Chapter 32: We Have Grown Up

"Growing up is growing up, this is indeed an indisputable fact. Even if in terms of appearance, people look very young, our actual age is here! You can't always numb yourself and deceive yourself! We can't always be humorous: say that we will always be eighteen years old all day long, and the childlike innocence must be true, but it must be appropriate, and it must be divided into occasions and places, for whom! I'm sure you can understand me, too. ”

Zhang Fengyi said these words, he didn't want to slander him, let alone have any prejudice and grievances against him, he was just stating a fact, which is the embodiment of his attitude towards life and his attitude towards life, which is also the embodiment of a realm. At the same time, it also showed his own free and easy. He lives a real and natural life, and he definitely doesn't deceive himself.

"Of course, I can understand that I appreciate your attitude towards life calmly, this kind of indifference and ease that not everyone will have. Desirelessness is a higher realm, and not fighting is often a big fight, no wonder you are so good. ”

When Fang Longxing said this, it was more about admiration and appreciation, rather than deliberately complimenting and praising him. He knows all the advantages of his favorite, and he doesn't need to exaggerate and accentuate too many flowery words, the facts are there, and people can't shirk it. The aura and battle of the person he loved couldn't be more obvious, and he didn't need to draw snakes anymore.

"I can't boast of being excellent, I just want to live simply." Zhang Fengyi said very modestly, freely and naturally. I couldn't see any change in his mood.

Oh, yes! What a word! I just want to live simply, what a far-reaching and philosophical realm! Who in the world can really do it? Especially in his current position, it is not easy to live a simple life, but it is difficult to be simple!

People often deliberately make many simple things complicated, returning to the basics is a realm, but also a natural and primitive form, but the complex human heart distorts the essence of things.

If we always maintain: no matter in which field of life, whether it is work or life, we must learn to "do complex things simply, simple things repeatedly, and repeat things with heart!" What a good thing it should be!

Of course, simplicity is not simplification, simplicity is to do each step clearly in place, simplification is: several steps are combined, omitting the process that should be, and things are often ruined on simplification. Repetition is not copying, it seems to be repeated, but none of them are exactly the same, each time there are different factors added, all changes occur naturally in the process, from which to find out the shortcomings to make up for and correct, continuous innovation, success is just around the corner.

Repetitive things to do with heart, step by step, and to do with the five senses, only with the heart can we find the similarities and differences, see the essence of the thing, understand each process, in the implementation of the plan process, there will be many unexpected things.

At this time, you need to keep filling in the gaps, constantly fine-tuning, sorting out different contexts in different periods, and constantly summarizing the success factors to add them, and then doing things better and better each time, constantly improving, and constantly moving forward, and it is self-evident what kind of effect can be achieved.

"Fengyi, your summary is so incisive, I really admire you from the bottom of my heart." Fang Longxing listened to his words, and was as shocked as when he saw his appearance! His affection for him rose to a new level once again.

"Admire me? I really don't dare to be! But you are also very good, I have heard many rumors about you before, you are better than you in terms of excellence, and sure enough, you are as magnificent as your name, and you are the leader in the world. ”

Zhang Fengyi praised his small hair from the bottom of his heart, of course, it also contains the elements of the scene, whether in terms of family, friendship, or love, he has already regarded him as a brother, and without the element of a lover in it, he is a lot more polite.

"If it comes to excellence, I'm ashamed of myself, you and I know it. I am half a pound and eight taels, and I still have self-knowledge! It's that you are very modest, obviously very well-known in the industry, and you are so humble that no one can match. is the so-called: Phoenix Dance for nine days, who competes. But there is one thing that I have always wondered, you have so many opportunities to go to the headquarters in Canada to develop, why give up the opportunity to further your education? ”

Fang Longxing doesn't want to communicate with Zhang Fengyi anymore, what he wants is his love, he wants to get his lover, he doesn't want to use scene words, kind words, or official-like words to talk to his dearest people, which seems too rusty and not close to real life.

He wants to find the feeling of being like a family, the feeling of being close to his lover, without any defense, without a mask, and without saying anything, to the extent that he has nothing to say, this is not the feeling he wants.

So he changed his mind and asked a question that had been buried in his heart for many years, which was also one of the questions he wanted to know the answer to, and this question also puzzled him for a long time.

If Zhang Fengyi had gone directly to the headquarters in Canada at that time, the distance between them would have been shortened long ago, and there would be no need to wait until now. If he doesn't come back to him, won't he ever go to Canada to see him? This question has always puzzled Fang Longxing.

"Everyone has their own ambitions, I don't have any lofty ideals and ambitions, for me, where development is the same."

Zhang Fengyi only used simple words to summarize it confusingly, only he knew that when answering this question, he used a statement that went against his will.

Let him say what? Did he reply: "I am because of you, I love you, I know that there will be no result between us, and at the same time I am afraid, or dare not go, to approach you directly, face you, only deliberately choose the way to escape!" It's good to stay away from you! ”

In his expression, there was a hint of helplessness that flashed instantly, but it was so fast that people couldn't catch it and it was not easy to detect.

"Just because you don't have big ideals and ambitions? How do you explain that you have achieved such a brilliant achievement? Isn't that a contradiction? Where does what you do prove that you are a person who does not have high ideals and ambitions? There are no ideals, no ambitions, it should be unknown! What the hell are you hiding from me? ”

Many questions flowed through Fang Longxing's mind, but he was never able to ask. Now was not the time to solve these problems, he didn't want to make a big deal out of the scenery and dwell on these topics anymore, so he adjusted the topic again.

"What do you think of me? What has changed for me? Fang Longxing wanted to know what he looked like in Zhang Fengyi's eyes, and continued to understand his heart on this issue.

"You've changed a lot, but your personality seems to be the same as before." Zhang Fengyi hit the nail on the head and evaluated Fang Longxing, but he was only half right. Because of the kind of character he showed, this intimacy, can only be unique to him, it is what Fang Longxing will only show in front of him, the other side of Fang Longxing, he has not really seen it!

"There is an old Chinese saying that says: 'The country is easy to change, but the original xing is difficult to change,' how can a person's xing personality be easily changed? Xing grid is like an ID card, it will follow a person's life. Even if it is to change, it will vary to varying degrees from person to person and from event to event. ”

When Fang Longxing said this, he actually secretly signaled to Zhang Fengyi: I haven't changed, I haven't changed to you, my heart for you hasn't changed, I am still the Fang Longxing who loved you when I was a child!

"Some things have changed, they have changed, and they can never be found again, it's not that I don't trust you enough. For example, if you have someone you like now, we can't go back to the past, and you and I will end up going to be separated. ”

Zhang Fengyi sighed in his heart, he also hid this subtext, and instead began to talk with him on other topics, and it was meaningless to endlessly entangle the past problems, and he really couldn't stagnate.

"You speak Chinese relatively well and fluently! It was something I didn't expect. Zhang Fengyi was quite emotional when he heard him say this, he had to cultivate his good attitude first, and when talking about other topics, he was not stingy with his praise for him, Fang Longxing's standard Mandarin was indeed good, and he couldn't help but praise.

"That's not for you!" Fang Longxing replied without thinking.

Zhang Fengyi's eyes widened and he looked at him with a look of surprise and questioning, he really thought that he had heard it wrong. Is there any mistake about learning to speak standard Mandarin for me? How can it be for me alone? What a joke! This joke is not funny at all, I still think about it myself

Finish? Self-inflicted? What's the rhythm? What kind of medicine is this guy selling in his gourd? Or did you take the wrong nerve and take the wrong medicine?

Seeing this, Fang Longxing felt as if he was out of control again, and he didn't hide his "fox's tail", but what he said was really true, so he immediately corrected it:

"I mean: in order to be able to communicate with you better when I return to China, and to be able to communicate with the company's employees without obstacles, I have never stopped learning Chinese." He said word by word, to hide the panic in his heart. It's so hard, it's so hard! He breathed a sigh of relief, as long as it made him not feel uncomfortable! I put up with it!

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