331 Refusal of marriage
"Then I say you listen! You are in a high position, and your words and deeds will have an exemplary effect on your subordinates!
Your refusal to marry will cause the young soldiers of the Guangzhou Military Region to have a misunderstanding of their consciousness, believing that as a soldier, they should have the motherland in their hearts and sacrifice at any time, so it is best not to marry a wife and have children.
Your thoughts will unconsciously flow out in your ordinary work, causing you to silently influence many people unconsciously.
Even when your subordinates have marital confusion, you, as a superior, can't do any effective ideological work for them, because you are a failure case in marriage!
As a soldier, since you want to be excellent, you must be excellent in all aspects, your work must be prominent, your life must be handled well, and your marriage must be managed well.
If you're an ordinary warrior, that's fine, but if you're in a high position, you have to set a good example! Otherwise, you don't want to be in a high position! ”
Jiang Beibei said sonorously and powerfully, not only continued to coax Jiang Nan and persuaded Zhou Tian to change his mind according to his wishes, but also because she left Commander Zhou who was standing outside.
Didn't expect him to come back so soon? As a commander, isn't he busy?
Your son really can't hurt anyone! He completely refuses marriage, isn't this a harmful girl?
"Well said! If you are in a high position, you should be a good example for the soldiers! The first failed marriage was the fault of our parents, and you are not wrong!
It's because we didn't find you a kind-hearted and gentle girl, this time, Dad specially selected for you are all good-tempered, do you choose with a little thought? ”
Commander Zhou strode in, and when he came back this time, he didn't even worry about his marriage after even working a little.
Commander Zhou blamed himself very much for his son's first marriage, he didn't find him well, and he didn't insist on rejecting Li Shuangshuang's arrogant daughter-in-law.
This is a parent who owes his child, and he must find a really good daughter-in-law for him, so that his son can be like Xie Jiangnan, husband and wife are harmonious and beautiful, and happy!
Soldiers are to serve the motherland, but soldiers also have beautiful love!
"Dad, you came back so early? Busy playing? ”
Zhou Tian diverged the topic, and it was also a test of Dad's bottom line. Don't really do it for your own marriage, Dad doesn't even care about his own work, right? The surname Cao is staring at his father! Don't make the late festival unsafe!
"What's the busy? If it weren't for your marriage, I wouldn't have come back! It's a pity that my familiar comrades-in-arms and family members are all here, so I can only find them for you here.
And you shouldn't stay long in Guangzhou, maybe you will have to go to the capital in the end, or find one for you here with peace of mind.
The day after tomorrow, you give me a little spirit, don't have a cold face, say hello to everyone, Beibei, Jiangnan, you help choose together, you must find another one for him! ”
Commander Zhou directly took out the tone of command and did not allow his son to escape.
Zhou Tian's lips trembled, and in the end he didn't say anything.
Yes, if you insist on not agreeing to this matter, let Dad leave his job like this and keep tossing about this matter, Dad will definitely not be able to protect his evening.
Think about it or signal Jiang Beibei with your eyes and continue to implement the first set of plans?
Jiang Beibei saw Zhou Tian's gesture and smiled slightly, with a thought like yours, you have to don't fool people!
I'll definitely help with this, but don't tell people about it, everyone will understand!
Sure enough, in the afternoon, Jiang Beibei was handed over to his upstairs study by Commander Zhou, and the two of them studied the girls the day after tomorrow.
Hehe, Jiang Beibei has the illusion of choosing a concubine for Zhou Tian!
I didn't expect Commander Zhou to worry about his son's marriage to this extent!
Considering his son's second marriage, he also took Sissi with him, and did not directly marry his comrades-in-arms, but asked their families to bring good-tempered and pure-hearted girls to the banquet in their respective units.
"This time, I definitely don't look for good conditions, just this kind of ordinary family, all girls who have suffered hardships.
These are divorced, but they don't have children, and they can have another one with Zhou Tian after they get married, and then Sissi will also have a companion, whether it is a younger brother or a sister, and many relatives are not so lonely! ”
As soon as Commander Zhou said this, Jiang Beibei instantly felt that Commander Zhou's father's love was like a mountain.
Don't Commander Zhou want Zhou Tian to have a son, right?
In the past two years, family planning has just been implemented, and a couple can only have one, and if they have two, they must meet the conditions, such as ethnic minorities, for example, the first child is problematic, for example, the remarried party has never had children.
Commander Zhou, this is vague, you want Zhou Tian to give birth to a son, right?
Sissi is lonely? Sissi is now living and learning with Wenwen every day, how lonely is it? Third, children are not brothers and sisters, but they are better than brothers and sisters, okay?
Suddenly, Jiang Beibei felt that the whole person was not good! Secretly glancing at Commander Zhou's fatherly love, he couldn't imagine that he forced Zhou Tian to get married just to give birth to a grandson!
However, to be honest, in the early days of family planning, countless people couldn't figure out this policy, because it is really that for thousands of years since ancient times, the Chinese people have pursued the idea that unfilial piety has three nothings and three nothings.
When there is no way to give birth to two, everyone can only accept it, but whenever there is a chance, they must want a son in their hearts.
Forget it, don't despise Commander Zhou, even if he has such thoughts in his heart, he can't be blamed.
Moreover, in 30 years in Hedong and 30 years in Hexi, in the future, such a policy will be adjusted, and even encourage the birth of a second child.
Such a national policy changes with the change of population structure, and there is no way to do it.
Who let people have too many children during the recuperation period after the end of the war in the previous decades? If birth control had been carried out at that time, there would have been only two or three left in a couple, and the policy of having one child would not be pursued now.
In the fifties and sixties, ordinary couples often gave birth to five, six, seven, or eight!
"Commander Zhou, I'll try my best to help you observe and look at Zhou Tian, sometimes we look good, but if you don't look at Zhou Tian, it's still in vain.
I believe that I can cross the same boat for a hundred years, and sleep together for a thousand years, without fate, we can't go together! ”
Jiang Beibei smiled and promised that he could only help this, in fact, this is something that cannot be interfered with at all!
But who allowed themselves to be too deeply involved with their family? I can come out to let off the wind this time, or is it protected by Commander Zhou, what should I do?
I'm also helpless!
If it weren't for the idea of thinking about the girl, Jiang Beibei would even think that Zhou Tian is so filial to your father, it is better to obey, right?
But thinking about Li Shuangshuang's ending, Jiang Beibei finally felt that people like Zhou Tian were still good for the rest of their lives!
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