Chapter 144: A Sense of Psychological Gap

Ji Kuan knows very well that once a person has his own home, even if it is between brothers with excellent feelings, sometimes it is inevitable that there will be conflicts due to the influence of the daughter-in-law in the family.

Although I still see that Tiegen and I still have a good relationship, I still treat myself as a brother. But his daughter-in-law and his sons must not have such deep feelings for themselves.

If this thing really develops according to Beibei's words in the end, it is Tiegen himself who doesn't think so. But as long as his daughter-in-law, which of his sons thinks like that. In the end, can you guarantee that the iron root will not be affected?

"So what do you say? If we don't look for your Uncle Tiegen's house for this, then he will also have a pimple in his heart. Ji Kuan frowned and thought for a long time without a solution, and finally found Ji Beibei to get an idea.

"It's actually quite simple."

Ji Beibei looked at Ji Kuan and said word by word: "Dad, in fact, as long as you make it clear to them from the beginning." Then let them choose for themselves. ”

I didn't understand.

Ji Kuan looked at Ji Beibei suspiciously, and motioned for her to continue with his eyes.

"Dad, people in this world always like to say 'contentment and happiness' because people are generally not easy to be content, so they have to say that. It's the same for everyone, even ourselves. ”

Ji Beibei smiled: "For example, if you and your mother make money, do you still think that you can make so much money every time in the future?"

But if one day, suddenly one day, there are many people in the provincial capital who sell wild goods like you. Your business is not doing well, and you are making less money all of a sudden?

Is it possible that you will feel very lost at that time? And then find the reason from others, blame others for the fault that you can no longer make so much money, and resent the Venerable Master? ”

Ji Beibei shook his head slightly as he spoke: "Of course, I believe that my parents are not like that, I am a metaphor, if there is such a case, you are more likely to be lost for a while, even if you can't avoid resentment, but it will definitely not be long."

You will certainly begin to actively look for solutions. I know that you are such people, but there are not many people like you in this world, and more people are more likely to hate others from now on.

Most of the reasons for this are because the psychological gap is too large. ”

"Feeling a psychological gap?"

Ji Kuan immediately thought of the books that Ji Beibei had read in the bookstore in the provincial capital for several days before, thinking that this should be the big truth she saw from the book, so he nodded without any doubt: "It sounds right, but I still don't understand, why did you say that it would be okay if you made it clear?" ”

Ji Beibei: "That's because if we make it clear to them first, then they will definitely be as excited after making so much money like the little brother today."

But they have already been mentally prepared in their hearts, and they know very well that this money is not always able to make so much. In this way, when the money they make is really less, they will not only not feel uncomfortable, but will continue to be happy.

Because of the sense of disparity, they will even feel that it is normal to earn less, and the previous ones were all windfalls.

So not only will I no longer be unhappy because I have made less money, but I will also be more grateful to you because of the money I made before, and thank our family for giving them the opportunity to make more money at the beginning. that they may make that windfall. ”

Ji Kuan: "......"