Chapter 117: People are good and are bullied
"People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. This truth, my mother always understands! My mother always thought that if we took a step back, we could make everyone peaceful, so the eldest aunt and Liu Juan were not happy to work in the field, and it was always our family who did it. We are always scolded and beaten under the fence, and you always let us endure it. But, mother, there has never been fairness in this world that can be endured, and you have to fight for it yourself. The more polite you are, the more others think you're a bully! They won't thank you for being good, but they think you're afraid of them! Lu Shuangchuan slowly wiped her tears.
"It's also unreasonable to talk to them, they just want to get what they want, just like my marriage this time. They took a fancy to the Yan family, we should let us go, and if we don't let us, we are ignorant. People like them, no matter how good you treat them, they will only enjoy them as a matter of course, but once you are not as good as they want, then you are their enemy. All the kindness we had to them before will be wiped out. β
This is the brain circuit of these superb Qingqi.
Lu Shuangchuan has dealt with them for half his life, and he also understands them thoroughly.
Of course, there are such people everywhere, but it just depends on what attitude is used to deal with them!
"To deal with them who bully the weak and fear the hard, then we have to be more difficult to bully than them, otherwise they will always have to think about biting a piece of meat on us. Mother, you always say that you have a good reputation and a good reputation, but no matter how good this reputation is, you have suffered grievances and are not happy, it is all for nothing! In the eyes of outsiders, we will not praise us for being sensible and filial, but that we are cowardly and incompetent. β
Fang Pearl thought about it, it was really like this.
"Mother is not as good as you can see clearly, it's like being muddy, just asking you to follow your mother for so many years of grievances! Ah Shuang, yes, I'm sorry! Speaking of this, Fang Pearl was a little ashamed, "I shouldn't always advise you and Gu Yu to be tolerant of them and be good to them." In the future, I won't be in the future, I can see them clearly this time, and my heart is cold! β
Seeing this, Lu Shuang nodded secretly.
Her mother has lived a life of softness and temperament, and she has never thought of resisting, which is also a typical thought of women in this era. Their feudal ideology has not yet been impacted, and they are unwilling to leave this established circle, and they are always submissive.
But this time, if she can use her marriage to make her mother sober up, it would be a good thing, and she would have to thank Liu Mei's family!
However, she also knows that if she wants to hurry, she can't achieve it, so she can only slowly and imperceptibly let her mother change, and everything can't be achieved overnight.
At least, her mother's performance in caring for the calves tonight surprised and relieved her.
"Alright, mother, get up! It's so dark, there may be crawlers on the ground, but don't get into your clothes. Let's go, let's go home, there should be boiling water at home at this time, you will take a hot bath later, and it will be a good weather tomorrow. Lu Shuangchuan helped her up.
Fang Pearl bowed her head and followed her back to Ma's house.
Lu Guyu had just given Ma Lin a bath, and was sitting in the yard wiping the pitiful handful of hair on his head at this time, when he saw Lu Shuang and them coming back, he hurriedly greeted him, "Mother, Ah Shuang, you are back!" Why did you have to wait so long? What did Uncle tell you to do? β
Seeing Fang Pearl's red and swollen eyes, he couldn't help but stop talking, and looked at Lu Shuangchuan in surprise, full of questions.
Ma Lin also hugged Fang Zhu's legs, held his little head high, and said in a milky voice, "Grandma, why are your eyes red?" Who bullied you, Xiaolin helped you beat her......"
Ma Lin's soft maintenance made Fang Pearl smile for the first time tonight, she raised her hand and touched his little head, "Okay, good, our Xiaolin is the best." Grandma is fine, it's just that the mosquitoes were blinded just now! β
Lu Guyu asked Ma Lin to go back to the house first, and then pulled the two into the house, "Mother, are you still hungry?" The food was still hot in the pot, so I went and brought it. β
Fang Pearl was not in the mood to eat at this time, she waved her hand, "I won't eat anymore." I'll go take a shower first, and Ah Shuang will eat! β
So saying, she went into the house to get her clothes first.
Lu Guyu brought the hot meal, and when she saw Fang Zhuzhu's appearance, she frowned, "Ah Shuang, did they let their mother be wronged again?" β
Lu Shuangchuan didn't eat anything at first, but his stomach was empty at the moment, and he tossed for half the night, and now he was really hungry.
She directly told Lu Guyu what happened, and Lu Guyu jumped to her feet with anger.
"Hey, they're really big! I thought that the attitude of the Yan family was so obvious last time, they should know how to make a face and stop tossing. Dare to love, still waiting for us here! I've seen it upside down, but I've never seen it so shameless that it's upside down like this. That Yan Chenglou is a good job and looks thoughtful, but they are too much! Is it that she Lu Liujuan can't get married? Got to stare at your fiancΓ©? β
It's really no wonder that Lu Guyu scolded ugly, but after Lu Guixiang's incident, she was disgusted when she saw Lu Liujuan still doing the same.
"Okay, sister, this Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai, and he has to be willing to fight and suffer. If I don't pick up the stubble, can they still force it? That's better, just tear up your face and come directly to a letter of severance, and no one dares to poke our vertebrae and say that ours is not! In the end, this is also reasonable. Lu Shuangchuan said lightly, "The most comforting thing now is that my mother has finally recovered." β
Hearing this, Lu Guyu also bowed his head and said, "Yes, my mother can wake up, this is also the biggest harvest." I'm afraid that my mother is the same as before, always thinking about their good, let us endure it, this thing can't be allowed. This is not a matter of letting a watermelon and a cabbage, it is a lifelong happiness! β
After all, they all grew up in humility, and Lu Guyu didn't know the bottom of her heart before, for fear that her mother would reject the eldest uncle, and as soon as her grandmother came forward, her mother softened again.
At least for now, it seems that this Mother mentality is still saved.
I still feel sorry for them after all!
Fang Pearl stood at the threshold holding her clothes, although the voices of the two were very low, she could still hear it clearly, and her eyes couldn't help but turn red again.
Yes, she used to be blind, blinded by lard, and let her daughter not hurt, always thinking about calming things down, so that they suffered a lot!
How can she be a mother and treat it as this virtue?
In the future, she can't let them eat this grievance anymore, she can't be so cowardly and weak anymore, she always has to stand up and hold up a protective umbrella for the children, even if she can't, she can't hold back. No jokes to be seen!
Thinking of this, she hurriedly wiped her tears, straightened up, and hurried to the kitchen.
Lu Shuangchuan heard a slight sound, glanced at Lu Guyu, and smiled slightly.
"yes!"