520 Parent-Teacher Conferences (2)
Bai Tong led Lin Qingwan and Yi Han to sit next to a young man wearing thick glasses, and enthusiastically introduced them, "Sister Qingwan, this is my tablemate Qiao Ran. ”
His gaze slanted to the middle-aged woman sitting on the other side of Qiao Ran, raised his eyebrows and asked, "Qiao Ran, this is your mother"
Qiao Ran helped his glasses and whispered, "No, it's my family's nanny." ”
The aunt who had just smiled and was about to greet them froze, and quickly returned to normal when Yi Han and Lin Qingwan looked over, and introduced herself, "I am the aunt who takes care of Qiao Ran, and his parents are very busy, so please ask me to participate on my behalf." ”
She glanced at Bai Tong and sighed, "Actually, our Qiao Ran is very well-behaved, and he has never caused trouble since he lived in junior high school." ”
Lin Qingwan glanced at Qiao Ran, who lowered her eyes and didn't speak, and smiled, "It can be seen that he is a very well-behaved child." Unlike my white child, this child is young and cheerful, so he is lively and cheerful, and he has watched a lot of TV series, and he usually likes to play some emotional children's games. ”
As soon as these words came out, there was silence in the conference room.
The counselor who had just stepped onto the podium couldn't help but pause, she looked at Bai Tong, who seemed to be bowing his head obediently, and then looked at the two parents next to him, and intuitively felt that his parents were as difficult as Bai Tong.
She took a deep breath and said with a calm face, "You parents should know the reason why I came to you."
None of the parents spoke, except for two faces with a slight look of dissatisfaction, occasionally glancing at them.
Lin Qingwan glanced at Bai Tong, raised her hand and said, "Teacher, Bai Tong, this kid is afraid of being scolded by me, so he didn't tell me anything, if I hadn't received your call, I would still be in the dark, so I really don't know what happened, can you tell me in detail first?"
The counselor was stunned, originally she wanted to go directly to the stage of solving the matter, but she didn't plan to say this shameful thing again, but
Glancing at Bai Tong with his head down, and then at other students who were ashamed, angry, or bowing their heads and silent, the counselor knew that there was still something to be done about it, so she sighed and said, "The students are all highly educated, and it is inevitable that there will be some conflicts between classmates, but there are many ways to solve contradictions, and violence is the most undesirable one." And revenge violence is even more intolerable. ”
The counselor's face became more and more calm when he said this, and he pointed to the four people in the middle, "Huang Jian, Yu Weizhi and Peng Da, as Qiao Ran's classmates and roommates, it doesn't matter if they don't help their classmates, they also bully and isolate him, and Bai Tong and Wang Chenxi, after you learned the truth, you didn't persuade Huang Jian and the three of them, nor did you help Qiao Ran get out of the shadow of violence, but instead encouraged Qiao Ran to fight violence with violence, which is an extremely dangerous idea and serious behavior." ”
The counselor's eyes fell on Lin Qingwan, and he said in a deep voice, "Ms. Lin, although Bai Tong is young, his mind is not small, this time his methods are a little fierce, I hope he can change it, otherwise, the school will not dare to accept him anymore." “
As soon as these words came out, Huang Jian's parents were immediately dissatisfied: "He did such a bad thing, and your school didn't even expel him."
Yu Weizhi's parents also said with a calm face, "Our Xiaozhi is so well-behaved, I don't worry that he is in the same class as such a student, the school must give us an explanation, otherwise I will never give up." ”
Peng Da's parents even said, "I remember that this Bai student is a transfer student, that is to say, he was not admitted, I am very worried about such a teaching environment, if Peng Da is bullied and taught badly by such a person, then our efforts in the first ten years will be in vain."
While they were talking, Lin Qingwan interrogated Bai Tong with the method of sound transmission, "Tell me the truth, don't add oil and vinegar to the narrative from beginning to end." ”
Bai Tong listened to their words, smiled sarcastically, and said, "You have to believe me, I am a good person." “
Lin Qingwan and Yi Han, who were pricking up their ears and planning to listen carefully, ""
"Oh, just the fool next to me, he's my tablemate, I've been bullied by the three of them since last year, and it's okay to bully him in private in the dormitory, I don't care if I don't see it, but this year they also publicized it to the class, and they want to take the lead in isolating him, and I can't see it for a while, so I can treat others in their own way."
Lin Qingwan: "Your counselor said that your methods are a bit intense. ”
"No, what I do is what they did." Bai Tong replied with a serious face, the only difference is that they bullied Qiao Ran step by step, and he compressed what they had done to Qiao Ran in a semester into two weeks, so
Lin Qingwan glanced at him, and it happened that the counselor was a little embarrassed because of the requirements of the three parents, so she said lightly, "Teacher, although our white children are only here to listen to the class, they are also done in a formal and orderly manner, not who said that they can be expelled, if the three parents are dissatisfied, they can call the police to deal with it." ”
Everyone was stunned, but they didn't expect Lin Qingwan to call the police.
You must know that Bai Tong's crime is heavier than any of them.
Lin Qingwan turned her head and smiled maliciously at the three parents and students, and said, "Saying that Bai Tong is not a good person, it is just right for the police to carefully investigate clearly, now it is a society under the rule of law, and those who violate the law and commit crimes should all be punished by the law. ”
Lin Qingwan turned to look at the counselor and said, "We should have zero tolerance for school bullying, whether it is violent force, cold violence or other tricks, we should punish accordingly, teacher, do you say that what I said is right?" ”
The counselor looked at Lin Qingwan in surprise, and saw that her eyebrows were cold, and she didn't seem to be joking, so she said worriedly, "Actually, it's not that serious, after all, it's a small fight among the children, and we can solve it internally." ”
Lin Qingwan shook her head, "I don't think it's a petty fight, these children are not only skinny, but also have problems with character and morality, so I think since parents can't teach well, it's better to leave it to the society and the court to manage." ”
Huang Jian's parents widened their eyes, "You, you, you're not the child's parent, right?"
Lin Qingwan glanced at her and said, "Why, didn't you propose to expel Bai Tong just now, what Bai Tong did, classmate Huang Jian also did, I think the two of them are just as bad, and they need someone to teach them." ”
"Then don't drag our Huang Jian into the water, you can send your white child to the juvenile detention center."
"That's not good," Lin Qingwan said with a smile, "It's all the same behavior, only Bai Tong is expelled, only Bai Tong is in, I'm not convinced." But you're right, my Bai Tong is still young, so he will go to the juvenile detention center for a few days, Huang Jian is an adult, and he has full capacity for his behavior, he wants to go to the juvenile detention center. ”
Everyone's faces turned slightly pale, the counselor looked at this, looked at that, and finally looked at Lin Qingwan, feeling that this parent was really the same as she showed, and it was very difficult to deal with.