If it weren't for the accident that night, the biggest conflict in the family would have been the occasional complaint that the child would not save money when the parents bought all kinds of valuables for the child.

But the accident that night turned Lin Wenbo's life upside down, and his personality became sensitive and suspicious from that day, and the weakness of his personality was released with a greater effect than ten times.

And Lin Su and his wife didn't know anything about it, they couldn't understand their son's change, and they couldn't accept it, so the differences became bigger and bigger, and the contradictions became deeper and deeper.

Lin Su has been a teacher for half his life, he is not only a teacher, but also an educator, in private, he recalled more than once what he did wrong in his son's education, so that he taught his child like this.

He can accept his son's rigidity, accept his cowardice, and accept his unfaithfulness to marriage, but he can't accept his disregard for his granddaughter's life.

That was the only thing that touched the bottom line of Lin Su and his wife, and it was also the point that Lin Su and his wife had always been unable to let go.

Even today, when the past is revealed, Lin Su knows the past of the past, he can't accept it.

It's so hard to live alone, and empathy and compassion are one of the most important things in life, and cubs are the most heart-wrenching.

Lin Su has experienced wars and changes in his life, he has seen a lot of dead people, and he has experienced a lot of dirty, but he has always been kind, and because he has seen too much, he has a bottom line that is higher than everyone in life.

No one can touch it, not even their own son.

Lin Su had to admit that he was a failure in Lin Wenbo's education, and even to Lin Qingjun, he was not responsible, he had no chance before, there was little contact between the two sides, Qiao Meng didn't like Lin Qingjun to be too close to them.

He didn't have a chance to influence this grandson anything, so he could only try to stay away from him and let him have less strife.

But now that he has a chance, Lin Su wants this child to grow up a little more, at least not like his father, and his temperament changes after a little blow.

He did not shy away from pointing out his father's difficult life back then and the failure of their husband and wife's education.

Lin Su sighed and said: "Your father is different from your two uncles, the environment in which he grew up is different, and his personality is naturally too different, if your grandmother and I could pay more attention at that time and let your father suffer a little less, maybe your father will be a different person now." ”

Lin Qingjun's eyes flashed with confusion, and he asked, "Is Dad not good now?" ”

"It's not bad," Lin Su pondered: "It's just too much, your father cares too much about money." ”

And Lin Wenbo obviously doesn't have the open-mindedness of his parents, two brothers, and even his daughter, which is one of the reasons why Lin Su and his wife have always felt indebted to him.

Lin Wenzhan and Lin Wen'an were both well educated and artistically educated in their growth stage, not to mention their calligraphy and painting, the two teenagers who were particularly extravagant at that time also talked about the piano.

Their childhood and youth were spent in college with their parents, and the most important thing in the university is the teacher, the children of the Lin family are smart, good-looking, and cheerful and generous, there is no one who doesn't like them, so this teaches a little, that teaches a little, and the education they received at that time can be said to be not weaker than Lin Qingwan, who was carefully raised by Lin Su's father later.

But Lin Wenbo was born at the wrong time, his childhood stage was the most difficult period for the Lin family, his two elder brothers listened to his mother's guqin and his father's poems when they were still in their wombs, and after birth, the couple could spare a lot of time to educate, at least there were a lot of stories about going to bed every night.

When he was five years old, Lin Wenzhan and Lin Wen'an were naughty and clever, but they were also well-known smart children in the compound, and they had learned to memorize 300 Tang poems.

When Lin Wenbo was five years old, he took a branch under his father's hand and drew his name on the ground, and at that time, Xiao Lin Wenbo only had hunger and food in his mind, and he did not have much desire to read and write.

It wasn't until he was ten years old that the Lin family's situation improved, he could not only dress warmly, but also eat well, and occasionally had meat, and his talent in learning was stimulated.

The Lin family has a unique advantage in reading, because they are born to read, even if Lin Wenbo prefers to follow his friends to play sparrows and dig birds' eggs, and is more interested in the pork stall in the village than in learning, he can still be the first every year, proud of the entire village.

After returning to the capital, he was also very good at reading, his classmates envied him, the teachers liked him, and he was always very proud.

However, when he returned to the compound, it was different, and although the discussions of the adults were vague, he still heard a lot.

It is said that he is much worse than his two elder brothers, temperament, and talent, of course, the focus of the adults at that time was not to compare him with the two elder brothers, but to pity Lin Su's two sons who died on the battlefield, and felt that if they were still alive, the Lin family should be a different look at the moment, at least with Lin Su's connections and the excellence of the two children of the Lin family, the height of the Lin family will not be lower than that of the Yi family.

But this kind of regret stung Lin Wenbo deeply, especially after that incident, his life was threatened, and even his family was powerless to shelter, and that kind of shame, shame and inferiority complex reached its peak.

If his two elder brothers were still alive, would Yan Cong dare to kill him so unscrupulously?

If he can have two elder brothers, Yan Cong dares to touch him, and Yi Xu dares to threaten him?

Since the outbreak of the Yan Cong case and the role of Lin Wenbo in it, Lin Su has been recalling the experience of his son's arrival since he was a child, no matter how big or small, as long as he still remembers, he has written them down one by one, including the continuous deterioration of their father-son, mother-son, and father-daughter relationship in the past 20 years.

Slowly, he naturally analyzed his son's psychology.

Except that he didn't know why his son wanted to starve his granddaughter to death, he guessed the rest.

may be because of the stiffness with his parents and the loss of their financial support, Lin Wenbo, who used to be just a little picky, attaches more and more importance to money.

As far as Lin Su knows, he never borrows money from others, nor does he lend money to others, and the gifts to others are always on the lowest line, even for the leader, it is only slightly increased.

Fortunately, although he loves money and picks the door, he doesn't do anything to bend the law for bribes, and the picking is more reflected in life.

As for their son's education, Lin Wenbo and his wife have never been stingy, and the money spent on Lin Qingjun over the years has been nearly two million.

In addition to this, he is almost stingy in other ways, not only with others, but also with his family, but also with himself.

Even if the income is not low, there was a little subsidy from Lin Su and his wife a long time ago, they are only middle and lower in terms of food and clothing, and if they have money, they either buy fixed financial products or save them, even Qiao Meng will not buy luxury goods.

Lin Qingjun wouldn't have paid attention to these before, but now he knows from his grandfather that it's not that his mother doesn't want to, but under the influence of his father, she wouldn't do it before, and now she almost doesn't think about it.

Qiao Meng knew smartly that if she also spent money lavishly, the couple would definitely have irreconcilable contradictions.

Under the influence of Lin Wenbo, Qiao Meng has also changed a lot over the years, and he is also very money-saving, and he is also reluctant to spend his own money.

Otherwise, she wouldn't have set her sights on Lin Qingwan's house last time, and this time she wouldn't have thought about letting her pay for her medical expenses.

Lin Su felt that their husband and wife were a little sick about money, and he didn't want his grandson to learn from them, so he was still very welcome for his grandson to stay here, and occasionally cultivated his sentiments, and it was best to practice his words well.

In the words of the old man, "There is nothing bad about the characters of the descendants of the Lin family, that is, your father's words are also in the middle and upper, but unfortunately, his conditions were not good back then, and he didn't work hard to practice later, otherwise he can earn two dollars by selling words now, so that he doesn't even have extra money." ”

Lin Su pointed at Lin Qingwan and said: "Don't look at your sister's age, the one she wrote last time was very good, I sent it to be framed, and people saw it and paid 20,000 yuan directly, over time, when her words are getting better and better, she will make a name for herself in the circle, and some people will come to her with money in the future." ”

Lin Qingjun opened his mouth wide and looked at Lin Qingwan in shock, it turned out that his sister was already so powerful?

Lin Qingwan smiled at him, "You are only twenty-two this year, and you can practice now, practice for more than ten or twenty years, forty or fifty years old is the peak of life, and you can have a turnover when you are short of money." Of course, this is a cheesy saying, in fact, the most important thing in practicing calligraphy is to be calm, introverted and steady, and to gather momentum. If you are angry, sad, happy, or sad, you can rely on practicing calligraphy to calm down, which is the fundamental. ”

Lin Qingjun looked at his sister for a while, and asked in a low voice: "Sister, your personality has changed so much, did you practice it by practicing calligraphy?" ”

"Almost," Lin Qingwan remembered the past, and smiled slightly, every time she lost her temper or caused trouble, her grandfather would punish her for writing, and if she wrote too much, her momentum would be restrained, and then she followed Professor Chen to restore cultural relics, which was delicate work.

Sometimes in order to separate the crumpled silk cloth with handwriting, she has to hold a magnifying glass and pinch the tweezers to separate things one by one, and restore them, sometimes a small cultural relic may not be able to be repaired in a month, which is a very grinding thing.

If Lin Qingwan didn't have the habit of practicing calligraphy, she wouldn't have been able to do it at all when she first came into contact with this job.

It was only the second semester of her freshman year, and she was the only one in her class who was called to do this work with the juniors.

But in the end, there were only five people left, including her.

Some of those who left were eliminated by the teacher, but more gave up on their own. In Professor Chen's words, talent in their line of work is important, but patience and diligence are even more important.

Especially patience, doing scientific research and restoration work is boring and long, and a person with a detached personality and a short temper can't do it at all.

Three years ago, who would have thought that Lin Qingwan would choose this line?

Isn't this a self-defeating job?

But Lin Qingwan just chose, Lin Su didn't object, but encouraged her to do it, and then a little thug girl who couldn't rub sand in her eyes evolved into a gentle, gentle, slow-voiced, skillful and gentle lady (fog).