Chapter 200: A Happy Marriage

"Don't always open and close your mouth one by one, one wife, one wife, you have to call me husband! Do you hear that?! The Buddha-figure is mindful that for the sake of knowing your mistakes and repenting and having a correct attitude, although the physical suffering can be avoided, the spiritual suffering is inevitable. I'll punish you for writing a review of more than 1,000 words, and if you can't write well, you'll have to rewrite it until I'm satisfied. ”

Zhang Fengyi, who was comfortably served by Fang Longxing, did not forget to punish his family's President Fang a little in the end. One of the best figures in "Wansheng International", the pride of the sky in the business world, Fang Long Xingfang, is like this at home!

was cleaned up by the little lady of his family, and he didn't complain, and he also said: "This is what the husband did!" "A husband who is not afraid of his daughter-in-law is definitely not a good husband. "It's not a strict wife, and it's definitely not a good man."

Also: "The compulsory road for a successful man is to coax his wife and adult." "To bend my waist for my wife is to elevate myself." "Coax the little lady, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it!" And so on and so forth! There are a lot of classic quotations from Mr. Fang, and there are endless ones, and I can't say all about it for a while, I can only write as much as I remember.

"Baby! Why don't we leave the land today! For the sake of my hard work to make you dinner, you can spare me this time! Just once! Next time, I won't dare again. After dinner, I'll show you something. ”

"What? Are you trying to bribe me? You! It's just that you don't clean up, if you don't give you some family law, you'll kick your nose in the face, and it's endless. ”

Zhang Fengyi saw Fang Longxing like this, and his heart was already happy, this beauty! On the surface, it is still very serious.

"Yes, yes, my wife's lesson is how sincere my attitude is to admit my mistakes! Eliminate the gas! It's my sin to make my little daughter-in-law angry! ”

"Poor! You will continue to be poor! I don't have a long memory at all, so I won't tell you, I'll watch the news for a while, then take a shower and go to bed. ”

"Daughter-in-law, do you mean: Do you want to go to sleep with me?"

"Think beautifully, who wants to say that I slept with you, don't bother me! After eating, remember to put away the dishes and chopsticks. ”

"Wife, aren't you going to eat with me?"

"I can't eat any more, my belly is going to burst."

"Oh well! Wait for me, my husband will accompany you to wash incense in a while! ”

"Roll, how far, how far. I can wash it myself, so I don't need your help. Zhang Fengyi stood up and went to the living room, leaving Fang Longxing with a back.

"Wife...... Daughter-in-law...... Little Phoenix...... Zhang Xiaofeng'er ......"

No matter how Long Fang shouted, Zhang Fengyi just left without looking back, without answering. Despite this, Fang Longxing's heart was still hot. He was happy: his little phoenix did not hide anything from himself. Although there is a bit of a poisonous tongue on his mouth, he is actually most concerned about his feelings. If you have a wife like this, what more can you ask for?

Zhang Fengyi's heart is still warm here, and the things that should be explained have also been explained clearly, Fang Longxing didn't ask himself anything again, which proves that what he cares about most is the relationship between the two of them, and he doesn't want to affect the relationship between the two of them because of other people or things.

It doesn't take much to explain in words, both people already understand each other's thoughts. If husband and wife want to get along for a long time, if they want to have a happy marriage, they should be honest with each other when necessary, and trust each other should be there, which is also the most basic thing that should be done. Trust is like a piece of paper, wrinkled, even if it is smoothed, it will not return to its original state.

As the saying goes, "It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to live together!" Two people live together, the run-in of living habits is the first level in marriage, the run-in of the personalities of both sides of the husband and wife is the second level, and the run-in between family backgrounds, parents of both sides, or intricate interpersonal relationships is the third level.

Two people with different views are like two parallel lines that can never intersect. When you go alone, no one is wrong, but living together becomes wrong. In a real marriage, it is not enough for two people to have the initial love, but also to have a common language, common interests, common eating habits, and so on.

A happy marriage is composed of many factors, and there are many conditions that need to be met, and the joint efforts of both individuals are also indispensable. Only such a compatible marriage will be more durable, long-lasting, and happy. Author: Jin Lan Xiuxian

If two people: they can't work in a good direction with each other's hearts and minds, and develop towards the end of a hundred years together. Then it is likely that one of them will get off halfway through and won't be able to reach the end. For the sake of certain things that cannot reach harmony, there are not a few who part ways.

Think about it: if we always disagree with each other, and our minds are always contrary, you say to the east, I always say to the west. For example: You want to eat steak, but I want to eat Korean food. You say you want to go to Canada, but I really want to go to Disneyland in Hong Kong......

If none of the above is a problem, the main thing is that there will be a quarrel over a little unnecessary thing, and the degree of constant attachment will not be forgiving, and it will be magnified and magnified again and again. Such recurrent attacks are more frequent than the number of meals...... What will be the result? The answer is: the initial love will be consumed, and the final result can only be a breakup.

Nothing is appropriate, can you not break up! It will appear: "If I ever spend time with him or her again, I'm going to go really crazy." ”；“ If I live with him or her, it will be a waste of my youth. ”

"We really don't fit, it's good for everyone to be separated, I hope he (she) will find his or her own happiness."; There's really no way to love anymore, I'm physically and mentally exhausted! Letting him (her) go can be regarded as sparing myself. ”

Wait, that's just too much! When you fall in love, you don't need any reason, love is love! But when it comes to breaking up, there are always millions of reasons to come up with. Speaking of which, it's nothing more than how unsuitable it is, how it doesn't love it, and so on.

People are just complaining about their incompatibility with someone, but they don't know how to summarize it: where exactly is the problem between each other, how to solve the problem, and how to resolve the contradictions that have arisen between each other...... The reason why I don't love is because I am working in the wrong direction, and I am not on the same frequency as my lover.

We always have to make some conclusions from yesterday's experience. Yesterday's self is always the best lesson for today's self. There are a lot of things that can be done all over again, and we have the opportunity to correct and amend. But there are many people who are really no longer there once they are lost. Who can go back to the old days and say "I'm sorry"! We only have today! Emotional things, only today, only by grasping the present, can we have the best future.

Don't doubt love, and don't complain about your unladylike encounter. With the heart of the other, the heart of me. Then treat him with my heart. We must know how to empathize, learn from each other's strengths, be humble to each other, and tolerate each other...... Remember: being polite to others is not a sign of incompetence, especially for the person we love the most, and it does not make us lose our principles and dignity as human beings.

If you want to be completely integrated with another person in life, then turn yourself into another person (her)! Don't always say, "He or she doesn't have any blood relationship with me, why should I be wholeheartedly good to him or her!" ”；“ He (she) has his or her own life circle, and I should also have my own life circle, so long as our well water does not interfere with river water. ”；“ We are not suitable for each other, we really can't live together, absolutely can't compromise. ”

And so on, these can only prove that we are just a person who can't even handle our own feelings; It only proves our selfishness; It can only prove that we don't know love at all, and we don't deserve to have perfect love, that's all!

No matter what kind of relationship, we have to learn to manage, just like we have to learn to plan our own life. What kind of life we want and what we should strive for depends entirely on our personal efforts. As long as it is in the right direction, the effort will not be in vain, even if it is far from the expected one, but there will definitely be gains!

What should a happy life look like? Personally, I believe that the greatest happiness in life is the happiness of the family and the success of the marriage. The most important thing is for a happy family to live together! Whether it is communication, understanding, tolerance, forbearance, caring...... It is nothing more than the interaction between husband and wife, and only in this way can it be regarded as the happiest and most successful life.