169 Is it good to be your dad
Walking out of the mall, looking at the watch, there are still two hours before the end of kindergarten, just take the bus.
I didn't want someone to follow behind, "Miss Long, where are you going, I'll send you." ”
Looking back, Tan Yueming looked at me lightly.
And Miss Jin behind him, her face was as gloomy as a rainy day, and she hurriedly caught up and grabbed his arm, staring at me vigilantly and fiercely with a pair of beautiful eyes.
Tan Yueming didn't look at her, and pulled his hand out.
She pursed her lips and looked like she was about to cry.
I said no, and kept walking.
Immediately, I heard Miss Jin crying, "Oba~ People's stomachs hurt, ah, it really hurts...... You take someone to the hospital. ”
A scumbag is a woman, a fairy couple.
I shook my head, quickened my pace, and walked towards the bus stop.
I waited for ten minutes for the shuttle bus to come, but fortunately there were not many people at this point, so I found a window seat and sat down.
In the past few years, I have been accustomed to the freshness and monotony of the mountains and forests, and I am a little stunned when I see the colorful city, like a mirage that cannot be touched.
The street scene on both sides retreated in the bustle, and suddenly swept into a champagne-colored phaeton, driving very slowly, as if following the bus.
Spotting me staring at it, the owner rolled down the window and smiled at me.
Depend on! Is this man sick, what are you doing with me?
The front light was red, all the cars stopped, and my phone rang.
It's him, with a strong tone, "Get off at the next stop." ”
I resolutely refused, "No. ”
He said angrily, "You try." ”
I was speechless, "Where did you get my number?" ”
He didn't answer, "One last time, get off at the next stop." ”
I am weak in the end, he stopped in front of the bus and honked his horn, causing a traffic jam and recruiting the traffic police.
He was a madman, but I wasn't, so I reluctantly got into his car.
If there seemed to be a smell of perfume wafting in the carriage, he couldn't help but sneer, "Mr. Tan, Miss Jin is uncomfortable, don't you go to take a look, it's too ungentleman to leave her alone." ”
He laughed, "Women occasionally pretend to be fun, but after that, they will be bored." After speaking, he changed his words, "Where are you going?" ”
I said, "Prince Kindergarten." ”
He didn't speak, turned around at the intersection, and smiled after a moment, "Have you ever sold luxury goods before?" ”
I looked at him and didn't understand why he was asking.
He smiled, "I see that you are very familiar with that brand, and the user experience is very clear, like a senior buyer and not a seller." ”
This bastard is eavesdropping on me and my customers.
Knowing that he was questioning me, the more I explained, the more it was like a cover-up, and silence was the safest.
Seeing that I didn't speak, he asked again, "Is your son going to school in Prince?" ”
I nodded, nervous, afraid that he would go back to the roots.
He was silent for a moment, "What is your relationship with Zhong Ting?" ”
I looked at him and didn't speak.
Obviously, he checked me.
I knew he would look into it, but I didn't expect it to be so soon, and we only met for two hours.
Probably didn't hear me answer, his eyes swept sharply, "You're his mistress?" ”
I said, "No." ”
He paused, his expression slightly better, "He is good to you, and he also helps you solve the problem of your child's schooling." ”
I didn't say anything, just when the phone rang, it was an unfamiliar number.
The other party asked, "Is it the mother of Li Nanxing's child, Miss Long?" ”
I said yes, and the other party said, "Hello, I'm Xiaoxue, the teacher of the Apple class, and now I want to talk to you about Li Nanxing's children, can you come to the kindergarten?" ”
I said, "I'm on my way, I'll be coming soon." ”
When I arrived at the kindergarten, I was in a hurry to walk towards the office, but Tan Yueming did not leave and followed me all the time.
Knowing that he was a Laipi, he couldn't get rid of him, so he let him go.
On the way, I met the principal, and I was a little surprised to see Tan Yueming, and greeted him with a smile on his face, "Mr. Tan, why are you here?" ”
He pointed at me, "Accompany me woman." ”
Grass, who is his woman!
I know that he is married, so to speak, don't others still treat me as a junior!
The director of the garden is a human spirit, and immediately smiled at me, "It turns out that Miss Long is Mr. Tan's sweetheart, why don't you say it earlier, if you have any problems in the future, just tell me, if there is anything wrong, please point it out directly." ”
I didn't want to explain more, so I smiled awkwardly, "Teacher Xiaoxue in the Apple class just called me, and I don't know what is going on yet." ”
The director immediately said, "Then I'll go with you." ”
Unexpectedly, when I went to the teacher's office, I saw many parents, both men and women, who seemed to be either rich or expensive.
The teacher was talking to the parents one by one, and someone led us to sit in the rest area and served a tea and fruit plate.
Seeing the arrival of the principal, a parent who looked like an official stepped forward to greet her, and Tan Yueming picked a magazine at random and flipped through it.
Next to me was a middle-aged man in a high-ball shirt, who looked to be in his early forties, with an average appearance and a good temperament.
He looked at me, "Miss, how old is your child?" ”
I said, "More than three years old." ”
He groaned, "That's about the same as my son." ”
I smiled and didn't speak.
He suddenly sighed and said depressedly, "I thought that the child had made great progress in kindergarten, but compared with other people's children, the gap was too big." ”
I said what.
He said, "I am busy with work, I got married late, I only had children at the age of 40, and I have always had high hopes and requirements for my children, and I have made a plan from the beginning of kindergarten to go to the best primary school, middle school and university in the future." My son is also very competitive, he knows almost 1,000 Chinese characters before he is four years old, he has attended four language classes, can read English and French picture books, in addition, he is also learning puzzles, piano, and was admitted to the top class of Xueersi......"
Sounds like a genius child.
Think about Nanxing, now more than a hundred are not worth counting, all day long only know to find cats and dogs, digging flowers and mud, a sense of inferiority spontaneously arises.
It's the rhythm of losing at the starting line, and I suddenly get nervous.
He asked, "How are your children?" ”
What else can I do but heheda, "Far worse than your son." ”
He smiled slightly triumphantly and comforted me a few more words.
I didn't feel good in my heart, but fortunately the teacher called a name, and the middle-aged man got up and left.
Tan Yueming put down the magazine in his hand and looked at me with a smile, "Why do you have a depressed expression?" ”
I didn't know the bottom of my heart, "Didn't you hear the man just now say how good his son is, my son can only play with mud, compared to others, it's ...... Like a retarded person. ”
He sneered, "Philistines disturb themselves. ”
I said, "You don't have any children, how do you know how we feel as parents?" ”
He didn't speak, and after a while, he asked me, "Where is the child's father?" ”
I said, "What's your business?" ”
He laughed, "Don't dare to say it? ”
That look seemed to have insight into something, and I was a little afraid to look at him directly.
was feeling sad, and the teacher called Nanxing's name, "Are the parents of Li Nanxing's children here?" ”
I shouted, got up, and walked over to the teacher.
Tan Yueming also cheekily followed.
The teacher was obviously surprised when he saw him, "Mr. Tan, how could it be you?" ”
He smiled and looked at me.
The teacher seemed to understand something, looked at me and then at him, "Mr. Tan, you are the child's ......"
He was very direct, "Godfather." ”
Depend on! This man really dares to say it.
I glared at him, and he smiled shamelessly, "It's not my godfather, is it my own father?" ”
After speaking, he didn't care about me, and asked in the tone of a parent, "Is there anything wrong with Li Nanxing's children?" ”
The teacher was a little embarrassed and looked at me with some sympathy.
I was uncomfortable with her eyes, and I thought to myself how bad my son was and needed to be sympathized.
finally squeezed out a smile, "It's okay teacher, you can just say anything." ”
She glanced at Tan Yueming and got permission before she spoke, "Mr. Tan, your godson may need to step up his studies." It was difficult for him to keep up with our classes, he knew no more than 100 Chinese characters, while the average of the class was 300, and English, he was a slow learner, he only liked to dig in the mud on the grass and make it dirty, and other children didn't want to play with him......"
The teacher said a lot of things in a row, and I became more and more desperate when I heard it.
I didn't give birth to a fool, he was so clever and cute, how could he be said by the teacher, he was useless.
Tan Yueming was very calm, "Teacher Xiaoxue, which school did you graduate from?" ”
The teacher sighed and immediately said, "I got my master's degree in education from Liverpool, England. ”
Tan Yueming sighed, "That's a good school, then you should have studied developmental psychology." ”
The teacher nodded.
Tan Yueming said, "Developmental psychology has mentioned that in language learning, children are always an active person, and as long as there is a suitable environment, they can blossom and bear fruit naturally. Remember this statement. ”
The teacher was stunned for a moment, and immediately nodded, "Yes, Mr. Tan is right." ”
"So," Tan Yueming glanced at me, and continued, "You should know that this process of flowering and fruiting is divided into several important stages, the first is 12-20 months, we call it the word sentence period, children at this stage can distinguish objects from the language environment, know that apples and milk are not a thing, at this time there is no point in recognizing words, that is, you need to know more about the things around you, look at it, touch it, and play with it." ”
The teacher and I looked at him curiously, as if he was very professional.
He continued, "18-24 months is the second important period, when you start to speak and you can jump out. Before the age of 5, it is called the preschool period, and you can master vocabulary, but the major improvement in language ability is between the ages of 6 and 14, that is, it is wrong to forcibly recognize words early. ”
"Dr. Arnold, a very authoritative expert in the field of child psychology, said that in the long run, children will learn from the age of three, four, five, six or even seven, and there will be no difference in the future."
"My son can play with mud now, and it doesn't matter if he can read or write. As a teacher, you should discover the child's talent and guide him, if you can't find his characteristics to help him grow, then your education is a failure, and I have to consider investing in another institution. ”
The teachers, the principal, and even the parents on the side were dumbfounded.
Tan Yueming added, "Before I was 10 years old, I never passed the exam, but this did not prevent me from going to school and starting a business. ”
How successful he has been is obvious to all.
The meaning of his words is obvious, when he is young, he may not be good, and when he was a child, he was ordinary, which does not mean that he will not be productive in the future.
After leaving the office, I asked him, "Where did all the bluffing stuff you just said come from?" ”
He smiled, "Don't you see how seriously I read the magazine, I think the analysis of the above education experts is quite reliable." ”
I said, "Did you write it all down?" ”
He laughed, "yes." Memory is a thing that is half born and half trained, I can, my son can. ”
Although I don't want to have anything to do with him, I still have to admit that I admire him.
If it weren't for the fact that there were so many unsolvable grievances between us, he would have been a good father.
Nanxing was very happy to see Tan Yueming, "You are the uncle who is the same as me, with two spins on his head." ”
Tan Yueming glanced at me, "Yes, but don't call me uncle, I'll be your father, okay?" ”