In the next few days, I don't know what the eldest lady did to Ding Min, Ding Min was very old and silent, and she no longer saw the fierce opposition of that day, as if she had accepted her fate to marry the Shangdang Hou as a step-room, the eldest lady tied Ding Min to her side, and in the name of preparing for marriage, Ding Min was not allowed to leave.

Because Prince Bao came to the news that Ding Rou's wedding date was set for the eighth day of the next month, although the eldest lady felt a little anxious, but where did she dare to disobey Prince Bao's will at this time, and after making a small decision with the Yin family, the eldest lady first took charge of Ding Shu's marriage, fortunately, she and her sister already had a tacit understanding, and the original set was to marry at the end of the month, Ding Rou ranked sixth, Ding Min has a Buddhist monk who is not easy to marry early, and Ding Shu will naturally marry before Ding Rou.

Ding Shu is the concubine of the Ding Mansion, the eldest lady has always loved her very much, the conditions of the Zhu family can only be said to be average, the eldest lady has no opinion Chapter 282 Quasi-marriage, how can the eldest lady let Ding Shu be wronged? Ding Shu is the first daughter of Ding Donggao's promotion, and the eldest wife tried her best to make the marriage luxurious, spilling out a lot of invitations, inviting noble courtiers all over the world, and Ding's mansion was lively for the wedding of the fifth lady.

Although the eldest lady looked at Ding Min very tightly, there were many people who came to Ding Mansion to congratulate her, and the eldest lady didn't want Ding Min to regain other people's ideas, so whenever this happened, she would let Ding Min go to the compartment to do needlework, and let people watch and serve Ding Min.

The eldest lady is worried about Ding Shu, Mrs. Tai has also stepped up teaching Ding Rou in recent days, because of the tight marriage date, Mrs. Tai doesn't need to make any roundabout points, and directly cuts people with a big knife, "I know that you have said something to Yin Chengshan, and I know that he agreed, but if I want to say a man's words today, you can only listen to half of it, and you don't believe that you can't do without you, it is instinct for men to be romantic, you know?" ”

Ding Rou was stunned, was her grandfather Mrs. Ding too? In ancient times, men were indeed given the environment of three wives and four concubines, but in modern times, how many are not careful? Mrs. Tai dragged Ding Rou in front of her and looked at her carefully, "She looks delicate, and her temperament is also very stable, and she is smart Chapter 282 Quasi-marriage, but you remember to me, you can't guarantee that you are his last woman, with you, he will not give birth to flowers." ”

"Grandmother, he wouldn't be like that."

"After you get married, you will be released out of Beijing and go to that flowery place, which is not credible."

Ding Rou pursed her lips, "What can I do if I don't believe it?" He will also give birth to an outer heart."

Ding Rou didn't get along with her ex-husband, "If you say so, I don't even want to get married." ”

"Nonsense, didn't I just teach you how to hold on to your husband today?" Mrs. Tai thought for a while and said, "Twenty years ago, someone sent two singers to your grandfather, and I originally wanted to say that I would not keep them, but seeing your grandfather's face, they later collided with your father, this is an excuse, and your grandfather can't say anything wrong."

Before she did something, I used a trap to ruin her reputation, and made your grandfather disgusted to this day, she didn't run away from me, she couldn't stay in Dingfu for a day, and escaped from the capital in embarrassment, I thought she would commit suicide by throwing herself into the lake, some people said that I was ruthless but she betrayed my trust, and I was calculated by her if I was not ruthless. ”

Ding Rou nodded slightly: "Grandmother is not ruthless." ”

The wrinkles between Mrs. Tai's eyebrows are a little less, "Liuya'er, your temperament is most like me, Yi'er and they can't say anything like you, it's not that I don't want to teach them, but you and I care about them, although they also care, but they have learned to ignore it like your mother." Shu'er is lucky to marry a cousin who is wholeheartedly with her, it is expected that the Zhu family will not have any concubines except for two intercourse girls, Yin Tanhua is different, he has a lot of contact with people, and he is also involved, you have to remember not to always remind him of the promises he made before, he will be separated from you if you use it too much, the man's heart is not in you, and it is useless for you to fight. ”

"I know." Ding Rou nodded, "I don't always say that. ”

Mrs. Tai continued: "Even if he brings back whom, see it clearly before making a decision, don't hold on, no matter how smart you are, you are in the back house, you don't necessarily know everything about the outside, stay and understand, let him know your grievances, he will naturally favor you, and it will not be convenient to pick up people like rootless duckweed?" ”

"I know that you have read Empress Taizu's codex, and the most common thing Empress Taizu says is that women don't embarrass women, this sounds atmospheric, but you can remember that you can say it on your lips, and you are not allowed to take it seriously in your heart.

Rou didn't care much about this sentence, if Empress Taizu had cleaned up the imperial concubine earlier, it would not have been to the end, Emperor Taizu was not worth saving, but her man, even if he didn't want it, couldn't give it to others.

Mrs. Tai smiled with relief: "I knew you would understand what I meant, Ding Rou, I will tell you one last word, I have been scolded for being a jealous woman in my life, but I am at ease, there is a sacrifice to gain, it depends on what you value, you must not believe that a man must have three wives and four concubines to gain the emperor's trust, the emperor must be the loyalty of the courtiers, or the talents of the courtiers, the emperor will not care how many wives and concubines there are in the backyard of the courtiers, as long as Yin Tanhua rises step by step and the inner house is safe, they are just happy in the back, When I hear this, I usually think it is a word of envy and jealousy. I have been blessed all my life, and I cannot keep their mouths shut, and what is the matter with me for any more jealous words? Isn't it stammering in front of me? ”

Ding Rou looked at Mrs. Tai with admiration, it turned out that the highest person was her, she was neither crossing, nor rebirth, and she did not get the help of the gods, but Mrs. Tai's persistence was stronger than many people, I remember that my best friend once said that marriage management depends on means, she obviously failed in this regard, if she found out earlier, maybe she would have done more beautifully, and the child would not have been miscarried.

"Thank you grandmother for the point." Ding Rou's hand on the cuff clenched, she would not make the mistakes of her previous life again.

"The last sentence, a man can't stand the temptation, don't let those warblers and swallows entangle him, test whether he is sincere to you and don't need those people."

"Well, I remember."

Mrs. Tai hugged Ding Rou, "Liuya'er, grandmother hopes that you will live well, better than everyone else." Although you were not raised by me, you have been by my side for several years, and among my granddaughters, I love you the most. ”

Pinching her granddaughter's cheek, Mrs. Tai said: "You have been trained by the master, and your thoughts are far-reaching than mine, I am both happy and worried, it is a man outside, do you understand?" ”

Seeing Ding Rou nodding, Mrs. Tai said, "I'm relieved." ”

Mrs. Tai took out a wooden box from the kang cabinet and handed it to Ding Rou, "Your dowry was prepared by your mother, and I can't say a word more under the pressure of the rules of the system, you are a concubine in the face." ”

"I don't blame my grandmother, you're doing it for my good, I know." Ding Rou opened the box, which contained several precious pieces of jewelry, and under the jewelry was a silver ticket of 10,000 taels, "I, I"

"Take it."

"Thank you, grandmother."

Mrs. Tai's laugh lines are even heavier, if Ding Rou politely refuses to accept it, she will be disappointed, Ding Rou does not accept it because she can't tell the truth from the false, and she can't tell the difference between the serious.

"I'll help you watch, your mother won't treat you too badly, although it's a concubine's dowry, but it's also a lot, you don't know about the dowry, some concubines' dowries seem to be a lot, in fact, a lot of things are scenes, they are made for people to see, your mother's dowry to Ding Min will be beautiful, but it doesn't take much silver in total, this is also a skill, it doesn't crawl out of her belly, I don't want to say anything, hey"

Ding Rou knew that Mrs. Tai was very emotional, even if Ding Min repeatedly disappointed her, and Aunt Liu did something wrong, Mrs. Tai didn't care about them on her face, but sometimes she would help, "The third sister may need silver."

Mrs. Tai nodded and said, "I left her another 1,000 taels of silver tickets, and I will give it to her before she gets married." ”

Ding Rou looked at the silver ticket of 10,000 taels in the box, Mrs. Tai was still eccentric, and after Mrs. Tai took a sip of tea, she said: "I let you manage those five shops, one Zhuangzi, and I will let people pass under your name." ”

"Grandmother"

"You deserve it, six girls, I'm your grandmother."

Ding Rou smiled with tears: "Grandmother give me more." ”

"Go, no." Mrs. Tai poked Ding Rou's forehead, "I have to leave the rest to my son and grandson, no matter how good my granddaughter is, she has to get married, and her grandson will support her for the elderly." ”

After that, the matter of the dowry was revealed, and Ding Rou and Mrs. Tai had a tacit understanding not to talk about it anymore.

At this time, Ding Min held Yancui's hand, "I won't forget your kindness today." ”

Although Yancui is a little out of tune, she can understand a little, Ding Min is good, she is good, except for Ding Min, no one looks down on her, she has always been thinking about being Ding Min's dowry maid, listen to Ding Min's meaning, she will definitely marry into the Hou Mansion, Yancui is rare and smart, taking advantage of the large number of people, looking for an excuse to go to the Divine Doctor's Gate, Yancui's usual mediocre image is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and the eldest lady doesn't take her seriously at all.

If it weren't for Ding Min really couldn't find anyone, Ding Min wouldn't have believed that Yancui could get things done, since Yancui always caused trouble, Ding Min gradually alienated her, Yancui said: "I will not give up for the third lady." ”

Ding Min was grateful to Yancui, and clenched the porcelain vase in his hand, "Tomorrow's fifth sister's wedding will definitely be very lively, and the eldest sister and Hou Ye will also come." ”

Yancui froze when she heard this, "Third Miss, do you want ̈"

"I won't be a concubine, my eldest sister is not in good health." Ding Min chuckled: "Yancui, I will let them beg me to marry, no matter what, I will not marry the party marquis, he is not only clumsy, but also ugly." ”

Two days later, Ding Shu got married, and the guests of Ding's Mansion gathered!!