Chapter 431: Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Chapter 431: Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Mei Ruomei tightened her brows and whispered, "If it's strange, my sister-in-law hid an invitation card before I entered the door. ”
Mrs. Mei selected embroidery for Mei Ruomei, looked at it carefully, and said casually: "Xu was sent by Mrs. Yue Ninghou, two days ago she became the justifiable Mrs. Yue Ninghou, I heard that the Hou Mansion also invited guests to celebrate, after all, it is the sister of the mother's family, and your sister-in-law sent a congratulatory gift." Today... The subordinates assigned to deliver the invitations are all noble, which makes our house shabby. ”
"Sister-in-law won't think much about it, don't be angry." I dare to deal with Mrs. Yue Ninghou? People are noble and wealthy Mrs. Houfu, where can they look down on our little Mei family. ”
"Mother."
Mrs. Mei put down the embroidery in her hand and said with a smile: "You don't have to worry about following me, it's me who takes pictures." ”
originally wanted his son to marry Ding Min, but who knew that people looked down on their family, Ding Min's eyes were full of wealth and wealth in the Marquis of Yue Ning's mansion, and Mrs. Mei sighed happily, "This is also a good thing." ”
If it is Ding Min who marries in, she may not have to toss it, how does she see Ding Yun now, she is also a woman who can live a good life.
Mei Ruomei comforted her mother, "Didn't you say that the steproom is the hardest thing to do?" In addition to being rich, the Marquis of Yue Ning's Mansion is not as good as our family's good reputation, how many pairs of eyes are staring at the Marquis of Yue Ning? It's not easy for me to say Yue Ning, the family is in chaos... Don't look at her fate, but the pain in it can't be said, Yue Ninghou's stepmother is not easy to get along with, I haven't seen Mrs. Yue Ninghou, but after hearing a few words from her sister-in-law, she may not be able to sit firmly. ”
Mei Ruomei smiled: "What is like me... On the second day of my sister-in-law's entry, I handed over all the housekeeper's affairs to my sister-in-law, mother, you don't have to say that I also know, my sister-in-law is the Mei family, I will marry one day, as long as my sister-in-law is filial to you and my father, and my eldest brother is single-minded, my daughter will always respect her. ”
Mrs. Mei in order to exercise her daughter's housekeeping skills. In the year when Mei Ruomei and Lu handed over the affairs of the Mei Mansion to her, she just watched from the sidelines, but after Ding Yun entered the ceremony, Mei Ruomei handed over the key to the treasury in front of her parents. The pairs of cards in the house, as well as the Mei family's land and grange, were all handed over to Ding Yun, and in the future, he did not interfere at all, and he was bent on getting married, and he really became a pampered lady.
"Do you feel wronged?"
"Mother still doesn't know me? Where will there be grievances, this is not the most normal rule? People who have no rules and decency will let the sister-in-law who is about to marry be in charge of the house and leave the sister-in-law aside. If you don't mention me, I will do it too, my sister-in-law is also a young lady married by the Ding family, maybe she can't catch up with Mrs. Lanlinghou, but she acts in a disciplined manner, much better than when her daughter first took over. ”
Mrs. Mei poked Mei Ruomei's forehead, "Count you to speak, the Ding family is also a family with rules." How the married daughter has been trained, your sister-in-law has been instructed by a master in her mother's family. ”
"Just as you love your daughter, your in-laws also love your sister-in-law."
Mei Ruomei's smile is like huā. "Mother, don't worry, the eldest brother has a sister-in-law to help him, and he will be proud of his career in the future, his sister-in-law is not a foolish person, which of the ladies who come and go can hear the sister-in-law's tone? Miss Ding has been raised very well at this, and her knowledge is stronger than that of her daughter, I admire my sister-in-law the most, and quietly let them return one by one, not offending people inside and out, my temperament is anxious. It's not as good as my sister-in-law. Mrs. Mei stroked her daughter's cheek, "You are different from your sister-in-law, you are married to the cousin of your uncle's family, and you are not the eldest son, your temperament is just right, it is not a good thing to be like your sister-in-law." Your sister-in-law is the clan wife, and you must not claim to be a niece when you marry in, and remember to respect your sister-in-law. ”
"Mother, my daughter is not stupid, I won't make it difficult for my uncle and aunt." Mei Ruomei held her mother's hand, "I know that my mother loves me, and I am with my cousin... You know my character, you know us... will be fulfilled. ”
Although Mei Ruomei is shrewd, she is not suitable to be a clan wife, and Mrs. Mei attaches importance to her son, but she will not despise her daughter and choose the most suitable partner for her children.
"When I was in my mother's house, I got along very well with your aunt, she gave birth to two sons in a row, and when she gave birth to your second cousin, she broke her body, and there was no news over the years, your aunt wanted to have a girl who hurt, you always robbed you with me when you were a child, and your temperament is also what she likes, even if you don't have to please her, as long as your conduct is not bad, she will hurt you more, your aunt is also an understanding person, attaches importance to relying on the eldest daughter-in-law, and loves the little daughter-in-law."
"Mother, I understand."
Mrs. Mei said in detail about her sister-in-law's temperament, "You still need to remember that nieces have different requirements than daughters-in-law, no matter how much she loves you, you are no longer a simple niece." ”
"Well, I remember."
Ding Yun accompanied her mother-in-law to eat, she didn't have to set rules in front of her mother-in-law, Mrs. Mei always asked her to sit down and eat together, but Ding Yun would still pay attention to her mother-in-law's preferences and try to prepare meals for her appropriately, so that everyone was happy.
After the meal, Ding Yun helped to refer to the dowry, she is clear about the Mei family's background, not as poor as it seems, the income of the land grange is not a lot, and there are also a few stores in the capital, although it is not as rich and expensive as the family, but the Mei family's family background is also solid, Ding Yun has the silver given by Mrs. Tai to make private money, she is very generous.
Mrs. Mei's own dowry and private silver did not want to hide it from her daughter-in-law, "The Mei family's ancestral field Zhuangzi, the store naturally belongs to Song'er, my private deposit is 40,000 taels, you and Mei'er each get half, I gave Mei Yatou's to her today, once I die, you are not allowed to ask for it again, the rest of the things are your brother and sister-in-law's." ”
"Mother, will I be like you say?"
"Mother might as well give my sister more, my father-in-law's silver is enough."
Mrs. Mei said: "Song'er is my son, I have a sense of proportion, and the remaining jewelry and antiques are converted into two thousand taels, I won't loosen these, let Mei'er take them away." ”
"It should be." Ding Yun smiled and said: "I looked at my mother's jewelry, although it is valuable, but the style is what my mother likes, I have two new sets of jade jewelry, a few good antiques, my sister-in-law marries me as a sister-in-law, I can't help but say, if I don't dislike it, put it in my sister-in-law's dowry, although my sister-in-law is not an outsider, I can't let my uncle's family look down on it, my uncle and aunt don't care, my uncle's family still has uncles and brothers." ”
Mrs. Mei pointed at Mei Ruomei and smiled: "Haven't you thanked your sister-in-law soon?" Later, he said to Ding Yun, "Although this girl doesn't say it, she may want you to marry her more, and she likes jade jewelry the most." ”
The daughter and daughter-in-law saluted each other and were close to each other, and the wife of the Mei family was very satisfied, and she would feel relieved, and the children would support each other, and the Mei family would prosper, muttering to herself: "That's good, that's good." ”
Ding Yun and Mei Ruomei stood arm in arm, Mrs. Mei smiled a little, and said to her daughter very formally: "What should be given to you is given to you, and you are not allowed to resent your brother and sister-in-law in the future, they help you to be brother and sister, you have to know how to be grateful, if you have no time to take care of you, you must not be resentful, you have resentment of others, you might as well think about how you are not doing well, I am looking forward to your good, today I tell you one, it is better to ask for others than yourself." ”
"Yes, Mother."
The two of them bowed their knees at the same time, and Mrs. Mei gave her daughter a dowry list in triplicate, and handed two of them to Ding Yun, "One is sent to the yamen for filing, and one is for you to receive, my brother and sister will settle the accounts, I will never be confused on the money when I am old, I have written it clearly, once Mei Yatou is confused, she will not think about going to her brother and sister-in-law's share." ”
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