(The form is forbidden and the situation is forbidden, the benefit is taken from the near, and the harm is separated from the distance.) Fire up and down Ze. The upper hexagram is separated from the fire, and the lower hexagram is exchanged for Ze.

This plan was proposed by Fan Sui during the Warring States Period, and it is more like a foreign 'friendship' strategy, which means that due to geographical conditions, there is no need to attack distant enemies, but to make 'friends' with them, and for neighboring enemy countries, they should attack, so that they can not only eliminate their own hidden dangers, but also use the road to neighboring countries, and do not make too many enemies. In this book, it refers to the harmless strategy adopted by the first 'woman' to improve family relationships. ）

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After Xiaoguang left, Ruchu felt isolated.

In fact, if you think about it rationally, others are not hostile to her, everything is because the Qi family does not fully accept her. So at this moment, the hard battle to win over her hearts and minds began to begin.

She had observed that the old lady was not disgusted with her, and that her old man's principle was that as long as her grandson was happy, the world would be peaceful. This means that as long as Xiaoguang says good things for her, she is the best granddaughter-in-law in the world.

After that, Xiaoguang's sister Qi Ruyi.

This little girl is more than six years younger than Xiaoguang, and she is only in time for this year, and her appearance has inherited the advantages of the Qi family, and she is very delicate and beautiful. But it's probably because the family education is too strict, the behavior is very old-fashioned, and the innocence of the little girl is missing.

As I first thought, all young 'women' are lively and 'sexual', although they are dignified and serious on the surface, but deep down they must yearn for freedom and unrestrainedness. In addition, from Qi Ruyi's occasional peeping eyes, it can be seen that the little girl who has never been out of the house is a little curious about her, and even ...... Envy. Therefore, she plans to start from this point and win Qi Ruyi first.

Of course, she doesn't want to bring the good Miss Qi to the bad of her, run around like her, and spend such an age to get married, but to tell her what she has seen, broaden her horizons, and increase her self-confidence, so that she will not be bullied when she marries in the future.

But it is estimated that the little girl is affected by the surrounding environment and is more wary of her, so she can't approach in a hurry, so she decides to ask Yae to take the lead first. After all, Yae's identity is a maid, and it's closer to Ruyi's age. Then, she planned to call Qi Ruyi to teach her the house rules in a few days, so that they would become familiar with each other, and things would be logical in the future.

Then there is Xiaoguang's younger brother Qi Jimei.

On the surface, Qi Jimei repels her the most, and she doesn't talk to her when she meets, her little face is always stiff, as if she is disgusted with her, that arrogant. But listening to Xiaoguang say that when their marriage is not going well, Jimei is the first to sympathize with them. Therefore, his current performance is just because of shyness.

However, he seems to admire his brother very much, so as long as she is thick-skinned, always takes the initiative to greet him, and talks more about Tianjin Weixue and Xiaoguang's participation in the fight against Altan Khan and the martial arts exam, she should be able to approach him. As long as he understands that she really regards him as a younger brother and wants to be a good sister-in-law, it shouldn't be difficult to subdue his heart.

Then there are Qi Ji's servants who have a total of four, Yong Uncle who watches the 'door', Zhang's mother who helps Mrs. Qi 'handle' housework, and two girls, Red Feather and Cui Yu.

Under normal circumstances, selling oneself into slavery is to seek food and clothing, earn more, and work less is the best choice. And in the Qi Mansion, they earn less and do more, but because Mrs. Qi treats them well and never withholds and tortures, they are actually loyal to the Qi Mansion.

They are the worst for Ruchu, if Mrs. Qi still has to pay attention to the face, although the attitude is distant, but it is quite gentle, but they have no scruples at all, as long as the Qi family is not there, they always speak coldly to Ruchu, and the things to be done are also delayed, and sometimes even say: "Isn't the young 'milk' and 'milk' married to the slave?" Qifu is so big, we don't have enough manpower, please ask the young 'milk' and 'milk' to call their own girls to do things. ”

Someone else said, "I heard that the master of the Qing family is a rich man, why don't you buy more people to dowry?" ”

These words always make the eight heavy qi half dead, and I want to find them to theorize, "What haven't Mrs. Qi and Mrs. Qi said yet?" When will it be their turn to speak? I think it's a slave bully! I think I've been in the Qi family for a long time, what's the matter? Even Miss, you dare to push back! No, I'm going to have to fight with them and get rid of these evil slaves! ”

Seeing the appearance of Yae rubbing his hands, it was funny and distressed at the beginning.

Although Yae is just a girl, there are smaller girls who serve in Hufu, Yae is just a special "door" and "servant" for her, and the degree of food and clothing is better than that of ordinary people's "women", and the "sex" is also very public. When I was away with her, I was like a sister, where did I do heavy work? But since I married her, I was afraid that she would be embarrassed, for fear of being said that the nouveau riche was uneducated, and she had to endure three points in everything, and the working hours were several times more than before, but she never complained.

Now, it's when she sees someone who treats her badly that she has a seizure.

"No." Ruchu stopped her, "Hades is better, the little ghost is difficult to pick, it has always been like this." Besides, I don't think they deliberately targeted me, just because Mrs. Qi didn't like me, and there was still Bai Ningruo's impression in front of me. ”

"They are a group of dogs who look down on people, in fact, our Hu Mansion is not an ordinary business travel house, and the old man was an official who was bigger than the old man Qi. Miss, you can't tolerate it any longer, or they'll kick their noses in the face, and sooner or later they will be able to live a peaceful life. If the master knew, he might be more distressed. Yae tears are about to fall.

When it comes to Hu Dahai, Ruchu is also a little sad. It's not that the Qi family abuses her, it's just that no matter how good her in-laws' family is, they don't care for her as meticulously as their biological father. With grievances, thinking about Hu Dahai, my heart is always sour, and I often think of the feeling of being pampered.

It's just that people have to grow up, they will be painful when they grow up, growing up means losing something, they have to take responsibility when they grow up, the feeling of being unconditionally pampered, and occasionally go back to their parents' homes to experience it, if you hold on to it, how to live your own life? How can you get something in life? If you have something, you will run to your mother's house and let your father worry, which is also unfilial.

Therefore, since she got married, she has only returned to her parents' house twice. First, when I went back to the 'door', I went to see Hu Dahai, who was still staying in Jining Prefecture. Second, when he sent Xiaoguang back to Hai Defense, he secretly ran away again. Now that Hu Dahai has something to do and has returned to Jinling, she has to solve everything by herself.

"Yae, arguing is not a skill, it is great to be able to subdue their hearts." Ruchu comforted Yae Dao, "Do you think that Miss, I can't even resist this difficulty?" ”

"How to take it? Looking at their attitudes, one by one, I can't wait for Miss to be divorced! ”

"I'm trying to figure it out, you have to trust me."

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