Ye Xiulan smiled, although she looked forward to her daughter marrying well and meeting a considerate husband, but the marriage was also mutual.

Mutual adaptation, mutual understanding, mutual respect, mutual tolerance, mutual waiting, mutual support, etc.

In Ye Xiulan's view, marriage should also be mutually patient, accommodating and compromising.

Almost all the women in these ten miles and eight towns have come over like this, and in this society, women have too many last resorts.

But now that the new society has slowly changed a lot, women can hold up half the sky, and more men are slowly learning to respect women and their wives.

"If you don't do it, you can't do it, someone has to do it in a family."

As soon as Ye Xiulan's words fell, Wang Qiulian said: "Husband and wife can't live too much, that is, they must divide labor and cooperate, and they must take care of their families." ”

"No, the family needs the husband and wife to work together and live with their hearts."

Gu Weixuan saw that the three women began to talk about the concept of marriage, and she somewhat agreed in her heart that marriage is mutual, and husband and wife operate together, otherwise a person will be tired if he pays unilaterally.

Fu Tingting didn't speak anymore, and listened silently, whether it was Ye Xiulan, Wang Qiulian or Yang Xiuying, who had been married for more than ten or twenty years, they all had their own views and experiences about marriage in their hearts.

Marriage is not a matter of husband and wife, but a combination of two families, after all, it is impossible for people not to talk about kindness at all, and it is impossible to completely leave their parents and relatives behind.

Marriage is not just about one's own small family, but also about shouldering the responsibilities of both families, supporting parents, and handling various relationships between families and relatives.

Talking and laughing, the meal has been prepared, Fu Tingting and Gu Weixuan went to wash the dishes, Si Weichen and Xiang Tianhua were already setting the table outside, and Weiyang Weiming went home to move stools and chairs.

There is good wine and good food, the venison is made by Gu Weixuan, Ye Xiulan thinks that the venison made by her daughter is delicious, so she lets Gu Weixuan do it.

The three families sat at two tables, one for men and one for women, and the atmosphere was harmonious.

Mead is sweet, Fu Tingting likes to drink it, Yang Xiuying, Wang Qiulian and Zhou Minqin also like to drink it.

Not to mention the Gu family, home-brewed, Ye Xiulan often drinks it, and Gu Weixuan occasionally tastes it.

Men generally don't like to eat so sweet, so it's okay to taste it, but not much to drink, and prefer sweet potato wine or white wine to honeycomb wine.

The Si family soaked deer bone wine, deer antler wine, and deer blood wine, but they were still buried in the ground.

This will talk about the Fu family, and I want to move to the provincial capital.

Fu Qianqian and Fu Tingting's jobs are in the provincial capital, and Yang Xiuying is a county trade union officer, and she has the opportunity to be promoted this year, but Yang Xiuying wants to transfer the relationship to the provincial capital.

Their county seat is located in a small and remote city in the provincial capital, and there is no train in the city, and it takes one or two hours to travel from the county seat to the city, but it takes five or six hours to take a car from the city to the provincial capital, which is far away.

It's just that Zhou Minqin is reluctant to be here, she has lived here for so many years, and there are many old friends in the county, and people are old and don't want to live in strange places.

But his son and granddaughter work in the provincial capital, and they are usually very tired when they come back once a week or even once a month, and Zhou Minqin is not unforgiving.

At the dinner table, Zhou Minqin said: "Xiuying transferred to the provincial capital to work, we can't continue to live in the compound, we can divide the house in the provincial capital if we move forward, we still have to buy a house here in the county, and we usually have a place to settle down when we come back." ”