Chapter 549: Accept Acceptance and Repentance

Once a lot of things happen, no matter how much you quarrel, you can't turn back time, and no matter how much you care, you can't turn the situation around, right?

And when people are emotional, it is easy to do things that are both impulsive and regretful.

It's really better to just stop and be quiet. When you can, listen to a few good music, read a few good books, and enjoy a moment of leisure and pleasure.

And blindly staying in the pain of the past is not only futile, but also may cause more harm to yourself or others.

What about the really smart people! When encountering something, the first reaction should not be to complain or get angry, but to find a way to solve the problem and resolve the conflict as quickly as possible.

Whoever has achieved great things, must have Mount Tai collapsed in front, and the face does not change the temperament, in the face of all the changes, to face calmly, and not surprised.

Respond calmly to everything that happens. You must not mess up your own position first, leaving an opportunity for the other party (opponent, enemy) to take advantage of.

Although Mr. Zhang has experienced the warmth and coldness of the world, he himself is still as warm as jade, he is angry again, and he can't sprinkle all his anger on his third brother!

Although his third brother made the first move, he wanted to hurt the most important person in his life! He just needs to let him know that he is doing something wrong!

Again: people are deficient, things are dissatisfied, you really can't be too harsh on others, you can't refuse too much, and you can't use your own way of doing things and thinking mode to ask others to be right!

Mr. Zhang was angry with himself, he failed to handle the relationship between everyone well, he was so angry that he didn't want to speak, and he also fell into deep self-blame.

He can't talk about anyone else! You can't always criticize his family Long Long, or his third brother.

And he taught them: "The spirit of altruism is true kindness and compassion, and it is also the foundation of great achievements in the big picture." Only a big pattern can achieve a big cause, and what about you?! ”

Every time something happens, Zhang Fengyi first finds the reason from himself.

When Mr. Zhang was questioned, accused or slandered, he was reflecting on himself in the first time. It's never about arguing for yourself first, or coming out to refute the other side first.

The only people who can touch his heartstrings are Fang Longxing and Xu Xiaoyu, but these two people are very unreliable, since they met, they have never let him worry!

Zhang Fengyi knows better: "I'd rather quarrel with people who understand than talk to confused people." This is the truth. Author: Jinlan Xiuxian

Talking to people who turn right and wrong upside down, or who like to mess around, is a waste of your precious time.

Confession! Repentance is definitely a good thing, it allows people to wash themselves clean. Mr. Zhang often repented of his mistakes, but left tolerance to others.

And Mr. Zhang will never blame others for his mistakes, because he knows that blindly complaining and shirking responsibility can only be a manifestation of cowardice and incompetence.

In fact, sometimes, if a person thinks that the whole world has made a mistake, then it is very likely that the fault lies with himself.

Life is to accept and bear, not to avoid and shirk, not to see mistakes as made by others, and blindly make excuses, so as to forgive yourself.

"Xiaoyi! Are you hungry? Why don't you wait! The third brother will cook for you! ”

Xu Shao really didn't have a problem with this little breed of his family in the end, and simply went to cook for a demon man who could torture him, control all his emotions, and all his joys and sorrows.

When a few good-looking stir-fried dishes, plus a bowl of hot rice, are placed on the coffee table in Mr. Zhang's office. Mr. Zhang's heart has long been melted and there is a puddle of water.

In fact, as early as when his third brother went out to cook for himself, Mr. Zhang began to regret it in his heart, regretting the indifferent and alienated attitude he had just shown towards his third brother.

When he thought of Xu Xiaoyu's anxious expression, and when he thought of every sincere apology he said, Mr. Zhang would feel uncomfortable.

What a proud person Xu Xiaoyu is, Zhang Fengyi doesn't know, in this life, since he met Xu Xiaoyu, he has never seen his third brother apologize to anyone.

The third brother is the kind of person who would rather shed blood than tears, and would rather fight with the other party to the point of bleeding than lower his noble head.

Today, he can put down his dignity and worth so much and apologize to himself so many times, which is definitely an unprecedented time.

And he can only say such things to him, which is really embarrassing enough for his third brother! Oh! It's hard enough to be the chairman of "Hang Lung Guorui"!

"Xiaoyi, don't be busy yet, come over and eat!" As soon as the meal was set, Xu Xiaoyu couldn't wait to call Mr. Zhang over for dinner.

The third brother of his family is also a good example! Isn't it! No matter how bad he is, it's really good for his family's little righteousness! It's so good to say!

"Third brother, I'm sorry! There was something wrong with me just now. Zhang Fengyi glanced up at Third Brother Xu, who was very busy, and said very embarrassedly.

At this moment, he has a sweet smile, and a thin layer of pink has appeared on his fair face, which looks very delicate and moving, ahhh It is handsome and extraordinary, with a slight youthful shyness.

It can be said that although we are familiar with many skills, we also regard wisdom and independence as the ultimate ideals in life.

But in our hearts, what we want most is: to meet someone, and when we are with him or her, we don't need to bring a wallet or a brain.

Whether it's love or friendship, such a relationship makes people feel warm and comfortable when they think about it. Author: Jinlan Xiuxian

If you meet such a person in this life who can treat us sincerely and sincerely, you must not miss it! Be sure to cherish it!

Zhang Fengyi met his good third brother, and he has no reason not to cherish it! The third brother of his family really touched him too much!

"Come and eat! Which of us is with whom! As long as you don't mind our little righteousness, it's done! Where did you get so much tangled! There is something wrong with the third brother, who let my temper be out of my control! I really shouldn't have touched the tip of your heart! ”

Seeing that Xiaoyi was finally willing to talk to him, Xu Sange's hanging heart was finally let go.

In his eyes, nothing makes Xiaoyi happy is the most important thing. As long as his family Xiaoyi smiled, nothing would be a problem.

"Xiaoyu! He is indeed important to me, but those are only in the past tense. But then again, you're important to me, too! The last thing I want is to see a fight between the two of you! Can you understand and relate to my feelings? ”

Zhang Fengyi said to Xu Xiaoyu as he walked from the desk to the coffee table. There were many things he didn't want to explain, but he had to repeat.

"I understand! But I can also understand that he is the most important one in your heart! And I'll never be able to match the weight of his heart in your heart, right? ”

At this time, in the third brother's heart, the jealousy has increased greatly! Isn't that person important in Xiaoyi's heart? No! He Xu Xiaoyu knows best, his family's small righteousness will ignore himself for him, and he will be angry, isn't it!

"Third brother! You know what I'm thinking, and you know my situation, so why 'make fun' of me, why embarrass me! No matter how good he is, he will eventually be someone else's husband, and I may not have a little intersection with him in this life, but you are my eternal relative in life. ”

Zhang always picked up the exquisite cotton napkin cloth placed on the coffee table to wipe his hands, and said to Xu Xiaoyu.

I really don't want to explain anything, but when I speak, I often say something - I want to hide the mess in my heart.

Zhang Fengyi dared to guarantee: The only two people in the world, Long Xing and Xu Xiaoyu, are the people who can affect his entire mood and have big fluctuations.