Aunt Li smiled like a textbook: "Thanks to your husband, let the two of us teach you etiquette, it's really scary, but the two of us will definitely do our best to teach you the things entrusted by people and loyal to people!" ”

Aunt Chen said with a serious face: "It is said that it is an etiquette class, but in fact, we can't teach it completely, and the etiquette includes a wide range, including auspicious rites, fierce rites, military rites, guest rites, and Jia rites. We mainly teach the fifth kind of Jiali, which is a general term for food, wedding crowns, guest shots, swallow feasts, feasts, and celebration gifts. For example, large banquets, weddings, and coming-of-age ceremonies are all family ceremonies, and according to my own summary, they are about the etiquette of daily life. It's basically all in this, the two of us, the main thing is to teach this! ”

Yunxi: ......

What do you say about this ceremony and that ceremony, isn't it just a sentence or two words, rules!

Finally have to learn the rules, to be honest, Yunxi is really a little excited, I used to watch costume dramas, and that corner can't learn the rules and understand the rules! If you don't learn well, you will be ridiculed at best, and your life will be lost, but it's really not a joke!

However, she was lucky, she didn't cross over to the royal relatives and nobles, and the Ye family was also a small landlord, although it seemed to be quite powerful before, but now she plans to lower the schedule, and there are no strict rules, and Yunxi has not felt particularly uncomfortable. But to be honest, she was quite interested in the cumbersome set of rules in ancient times, and she really wanted to learn about it.

Aiming at Aunt Li, well, although she is very stern and her smile is very formatted, her eyes are not fierce, she should not be the type of Mama Rong, and then look at Aunt Chen, she has kind eyebrows and kind eyes, and she is soft and easy to talk at a glance. It's okay, there shouldn't be any big hardships.

"Sister Xi, don't let your eyes wander, it's easy to give people the impression of being frivolous and rude, understand?"

Yunxi was secretly thinking in her heart, and Aunt Li took the lead in giving her a dismount, frivolous? Rude? Is this talking about her? I really want to scold the country, Yunxi is so angry that he wants to jump up, I'm just a little curious, at most, I didn't listen carefully, where is it frivolous and rude, this is too far-fetched! I just thought that she wasn't Mama Rong's type, and in the blink of an eye, she was going to look good, which was too fast!

"That's what my aunt taught. But I'm just curious, and I don't mean to be rude to you! Yunxi stared at Aunt Li and replied word by word.

"That's fine, but it would be more polite if you picked it up." Aunt Li told Yunxi Dao like no one else, "Moreover, the eyes you looked at just now are still wrong, staring, especially staring at other people's eyes, whether intentional or not, is a very rude behavior, which will make people feel uncomfortable, like you are hitting him with some idea." So even if you are dissatisfied with me, as your husband, it is not a good thing for you to look at me with such eyes! ”

……

In the face of such a gentleman, Yunxi was a little speechless, and suddenly he didn't know how to look at people, how to break it?

Frozen for a while, in the three anxious and helpless eyes of Yun Jin Yunkai Fu Junzhuo, Yun Xi suddenly laughed, and bowed down to Aunt Li and bowed respectfully: "Mr. is smart, Yunxi is taught!" ”

No matter what the attitude is, it's always a real ability.,And it's quite open-minded.,Although I don't like it.,But it doesn't matter.,Mr. is used to learn things.,It doesn't matter if you like it or not.。

is still a teachable person, Aunt Li bowed slightly, quite satisfied in her heart.

"Okay, okay, it's okay, it's all right, go to the position and do it, wait for Aunt Li to give a lecture." Aunt Chen saw that the matter was resolved, and hurriedly reassured.

Aunt Li may have done this kind of work before, and she actually prepared her own lesson plan, a thick stack, densely packed hairpins, and the voice of the lecture was not hurried and orderly, which made Yunxi and others who were listening and taking notes feel very comfortable.

The first item of daily life etiquette is the etiquette of feasting and drinking.

Food, clothing, housing, and transportation, and eating words are the first. Confucius said: The people take food as the sky. The common people said: People are iron, rice is steel, and if you don't eat for a day, you will be hungry and panic. Eating has always been a top priority.

But what to eat, how to eat, whether it is eaten by one person or by many people, that is all particular, among them, banquet, is the most important.

There is no saying in modern times, how can others know that you have money if you don't invite guests? In ancient times, if you don't entertain, how can others understand you and make friends with you?

Banquet etiquette has its own set of procedures, which goes without saying, it is generally not wrong, and Yunxi and a few of them also understand it. However, there are some details that Lin has not specifically said, such as where to start to make people feel comfortable, how to praise people when they praise people, how to make people feel happy, how to be decent and not repeat auspicious words, and how to socialize with relatives and friends, how to socialize with nodding friends, how to socialize with people who don't know, etc., etc., what is said is particularly detailed and specific, just this welcome one, Aunt Li didn't finish talking for an hour. There are five procedures in the back: pouring wine, serving food, sitting, serving tea, and saying goodbye.

Although she didn't finish speaking, Aunt Li didn't delay the class, and after telling Yunxi that they went back to discuss and review, they pulled Aunt Chen, who didn't say a few words at all, back, and the rest of Yunxi, who admired and didn't want to, sighed.

"That's more than my dad said!" Fu Junzhuo said, "I thought my father was verbose enough, but I didn't expect there to be more verbose." ”

"How can this be called verbose, this is all knowledge." Yun Kai said seriously. Although he is often a little childish in life, he has always taken what his husband teaches very seriously.

"It's definitely a whole lot of teaching, and my mother didn't teach it in such detail, not to mention my mother, even my grandmother didn't teach it so thoroughly." Yun Jin said with certainty. Before she and Lu, the Lin family began to teach her these things intentionally or unintentionally, and even during the time when the Lin family gave birth to Yun Cong, Yun Jin had already presided over the family affairs, so she had the most right to speak.

"So Yunxi, you must not quarrel with Mr. again." Yun Jin solemnly explained to Yunxi, "It's rare for Aunt Li to be so attentive, if we are not respectful, wouldn't we be too ignorant!" ”

Yun Kai also said to Yunxi: "Yes, second sister, don't be stupid, I listened to Aunt Li's words not only good, but also very ......."

"It's very practical." Yunxi said, "Okay, okay, don't be nervous, am I the kind of person who doesn't know what to do?" Even if I don't like Aunt Li much, but I'm not stupid, don't I know what to do to be best for myself? Don't I know that learning is more important? "Really, it's just underestimating, she used to look down on her teachers from elementary school to university, did she give up studying because the teacher didn't like it? How is it possible, learning is for yourself, not for the teacher!

And to tell the truth, after this class, she is no longer disgusted with Aunt Li, is it okay, such a capable person, it is difficult for her to be disgusted, okay? However, she still likes Aunt Chen's kind of gentle speech without stinging, and she is not a hedgehog, why should she like thorns?