1245 Lead by example
1245 Lead by example
Ruan Qiuyue wanted to oppose it, but teaching children how to fight back is not teaching them to take the initiative to fight with others, which is still an essential difference.
Doubao and Tuanzi are smart and sensible children, as long as they are taught the right way to deal with things and warned that they are not allowed to take the initiative to fight, they will not make trouble.
For this, Ruan Qiuyue is still very confident in her two children.
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When she went to bed at night, Ruan Qiuyue told Lin Hongrui while breastfeeding the little buns, "Don't sleep too much, listen to the movement of the bean buns, there was just a fight during the day, I was afraid that they would wake up and cry at night." ”
"I'm alert." Lin Hongrui patted her, "After you finish feeding, sleep in peace, it's too tiring to be busy all day." ”
"I'm so relieved to have you there." Ruan Qiuyue yawned and nodded, patted the little bun a few times, and when he finished drinking, she put him on the crib aside.
Ruan Qiuyue lay back on the bed, stretched her body tiredly, and sighed, "It's so comfortable." ”
Lin Hongrui leaned over, kissed her on the face, and whispered to her, "I found that the children have grown up, and this is not a small worry, I'm afraid they will grow crooked." ”
"So, as a parent, you have to lead by example." Ruan Qiuyue yawned again,
"There are no treacherous villains in our family, they are all kind and tolerant, where can the children go, I'm afraid that they will become stupid and sweet, and now it seems that they won't, the two children have a lot of eyes, especially the dumplings, which were taken away by human traffickers, and they can know if they don't cry and pretend to eat."
Lin Hongrui nodded thoughtfully, and when he saw that she was sleepy, he patted her, "Sleep." ”
When feeding in the middle of the night, even though Lin Hongrui had already checked it, Ruan Qiuyue still went to the next door to see the bean buns after feeding the little buns.
Seeing that they slept sweetly and didn't have any nightmares, I was relieved, gently touched their little faces, and went back to sleep.
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After breakfast the next day, Ruan Qiuyue and Lin Hongrui rode their bikes and took bean buns and dumplings to kindergarten.
When they arrived, Chubby's parents had already arrived, and they were introduced by Mr. Ma and got to know each other.
"Doubao parents, I'm really sorry, my child is too disobedient, we have already educated him, and we will definitely avoid yesterday's incident in the future, if he fights again, I will beat him hard."
When the little chubby mother saw that the bean bun dumplings were so small, and the child was only a little over two years old, she was really sorry in her heart, she knew that she was a child with a bad temper, and she often caused trouble.
Chubby's dad also said that he was sorry, and his attitude of apology was very good, and he also said that he asked Chubby to apologize for the bean bags and dumplings.
Ruan Qiuyue saw that the chubby parents were civilized and reasonable people, not the kind of nonsensical and short-tempered parents she imagined.
The child's behavior should most likely not be taught by his parents, nor influenced by his parents.
"It's actually normal for children to fight, and we won't hold on to it." Ruan Qiuyue smiled slightly, hesitated, and asked, "I see that you two are very gentle, this kid is overly short-tempered, and he didn't learn from you, why is this?" ”
"Alas, we don't know, this child has a good temper since he was three and a half years old, he does it at every turn, it is useless to say anything, he often causes trouble, and his father and I sometimes slap him twice in the stomach, but he doesn't have a long memory." The little fat mother said worriedly.
(End of chapter)