Chapter 55: Persuasion

The Liu family was stunned for a long time by Ding Roushi's earth-shattering words, and reconfirmed: "Are you completely leaving the Ding family?" ”

"Hmm." Ding Rou nodded, "What kind of life did you live in the mansion before, doesn't my mother know?" I can't make a mistake, and there is a third sister who stumbles on me everywhere, and I will be in the hands of my wife for the rest of my life, mother, you said that my wife is a good person, but I don't want to live that kind of life again. ”

Liu pursed his lips, seeing that Ding Rou was very resolute and didn't look like he could change his mind anymore, "Xiaorou, my mother feels sorry for you, what can you do with silver?" Can we keep the money? My mother has nothing to ask for in this life, so I just want to see Mrs. Xiaorou be peaceful. ”

Ding Rou's heart was half relieved, Liu was willing to go with her, Ding Rou explained: "I'm going to find a way to protect the land, after leaving the capital, we can go to the Jiangnan water town incognito to live, Daqin is not taboo for women to remarry and go out, you can ask the dart master to escort all the way, we go all the way, we are not in a hurry, all the way to the mountains and rivers, see the place you like to live, buy a few acres of fertile land, hire a servant, the mother is the wife, I am a young lady, the widow moved to the house, it is very ordinary." ”

The fortunes of the Great Qin Dynasty are moving towards a prosperous era, Ding Rou has inquired about almost no rebellions in various places, and there are not many bandits who rob the road, and their mother and daughter can ask the famous dart master to escort them all the way to the south of the Yangtze River, who can know them at that time? To get the identity of the distant relatives of the Qian family, Ding Rou is sure enough to resist the prying eyes of others. In ancient times, the folk customs were simple, distant relatives were not as good as close neighbors, as long as Ding Rou did not cause trouble, no one came to embarrass their orphans and widows.

"Lost a father?" Liu slapped Ding Rou, "Don't talk nonsense, how can you curse the master?" ”

Ding Rou rubbed her shoulders, and said to the Liu family with a thought turn: "Just use Heli to relocate, it also makes sense." "Because of Empress Taizu, although Daqin's harmony is less than him, it is not as easy to do as orthodox ancient China, Liu is the aunt of Master Ding, and she has been on the official document of the government, and it is clearly recorded that Liu is the concubine of Master Ding, and it is the concubine room that has crossed the Ming Road, and the same room girl is different.

"Mother, how can you use and leave?" Liu's self-pity bitter smile, although she has passed the bright road, she is a concubine after all, and she is not qualified to use it for his wife.

Liu remembered something and asked, "How do you explain to the Ding family?" ”

"I contracted a sudden illness and died." Ding Rou grabbed Liu's arm, "My mother is also too sad, and she left with her daughter after she was bored, can my wife still open the coffin for inspection?" Mother, if there were no ghosts, my daughter would have died a long time ago, and I didn't see that Ding Fu had a saying that he was worried about his daughter. ”

Ding Rou put on a look of disappointment in Ding's house, so that the Liu family could listen to her, Ding Rou said it was not completely false, without her crossing and leaning over, the Liu family could not guarantee that she would not die due to the transition of her daughter, Ding Rou was Liu's life. Liu sighed: "No wonder you are interested in Dingfu... Xiaorou, you have an idea, and your mother doesn't say much, your mother listens to you, but there are some things that the mother has to tell you. ”

"You are separated from the Ding family, you have silver and good land, but you are no longer a lady of the official family, and it will be difficult to marry a big family in the future." The Liu family will give Ding Rou his concerns, "We have lost the protection of the Ding Mansion, even if we are scholars, we can't look down on you, are you willing to marry the Shangjia family?" Or is it a rich man? Xiaorou, although you are not from your wife, for the sake of your mother's loyalty to your wife in the past, your wife is a sensible person, with the noble family background of the Ding family, even if you are a concubine, you can find a good marriage. ”

"Is it a blessing to marry into a big family? Haven't seen enough? "Ding Rou is not afraid of fighting, not afraid of fighting, but it is worth her fight and worthy of her fighting, "I want to live a shallow and leisurely life, filial piety, marry a pleasing and loyal person, there is a saying that is not afraid of entering the wrong line, just afraid of marrying the wrong man, family background and money are secondary, and a good man who can devote himself to his daughter is worth marrying." Besides, what happened to the rich merchants? As long as you are willing to have one heart with your daughter, you will still live a good life, and you are a hundred times stronger than the children of a literati family who are full of flowers. ”

Ding Rou is a mature modern person, she has her own moral bottom line, has received many years of education, and does not look down on businessmen and landlords. Ding Rou is more confident that as she gradually adapts to the life of the Great Qin Dynasty, the days will get better and better, it is not the ability to fall into the inner house battle, create a piece of heaven outside, and play a career to be worthy of the modern education she received, all day long with the same group of women fighting for a man, Ding Rou can't afford to lose people, she chooses her husband by herself, and trains her own.

Liu couldn't say anything about Ding Rou, and finally asked, "You really decided?" No more changes? ”

"Mother, I did the math, when we leave the capital, we will have a net worth of nearly 20,000 taels, and I am ready to go to find a land to protect the road guide, will I change my mind? Listening to Li's mother today, I have to speed up, who knows when Ding Fu will pick me up? ”

Liu sighed: "I toss with you, life and death are the same as Xiaorou." Liu Shi hugged Ding Rou, looked at her daughter carefully, and smiled: "You are not like me, your temperament is more and more like a wife, Xu You should really be the daughter of your wife, it was the mother who sent you to the wrong stomach, and you and Miss Fifth are three months apart." ”

"I'm my mother's daughter, and I always will be." Ding Rou straightened the hosta for the Liu family, "Mother, I forgot all the nonsense I said before, it was Ding Rou who was ignorant and made my mother sad." ”

Liu said with a smile: "Xiaorou, being a mother will not remember that her daughter is wrong for a lifetime, my mother is looking at your busy work in recent days, and the future will be arranged, remembering Mrs., Mrs. did not have to marry the master, and whispered to you, Mrs. was also selected by thousands of choices, you don't know at that time... Forget it, it's all in the past, my mother won't talk about it, in short, Xiaorou is very much like Mrs., more like Miss Five. ”

It's not looks, it's not temperament, Liu has a feeling, Ding Rou and Mrs. are the same kind of people, Mrs. can always see everything clearly, arrange things properly, when Ding Mansion came to propose, the first look was not Mrs., the previous things are not clear, Liu only knows that the master is the wife of the Ding family, husband and wife respect each other like guests, Mrs. and the master have never blushed, Mrs. has a son-in-law, and the eldest daughter is Mrs. Lanlinghou, and Mrs. Sister, the most favored fourth lady is not in a very good situation, It is said that everything about Mrs. should be Miss Four's, and she gave up choosing the wrong husband by herself.

Liu sighed secretly, her daughter thought clearly, the woman was afraid of marrying the wrong man, and the wife also said it, the daughter planned and then moved, which is like enough for the wife, Liu felt that if Ding Rou returned home, the wife would prefer the current Ding Rou, Liu shook her head, I don't want to, it is rare for her to see her wife and master in her life, and it is good to follow her daughter Ding Rou.