Chapter 98: Who's Right and What's Wrong
Shen Erhua's words made many people listen to them.
This is indeed a good solution.
As long as Li Dagen gets married, then everything will be solved.
Naturally, his daughter-in-law took care of him.
More than 30 yuan, which is enough for two people every day.
What is a daughter-in-law, she was a golden baby when she didn't marry back, and if she wants to come back, she will be a lump of dirt, and she will be a free nanny who stutters.
A wife was the lowest-cost servant of the age.
It's like when you play a game, everyone wants to contract a pet.
Mrs. Li was immediately convinced, and said, "Then, I can't say it, I will go to my in-laws' house tomorrow and ask, and see when this matter will be done, anyway, I will have a kiss." ”
Dagenniang said: "It's a good saying, but the family has no money, how can I marry a daughter-in-law?" What's more, Dagen is like this now, isn't that harmful? Whether people are willing or not, or between the two, they are in a hurry to say that they are married, and if this good family affair is gone, who will find him again. ”
From this sentence, it can also be seen that she is a mother-in-law, after all, she still cares about her son's marriage.
Just like Li Dagen, spending all the money and going home to let the family wait, isn't it a kind of moral kidnapping of the family?
At this time, forcing marriage without preparation is actually a moral kidnapping of the woman's family, and it is not authentic.
Dagenniang herself is unwilling to accept such a status quo, so she feels that her in-laws will not be willing to accept it in the future.
The village chief felt that this was indeed very reasonable, and he could solve the dilemma in front of him and said: "No matter what, we have to let the family know the truth, specifically, you two will discuss it again, Li Dagen is a combat hero, and the people of my village committee will help with his affairs, if there is any need, just say hello to us, we can't do it, and what about the commune?" ”
If it doesn't work, use the commune to put some pressure on the other party, so that the other party can quickly marry his daughter, who is already engaged anyway.
Dagenniang said happily: "Okay, good, that's good, with your words from the village chief, I'm relieved." As long as she agrees to marry, the family's house is ready-made. ”
The Li family left the village chief to eat, and the rest of the people walked home in groups of three or five aftertastes.
Shen Erhua walked towards Shen Tiantian, and the sisters walked home.
Shen Erhua said hatefully: "Dagenniang is really, it's simple, I don't want my own son, and my heart is too ruthless." "I chattered along the way, as if it was my own business, and I was very upset.
Shen Tiantian glanced at this second sister, because of the different levels in the family, the situation of two girls of similar age is so different, Shen Erhua and Shen Tiantian must have contradictions, but they must be more affectionate than other sisters.
So Shen Tiantian hasn't talked to this second sister very much, I'm really afraid that I will show my stuffing.
I don't know why, after falling into the water, the second sister didn't talk to her very much, and the two of them had a cold war for a month.
Now Shen Erhua is probably immersed in her own thoughts, so she just cares about her thoughts: "I think Brother Dagen is really unlucky, he was brought by Grandma Li when he was a child, shouldn't he be good with grandma?" Dagen Niang eats this vinegar, and has always been bad with Brother Dagen, Brother Dagen is twenty-four, and he is not married yet, all of them are delayed by Dagen Niang, how can there be such a vicious mother in this world, I think that in the future, Su Yueya will marry her, and she will definitely be bullied. ”
Shen Tiantian said: "Will Su Yueya marry her?" ”
Shen Erhua affirmed: "Definitely, she has been engaged to Brother Dagen, and now that Brother Dagen is like this, of course she will marry." ”
Shen Tiantian felt strange, in the countryside, there is generally no deep relationship between the two parties, especially not in a village, and it is often a blind date that can be booked.
If she is replaced, if you don't have a deep relationship with the man, there is really no need to jump into this fire pit.
Shen Erhua was so sure, was it because of her education that she should be, or did she know something.
However, the name Su Yueya still has one or two heroines.
In the name of Li Dagen, it is really not like the male protagonist.
If it is replaced by Pei Linchuan, it will still have a bit of a phase.
Shen Tiantian only wrote these down and observed them secretly.
As for what Shen Erhua said about how vicious and shameless Li Dagen's mother was, Shen Tiantian didn't think so.
Shen Erhua Sanguan has always been a little crooked, and to be friends with this kind of person, you must be cautious, if you don't have anything else, you will be taken into the ditch by her Sanguan.
Although Dagenniang said a little ruthless, in fact, in Shen Tiantian's opinion, she is not the best.
It's just that I don't love this son very much, and he deals with problems simply and rudely, and is too rational.
Because if they are willing to love this son and do everything to help the eldest son recover his health, although the human and moral reasons are in the past, it is not unfair to the younger son.
The fault should only be this Li Dagen, who gave a large amount of money to his comrades-in-arms on the premise that he was not able to take care of himself.
Even if your comrades-in-arms are really short of money, then you can give less, to ensure that you are not a drag on your family.
I gave all my money to others and became a good person, and now it is the people in the family who are affected, and if a man does this, the family will not be good.
Don't say that Dagen Niang is not affected, won't her current reputation be completely ruined?
And in whose hands is this reputation ruined, isn't it Li Dagen?
If Li Dagen still has a sum of money in his hand, he doesn't need his mother to take care of him at all, but can ask someone to take care of him.
Of course, Shen Tiantian will not think that Li Dagen is a holy father because of this, because when you don't know a person, you may not be able to see his true intentions from one thing.
Back home, eat.
Eating is like a battle, and in the humble kitchen, more than a dozen people are murderous as if they are going to battle.
If you don't work today, it's impossible to feed them at night.
The desperate dish is gone in a few bites, and it basically only takes a few minutes from start to finish.
The lights were lit in the hall, the family sat together and talked, the sisters sat together and pinched their pigtails, Shen Erhua said that Dagenniang's best incident, she was very resentful, and her position was clear, against a selfish mother like Dagenniang.
"Mothers don't protect their sons, and this life is in vain. The whole village had never seen anything like it. ”
Wu Hongxia sneered and asked her soul: "That is, you little girls are so ignorant, I heard that there are more than 3,000, and they are all given to their comrades-in-arms, which is impossible."
If a comrade-in-arms dies, can the state not give money?
There must be no more than 3,000 but more than 1,000, plus a pension, isn't it enough for a widow to raise two children, and even the child has money to marry a daughter-in-law in the future, so why does Li Dagen have to give the money to his comrades-in-arms. ”