Yun Shanshan was excited, if she caught Chen Chen and Wen Yang sleeping, then she would definitely divorce her as soon as possible!

"Okay, tell me, I'll go see what they're going to do for you!"

Yun Shanshan smiled happily, and Tang Shining told her the address where she had lived with Chen Chen before.

"Shanshan, listen to my advice, men can't be stalked, now you can see it, Chen Chen he hates me, it's my wishful thinking, it's me who sticks it upside down, I don't want to embarrass myself too much.

He is right, a qualified ex should be as quiet as dead, and from now on, I want to live a good life and find a man who loves me. ”

"Xiao Ning, I understand what you said, but I just love and allow, love so much that I can die for him, will you? Will you die for Chen Chen? Yun Shanshan's eyes were a little proud.

She is showing off her love, she can die in order to allow it, she is so desperate, so crazy and infatuated!

Tang Shining suddenly laughed and said: "Shanshan, we are college classmates, you will always love yourself the most, you are the same kind of person as me, you can't die for a man." I'll go home first and contact another day. ”

"Good. If you don't believe it, I'll prove it to you. Yun Shanshan still insisted on her idea.

Shouldn't loving someone die for him?

The highest level of loving someone is to be able to give up everything for him, even if it is life.

"Shanshan, I now understand that the premise of loving someone is to ask that person to reciprocate the same love, otherwise it will be harassment. I will be grateful to Chen Chen for what he said just now, and I think you will gradually understand. I'll go first. ”

Tang Shining turned around and left after speaking, with tears and a smile on his face.

The way people love each other should be what Chen Chen said, they can get each other's echoes and responses, if they don't have the same feelings, it's not love.

Yun Shanshan drove over according to the address provided by Tang Shining, parked the car, and saw the car that Chen Chen was driving.

At this time, Wen Yang and Chen Chen were sitting in the living room, the curtains were wide open, Wen Yang was already awake, it should be said that she woke up when she was pushed by Tang Shining at the door of the bar, and she also heard what they said.

Especially Chen Chen's views on love, which gave her a refreshing understanding and recognition.

In her previous life, she was just stubbornly and unilaterally in love with him, eager to live with him and see him every day.

Now think about how ridiculous, love needs two people to respond and feel at the same time, who is missing, if one party does not have the same feelings, it is not real love.

The appearance of love should be what Chen Chen said, the two have the same experience, understand each other's hearts when they look at each other, and know what the person they love wants.

I want to guard him all my life, do anything with him, and accompany him when he is terminally ill, and that kind of relationship is the embodiment of love.

She sat on the sofa with a glass of white water in front of her, Chen Chen sat next to her and said, "I brought you the money that you are allowed to keep, 20,000 yuan, take it well." ”

"I won't ask for his money. Chen Chen, I want to ask you, is the theory of love you just told Tang Shining your own understanding? ”

Wen Yang has never thought about what love should look like, and he doesn't know how to do it to experience the feelings that Chen Chen said, and how to determine what kind of feelings are love.

For love, she is a blank slate.

Even if love comes, she doesn't know.

"You woke up right then? Love is a key for people who love each other, it is the lock that opens the door to each other's hearts, there is no fixed theory of love, what I said is just some cognition that I have experienced or heard from friends, we may not know when love comes, but we can really feel it.

When you want to be with someone all the time, want to have children with him, want to have him, accompany him, and only want to be with him regardless of birth, old age, sickness or death, then that person must be the most important person to us.

However, love has a premise, the person you love must have the same desires or desires as you, he can also feel how you feel when you get along, love should be beautiful, it should be the driving force that makes us persevere, and it is the catalyst for pleasing each lover, rather than endless entanglement and interruption.

It's not one-sided wishful thinking, it's superfluous interruptions. It is a very uncomfortable feeling. Just like Tang Shining's entanglement and misunderstanding of me, she actually called what happened between me and her love, which simply tarnished love. ”

Chen Chen took a sip of the white water in front of him, neither of them knew it, and the words they said were coming word for word into Yun Shanshan's ears under the window.

"Chen Chen, what you said is really good. But love is so difficult, people's hearts are not so easy to understand, it is very rare to understand a person, you must have had a lot of beautiful love, right? ”

Wen Yang is ignorant and humbly asks for advice, in this regard, she must admit that she is a love idiot.

"It's not hard to get to know someone. It is difficult to love someone, it is even more difficult to admit that you love someone, it takes perseverance to love someone, maybe it is a lifetime, until you die, and it takes practical actions to admit that you love someone, and you need to use your whole life as practice. I've only heard of love, and I'm still longing for love, and the girls I love are all some illusions, and they will change their flavor in the end. ”

Chen Chen drank the rest of the white water in one gulp, got up and walked to the kitchen and said, "I'll go get the wine, I drank half a glass at the bar." ”

After listening to his words, Wen Yang was still ignorant, it was really difficult to understand.

Is it hard to admit to loving someone?

How hard is it?

Chen Chen took out the wine and poured a full glass for himself, and Wen Yang asked him embarrassedly: "How can you make one person admit to loving another?" Is there any way? ”

"Haha! You women are like this, you always want to hear men say that they love you, in fact, most men will never say these words in their lives, maybe you think it's not just a sentence? Is it hard to say?

But I'm telling you, it's really hard to say. Some people's love, maybe they have experienced ups and downs in their lives together, and they will not say the words I love you to the people they love. You know why?

Only true love doesn't need those fancy promises, just the unwavering waiting, just like saying, I like a girl and sleep with her, but I don't necessarily love her, let alone tell her that I love her.

If I love her, I don't necessarily sleep with her, but I will definitely guard her, protect her, take care of her, give her everything she wants, and do my best to make her happy, even if she doesn't love me.

Of course, what I just said may be more extreme, it should be said that whether it is two people or one person, he will have love, but the premise of love is not hurt and endless taking, the gesture of love should be to give and bear. ”