, even if his daughter did good deeds and accumulated virtue in her previous life, burned high incense, and earned it. If he can't, it's nothing great, it's just a life at home like everyone else. - Which nobleman's mansion does not have concubines and children? Even if you don't, they'll send you one. Isn't it better to be happy alone? ”

Mrs. Xu was amused by He Ningxin's words and said, "Is this how the words of the saint are used?" - It's really skinning you."

The two laughed for a while, and Mrs. Xu whispered to He Ningxin: "We can't control men, but women have a way." If you have a plan, there are still a few good medicines here. If someone wants to beat your husband's idea, you might as well use some means...... That way, even if you bring it in, you won't give birth to a bunch of cubs to block you. ”

Master He is a good man, except for Mrs. Xu, he has never asked for another woman. To say that there are not many such men, if you meet one, even if you are lucky to earn it. If Master He had a flowery intestine, Mrs. Xu's various skills trained by her mother before she got married would be useful.

Seeing He Ningxin's disapproving appearance, Mrs. Xu warned He Ningxin earnestly: "You are so laissez-faire, don't you worry about being used as a trick, the next loop or something?" - You must know that women have always been the best at embarrassing women. "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you.

He Ningxin refused, saying: "If you are bitten by a dog, you can only lower yourself to the position of a dog." No, the daughter won't do that. The daughter can beat the dog back with a big stick, and she can have someone go and drive the dog out of the daughter's house. In the future, wherever the daughter appears, the dog will not be allowed to appear. Anyone who had a relationship with that dog, the daughter would break it off. ”

"Mother, you see, there are many ways for my daughter to take revenge. But like a dog, do the same thing as a dog, please forgive my daughter for not being able to do it. ”

"It is the man's fault that he wants to take a concubine. If a woman can't stand a man's concubine, she can divorce from a man, divorce her husband, or give her man turnip soup, which can solve the problem. If you can't do it, you should treat yourself as a person outside the world and guard your children's parents. If you don't aim the finger at your own man, but instead focus on harming women and fetuses, what kind of hero is it? - The daughter would never do this. In the daughter's heart, a human life, even if it is a fetus in another woman's womb, is more important than a man who has changed his mind. I won't commit murder for the sake of that unworthy man. ”

"Besides, women are also human beings, and they can't live without men. Parents raise their daughters for the rest of their lives, not to watch their daughters not only distort their conscience, but also break the law for the sake of an unrighteous man. Even if a man changes his mind, accepts a concubine, and has a room, his daughter is still the main house, with her own children, her own family, and her own dowry to take care of. At most, I respect him like a guest, and cry bitterly for his sadness and disappointment? - He doesn't deserve it. The man who can make his daughter cry for him is not the man who hurts his daughter, but the man who cherishes his daughter and is willing to die for his daughter."

Mrs. Xu smiled and shy Ning Xin's little face: "What kind of hero are you?" I think you're really in the wrong place, and if you give birth to a male body, you won't have so many prisons. "Sigh again, what a girl who has never been married, the truth is a set. When it comes to the end, what woman is not angry with the cheap hooves who climbed her husband's bed?

He Ningxin listened to Mrs. Xu's words, curled up on the bed with laughter, and trembled for a long time before she said: "Mother is really good at laughing at this cow if he doesn't drink water, can he still force his head to press his head?" If men don't have that mind, even if women climb into their beds, they won't succeed. - If it is done, it is Lang Youqing, and the concubine is intentional, why do you put all the fault on the head of the woman who climbed the bed? Could it be that women are stronger than men? A mother is also a woman, why should she speak for a man? ”

Mrs. Xu also found it interesting and said, "Don't be so categorical, there are exceptions to everything." Besides, everyone says that a man's hǎo'sè is fēng'liú, and a woman's climbing into bed is obscene. But if my mother agrees with you, in fact, they are all all the way, and you can't fight one and hold one. - If you want to say that it is the fault of the woman who climbs the bed, the responsibility of the man is even greater. Why do you have an obligation to take the bait? These men have forgotten that they are human beings, not animals, and when they see a meat bun, they can't control their mouths, and they have to eat it secretly. ”

Mrs. Xu said it funny, and He Ningxin laughed again. The dull and hesitant mood before marriage was swept away, with such a mother, why should she be afraid of the ups and downs in the future? In her previous life, she did another wrong thing, that is, she tried to resist everything on herself, and reported good news to her mother's family but not bad news, but the result only fueled the arrogance of the two people in the Marquis of Ningyuan's mansion who were not very good-brained. - Actually, in her previous life, her father and mother would definitely stand up to help her, if she hadn't hidden it from them.

"I ask you again, what if the concubines come to harm your children for the sake of their children? You don't want to start first? "Mrs. Xu is older, and she has seen some things. Moreover, in a home, either the east wind overpowers the west wind, or the west wind overpowers the east wind.

He Ningxin said: "This is something that hasn't happened yet, and I can't use my own imagination to convict others." Besides, I am the main family, and there are countless legitimate means to let the concubines and concubines see their identities and locations clearly, so as to prevent this kind of tragedy from happening. Why do I choose the most bloody means, injuring a thousand enemies and injuring a thousand and two, so that the gains outweigh the losses, to protect my children and status? - Besides, my mother also knows that in this family, there are more concubines and concubines, and how many concubines are so full that they dare to really harm the master's mother and son-in-law? The sister-in-law is gone, and the master mother can go to the sister-in-law in the other room, and the concubine is the concubine, and never think about it. ”

Pei Shufan in his previous life did not do these things, and He Ningxin in this life will not do it.

"In short, if there is such a day, as the main room, I will not use all kinds of conspiracies to deal with the concubines, as long as they recognize their duty. If they really plan to do something crazy, I'll have a way to prevent it. "In the previous life, when she was still alive, she managed several concubines of Marquis Ning Yuan well. When you want them to jump, loosen the rope and let them jump a few times. When I wanted them to be honest, I didn't even dare to come out of the atmosphere.

She has no love for Ning Yuan Hou Chuhua and has no love for men and women, and she never sees his many women feeling jealous and sad. If it weren't for the fact that her body couldn't hold on, and her sister suddenly appeared with that weird Langjing Dongtian, which made her die early by mistake, her children would have lived better than now.

But despite this, she was lucky to have a chance to live again, and she could still protect her children in her previous life and grow up safely. - What is it if this is not a blessing?

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