(Yang obedient order 'chaos', clear to be reverse.) Violent and wanton, it is self-defeating. Conform to the movement, and follow the movement. The lower hexagram of this hexagram is Kun for the earth, and the upper hexagram is for the earthquake and thunder.

When the contradictions within the enemy have already been 'exposed,' we should not rush to attack the enemy, otherwise we will force the enemy to reunite and fight back with one heart, but we should avoid them from afar, so that the contradictions will further intensify and even develop into mutual fire, so as to achieve the goal of winning without a fight.

The so-called road knows the horsepower, and it will be popular for a long time. Mother-in-law and sister-in-law are not enemies, and former love rivals are not opponents. But when someone with bad intentions kills a horse gun, there is no need to rush to fight back, and it is better to let the people around you recognize the facts before taking action. Anyway, it's not weird, let it be self-defeating. ）

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Bai Ningruo was not a beauty originally, but she was delicate in appearance, elegant in temperament, simple and elegant in clothes when she was a girl, and had a reputation for being kind and talented, so her appearance and color increased a lot, and she became the first beautiful 'girl' in Luqiao Town.

And at this time, when she appeared in silk and satin, wearing a head full of pearls, and the arrogance that was hidden in her face, the whole person felt a lot worse.

Jia Bao 'Jade' once said: "A 'female' child is a priceless jewel if she is not married." got married, and somehow, there were a lot of bad 'hairy' children. No matter how old it is, it's not a bead, it's a fish eye! How can you conjure up three things if you are a clear person? ”

When I read the Red Mansion before, I felt that his words were too general, because there are always many 'women' who are not like this, and she has also seen beautiful and gentle 'women' for a lifetime. But obviously, Bai Ningruo did not escape this law.

She's here to show off, and you can see it at first glance. She showed off that she had lost her little light, but she married better, at least her husband's family was rich and powerful, and she didn't need to jump into this poor pit like before. But she didn't understand that Ruchu and Xiaoguang really loved each other, so these material conditions did not become an obstacle to their feelings. It is said that poor couples mourn everything, but there is also a saying that there is love and water is full, when two people really work together and are single-minded, all the difficulties are not as terrible as imagined.

In modern times, I have seen the love and affection of husband and wife who are scavenging, and I have also seen the men and women of rich families looking like each other. Matter is important, but it is not absolute. Bai Ning didn't understand this, and it seemed that she didn't really let go and look away. This...... Presumably it was because he heard that Ruchu was still staying in the Qi family to 'operate' housework, so he made a grand appearance, right?

Ruchu was a little sympathetic to the white girl, and she didn't care about the wealth and gorgeousness of others, and her jinghai cloth skirt. The so-called priceless treasure is easy to get, it is rare to have a lover, she is married to a man who truly loves each other, what money treasure can't give up? But she won't say it, and she won't do anything unkind.

Like a standard little daughter-in-law, she stood aside with low eyebrows, watching Bai Ningruo move in with large bags of gifts, watching her sit in the guest seat with golden light and greeting the old lady and his wife, saying goodbye, and always with a calm smile on her face.

She was really happy, and although she had been tired and thin for a month, and her hands were thick, her heart was warm. Even if she looks like a servant now, and Bai Ning is a noble 'woman', her psychology is not unbalanced. Moreover, she decided not to respond to all of Bai Ningruo's provocations, just to let the old lady, especially the lady, see who is real gold and who is brass.

Many people and many things cannot be seen without going through the test. A person with a good reputation may show a bad thing that no one else has ever seen when his own interests are undermined. A seemingly selfish person may also exhibit good qualities in times of crisis.

However, Bai Ningruo's methods are not low-level, and he never said how rare the gifts I gave are, and how much silver I have to 'spend'; the golden hairpin and the jewel on my head can buy the entire Qi family's mansion and renovate it; I am tired of the delicacies of the mountains and seas every day, so let's use these foods to improve your life; my servants are too many to use up, and I don't have to make my own home, look at the poor appearance of your parents and granddaughter-in-law......

She just kept gossiping with Mrs. Qi and Mrs. Qi, and the things she wanted to show were quite "inadvertent".

"Ning Ruo, I know that you are a filial and polite child, but these things are too precious and too much, I think we will leave a small snack made by you and receive your heart. Take the rest home and give it to your father. After chatting for a long time, Mrs. Qi said with a smile.

Although the Qi family is poor, they are official relatives after all, and before Mrs. Qi got married, her mother's family was also a big family, so she could see the value of those gifts clearly, and she also knew that Bai Ning had the heart to show off. However, she always felt that she owed the Bai family, and her attitude towards Bai Ningruo was always a little softer.

"Madam, if you say such a thing, you will be outspoken, and you will be sad." Bai Ningruo persuaded, "Although I have no relationship with Yuan Jing, you and the old lady watched me grow up, and they are my elders, so is there anything wrong with receiving a little courtesy from the juniors?" You asked me to take these back, because I was afraid that my sister-in-law would mind and refuse to contact me more? ”

"That's not the case." Mrs. Qi said busily, "It's really the Bai and Qi families who 'make friends', and such a heavy gift is lifeless." The gentleman's 'friendship' is as light as water, and Jimei and Ruyi are still young, so that they can see such valuable exchanges, and they are afraid that they will be restless in the future. ”

You can say that again. Worthy of a lady! As before, he secretly praised.

However, Bai Ningruo said, "I have no mother since I was a child, so I treat my wife as my own mother." As a 'girl' to send something to her mother, what else is not light? Jimei and Ruyi also understand. Alas, you can take it, and let me take it back, it's weird. I know Madame's thoughts, next time I will be a sensible 'girl', don't embarrass Madame, don't embarrass Madame this time, right? ”

When she said this, Mrs. Qi didn't have anything to say. Seeing that her daughter-in-law was embarrassed, Mrs. Qi interjected and said, "I'll just say that the white girl is a good one, and your family is really blessed." But you also know that our Qi family has a small population, so much food and use, I am afraid that we will not use it, and it is not good to 'waste', but I am afraid that the Buddha will also blame it. ”

"Jimei and Ruyi are both older, and they will be engaged to start a family in the next year or two, and these things are the gifts that my sister gave in advance, and they can also come in handy when they get married." Bai Ningruo insisted on not taking back the gift, "If you eat these things, please ask your sister-in-law to clean them up, and give Jimei a tooth sacrifice." He practices literature during the day and martial arts at night, so he has to take care of his body. Young man, you can eat it, what is this little thing? Alas, I didn't meet Yuan Jing this time, but he came back and ate some of the things I sent, and I fulfilled my heart. ”

Ruchu stood aside with a smile, although he didn't speak, but listening to Bai Ningruo's mouthful of Yuan Jing, it was a little uncomfortable.

At this time, I heard Qi Jimei smile and say, "How does Sister Bai know that my sister-in-law has excellent cooking skills?" Sister Bai looks at me a lot of weight, right? You don't know, since my sister-in-law got married, she has made me food every day, and it hasn't been the same, my sister loves me, I'm happy, but I also ask my sister to rest assured. ”

Attaboy! Usually always put a shelf, eat so many good things, and didn't directly praise her, as if she was lame 2580,000, but when she was squeezed today, she 'stood up', which proves that this kid has fully accepted her. Great!