The chairman of the debate competition, Shi Kaile, introduced the participating representatives, and then he introduced the positions held by the participating teams, Xu Xinmeng and Jin Yifan (positive) supported "easy to get along with each other and difficult to love", while Liu Yaxin and Kong Qiannan (opposite) supported "easy to love and difficult to get along".

As soon as the competition began, the positive side immediately began her three-minute argument: "Our view is that 'it is easy to get along and difficult to fall in love', and 'getting along' is explained in the Modern Chinese Dictionary as follows: live together; Mutual interaction or mutual residence, it is extensive, all people who know each other have a process of getting along, and 'love' here is the feelings generated by mutual love, which needs to be communicated and tacitly understood by heart, it only happens between two people who love each other......"

After some explanation, the positive side argued and quoted scriptures and classics to put forward many statements in support of this point of view, and finally concluded: "We will get along with thousands of people in our lives, but only one of these thousands of people will be with us 'holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son', only one person will have the oath with us that 'the mountains are boundless, the sky and the earth are together, and we dare to be with the king', and all our support is 'easy to get along with each other and difficult to love'." ”

Everyone in the audience nodded their heads again and again, admiring the amazing expression ability of the positive side of the first debate, and at the same time very much agreeing with the point of view of the positive side of the first debate.

As soon as the positive side of the argument sat down, the opponent immediately stood up and began her gushing statement, only to see her smiling and sonorously saying: "I don't know if you have investigated the divorce rate in our city this year, according to statistics, the divorce rate in our city this year is 54.2%, that is to say, one of the two couples chose to divorce, which shows that 'it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along'." ”

This indisputable fact is indeed a powerful attack, the audience fell into deep thought, Liu Yaxin also listened to it with relish, she looked at Xu Xinmeng's solemn expression, as if she had won Xu Xinmeng.

The opposing side raised such a serious question at the beginning of the argument, and then she continued: "As we all know, a lot of love begins with love at first sight rather than long-term love, flash love and flash marriage is no longer a rare term, and it can be loved to death without understanding it at all, but after fully understanding, how many people choose to part ways on the road of love...... That's why we support 'it's easy to fall in love but hard to get along'. ”

The eloquence of this argument is also convincing, and the two sides have been-for-tat at the beginning, and the words are no less than the debate of the science students just now, and the next debate will undoubtedly be more exciting.

When Xu Xinmeng spoke as the second argument of the positive side, and Kong Qiannan spoke as the second argument of the opposing side, everyone couldn't hear anything unusual, they all talked about the facts, and each put forward strong arguments to make everyone support their views.

But when the two arguments of the positive side were against the second argument of the opposing side, I only heard Xu Xinmeng say first: "The relationship between colleagues can be that you respect me; The relationship between friends can be a courtesy exchange; The relationship between relatives and friends is thicker than water; The relationship between superiors and subordinates is support and obedience. Because of the special relationship, because of the greater degree of tolerance, it is relatively easy to get along......"

I saw that while Kong Qinan was listening carefully, she also wrote down the key words, and she had the urge to interrupt Xu Xinmeng's speech several times.

Xu Xinmeng continued: "And love can not be shared, to a certain extent, it can be said that love is selfish, this kind of love can only be given to each other, if you give it to a third party, then it is a manifestation of disloyalty, love is not only a problem of two people, but also a problem of two families, from the sad and lamentable love of Lu You and Tang Wan, from the singing and crying love of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, we know that it is too difficult to fall in love!" ”

Before Xu Xinmeng sat down, Kong Qiannan immediately stood up and said, "Then let me ask the opposing side for the second argument, do you think it is difficult for you and your boyfriend to fall in love?" ”

Xu Xinmeng was embarrassed by the question, she wanted to stand up immediately to refute, but before she could stand up, Kong Qiannan preemptively said: "This question doesn't need you to answer, if you think it's easy for you to fall in love, then this is inconsistent with the point you just said, if you think it's difficult for you to fall in love, then your point of view is even more untenable, because you just sprinkled a handful of dog food, as if the road to love is smooth sailing......"

This Kong Qiannan gushed endlessly, Xu Xinmeng couldn't interrupt halfway, so she had to listen carefully and think quickly about how to deal with it.

Liu Yaxin looked at Xu Xinmeng's empty expression, she was really happy, but Ruan Junhao and Tao Ze were nervous, they silently cheered for Xu Xinmeng, hoping that she could think of a countermeasure.

After Kong Qiannan sat down, Xu Xinmeng closed her eyes slightly and quickly adjusted her emotions, then immediately stood up and replied: "First of all, I want the opposing side to know that if one of the two friends has a crush on another person, if the other party does not notice your crush, he can easily be friends with you, if he knows your crush, and he dislikes you extremely much, he will deliberately alienate you, then the process of you making him fall in love with you becomes very difficult." ”

Kong Qiannan and Liu Yaxin instantly felt that Xu Xinmeng was talking about the two of them, and this naked humiliation made Liu Yaxin and Kong Qiannan feel embarrassed.

Xu Xinmeng continued: "I can tell you clearly, my relationship with my boyfriend is difficult, when I can't see him, this longing is painful, in the process of our run-in, I desperately hope that I can crush my own shortcomings, so that he can see the perfect me, and this run-in period is also difficult...... Throughout the ages, how many people have failed in the difficult period of falling in love, but I always firmly believe that once the difficult period of love is over, it will be 'bright and bright', and I believe that the difficulties I encountered in the process of getting along with my boyfriend will only make our hearts stronger than gold. ”

Xu Xinmeng's words knocked out how many young men and girls who were in the period of confusion in love, and in an instant, the audience was full of voices, and Ruan Junhao was even more excited, standing up and cheering for Xu Xinmeng.

But Tao Ze was disheartened, he always thought that Ruan Junhao loved Xu Xinmeng's forgetfulness, but now it seems that Xu Xinmeng's love for Ruan Junhao is not "one person for a lifetime"?

Kong Qiannan didn't have time to explain her point of view, and the time had come, so she had to swallow this grievance and accumulate strength to deal with Xu Xinmeng when she was free to reply.

When the free defense session began, the first argument quickly found out the loophole in Liu Yaxin's speech that had just been argued by the third argument of the opposing side, but Liu Yaxin didn't care about arguing for this, she stood up and pressed Xu Xinmeng and said: "I want to ask the second argument of the positive side In the process of getting along with your boyfriend, don't you feel that the process of getting along is very difficult?" How do you feel in the face of opposition from your family? ”

Xu Xinmeng didn't want to go around in circles on this topic anymore, but said: "Sincerity is the golden stone, and then return to the topic of the debate......"

Kong Qiannan had already seen that Liu Yaxin had lost her mind, and any of her statements could not convince the audience, and there was not even any basis, it was completely said to embarrass Xu Xinmeng, and she believed that Liu Yaxin's attack would definitely give Xu Xinmeng a blow to her heart.

As soon as Xu Xinmeng finished speaking, Kong Qiannan stood up and said: "Does 'love at first sight' just mean that it is easy to fall in love, just because the other party is extremely attractive to you, for example, you may look very much like his first love, for example, one of your actions will touch the fortress of love in his heart...... In any case, countless examples of breakups throughout the ages have proved that it is easy to fall in love, but it is too difficult to get along. ”

Jin Yifan quickly stood up and said: "I don't agree with the opposing party's point of view very much, take the current blind date, the success rate is simply negligible compared to the breakup rate, it can be seen that it is so difficult for two people to fall in love, I believe that many of our students here may not have the experience of falling in love, but they must be loved or secretly in love with other people's experience, in the end, it is not all a bamboo basket to draw water, for some people, it is difficult to fall in love, it is difficult to go to the sky......"

Jin Yifan said, the time for free debate and debate came, and in the process of summarizing the four debates, everyone breathed a sigh of relief, this-for-tat debate competition was finally over, but Ruan Junhao and Tao Ze both understood in their hearts that the focus of Kong Qiannan and Liu Yaxin was not this debate match, but to punish Xu Xinmeng's heart through this debate match.

Liu Yaxin can still understand Xu Xinmeng Ruan Junhao, but why Kong Qiannan, who has been good friends with Xu Xinmeng for many years, also confronted Xu Xinmeng so mercilessly, needless to say, Ruan Junhao also knew that it must be because of Tao Ze.

Ruan Junhao couldn't help but recall the scene when Kong Qiannan had looked for Ruan Junhao because Tao Ze and Xu Xinmeng were together, and now he thought that Tao Ze knew that Xu Xinmeng was not Xia Xinjing a long time earlier than himself.

Maybe when Ruan Junhao didn't know Xu Xinmeng's true identity, Tao Ze had already fallen in love with Xu Xinmeng, Ruan Junhao thought about it and was very afraid, how this love Tao Ze would be released, Ruan Junhao didn't know.

After a short discussion by the judges, the final result came out, not surprisingly, Ruan Junhao and Xu Xinmeng both won the best debater, when they came to the stage to accept the award together, everyone was envious, and applauded them sincerely, as if to tell them that although it is not easy to love each other, they can do it and cherish it!

After the debate match, Liu Yaxin was furious, and she yelled at Kong Qiannan: "Aren't you very powerful? Aren't you well prepared? Why did you still fail, I still believe in you so much! ”

Kong Qiannan looked at the pampered and willful Liu Yaxin, and really wanted to slap her hard and then throw her away, but she was short-handed, she held back for the sake of that bag, and said: "Which time did I speak to disappoint you, if it weren't for the free attack and debate session, you always rushed to speak against Xu Xinmeng, maybe we wouldn't necessarily lose." ”