Chapter 578: Etiquette is both faithful and difficult
Chapter 578: Etiquette is both faithful and difficult
There are many contradictory psychological activities, only Zhang Fengyi himself knows! All the questions that he didn't give a positive and direct answer to the other party didn't want to give that guy an affirmation, or the answer he wanted.
Mr. Zhang is very confused now! He didn't know how to answer! If you answer harshly, you will hurt your love; If the answer is perfunctory, it will make the other party feel frustrated; The answer was not clear enough, and he did not clearly express his inner thoughts.
Zhang Fengyi's psychological state at this time is very bad, and it is most appropriate to describe it as chaotic as numb! If he hadn't been strong enough on his own, I'm afraid he wouldn't have been able to support it a long time ago!
Fang Longxing originally had a lot of things to tell Zhang Fengyi, but as soon as Mr. Zhang heard these words, he showed "unhappiness" at that time.
Immediately interrupted his bitter exhortation, out of complete love and pity, and his words were also bitter, mean, and resistant.
In fact, the most inefficient thinking trap is not to identify the substantive problem. I can't find the right answer to some questions, and it's because I got the focus of the question wrong!
Now these two people have fallen into this very "self-trapped" thinking swamp. That is to say, you have to take a detour before you can completely wake up.
A person's open-mindedness is reflected in the time of despair; A person's self-cultivation is embodied in the time of anger; A person's thoughtfulness is reflected in times of sorrow; A person's maturity is reflected in the time of choice.
And these two people! What a happy couple! When they're good, it's a person, and when they're bad, they can't wait to kick each other to death!
The person who made Zhang Fengyi laugh was Fang Longxing, and the person who made him cry was also Fang Longxing. It's like an unbreakable spell!
In response to that sentence: the person who makes you cry is also the person who can make you laugh, and the person who makes you laugh is not necessarily the person who can make you cry......
Therefore, a person's life is very interesting, once someone is met, he (she) will make you happy and make you sad.
Sometimes it will make you try all the ups and downs of the world, and then, you can't break up no matter how you fight, and you have to stumble together to get through this life.
Perhaps this is the meaning of our coming into the world! It's just to meet that kind of person—someone who is forever entangled with us.
What a human life! It's nothing more than a process of going around and around! We thought we were moving forward, but we accidentally returned to the same place (the starting point).
Life always ages too fast, and we understand many truths too late. At the end of the day, you still have to entrust everything to time.
Time is the best proof, and it can also verify everything! Author: Jinlan Xiuxian
After the wind and rain, it must be a rainbow, and I believe that tomorrow will be tomorrow, and they will live well together!
There is no one in the world who is completely human, including Mr. Fang, he has his good! He also has his bad! The same is true for Mr. Zhang!
And when we encounter things, we should really think more about the good of others! Everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages! Long live understanding and tolerance!
Therefore, when you do something, or what happens, you can't just look at its one-sidedness.
We must think at a different level, and make serious considerations and accurate judgments, so that we will not be so deep in the predicament, and we will not take so many detours and suffer so many avoidable sufferings, right?
Mr. Zhang, now I just thought of Mr. Fang's previous good! He decided not to blame what was happening in the past!
But he is also a very principled person, he can't always let others touch his bottom line, and he can't easily throw away his dignity.
When necessary, he also has to rise up and resist, and try his best to protect himself and the people around him.
He has always been more thoughtful, he has to take into account Fang Longxing on the one hand, and Xu Xiaoyu on the other. He couldn't let the existing contradictions between those two people deepen again because of himself.
He only thought about the safety of others, but he forgot about himself, forgot that he should be good, and calmly listened to what Fang Longxing wanted to say to himself!
It should not be with strange emotions to resist and refuse, but to listen to a person's heart and listen to his cry from the depths of his soul.
Don't deny everything about him/her, or even all the good that comes from him/her, because of someone's seemingly ridiculous behavior!
Fang Longxing completely saw that Derpy was resistant to his own feelings, and then he quickly got up and went to the ground.
Start picking up your clothes from the coat rack and putting them on one by one. Then, while putting on his clothes, he said to Zhang Fengyi unhurriedly:
"Fengyi! It's my fault in the first place! Your heart is now full of resentment against me, and I have nothing to say! But I want you to be happy and happy every day!
If you feel that saying this, deep down in your heart, really feels very comfortable, then just say it! I have no complaints!
If you think in your heart that you shouldn't treat me like this! Then, please treat me with a normal heart! Don't just see and remember, or care about how good your third brother is to you! Please think about me too! ”
When Fang Longxing said these words, he was also very sad in his heart! He didn't know how to make his family stupid, to trust himself again, and how to establish the same intimate relationship with him as before.
After all, it was he who did what was inferior to the beast first, after all, he made the unforgivable mistake first, but after all, these are sins that do not lead to death!
can't deny his love for the little phoenix because of this! It was precisely because of this strong love and the equally strong jealousy that he was dizzy!
Love to the extreme, love to madness, love shows cruelty! Isn't it true that the act of being stupid out of love should be forgiving and considerate?
He can accept any punishment! I just can't accept the fact that his family is stupid and refuses to forgive himself! He can atone for his sins! He wanted so much to get this opportunity to atone for his sins! Author: Jinlan Xiuxian
He Fang Longxing has always loved him deeply! Why doesn't that Derpy understand! Although he doesn't expect that the little phoenix loves himself as much as he loves him, he must also understand his heart for him!
Because of his lover's woodenness, Fang Longxing wants to fight for all the initiative at home everywhere, create all the splendid living atmosphere, and try to make the family atmosphere more happy and harmonious.
Since the idiot doesn't take the initiative to approach him, he will stick to him and stick to him like a puppy willing to please his master, but his nerd is also a little dumbfounded! The person who really has a headache is Mr. Fang!
What a dizziness! Mr. Fang now has a feeling of wanting to cry without tears! His heart, his unbridled loyalty! When will it be known and understood by my wife?
These two great gods! It's really sad for our group of melon-eating people. The education that the two people have received since childhood is different, the environment in which they grew up is different, their hearts are different, and they are different in many places......
There is no way for them to have the same views on many issues, and the pace can be consistent and similar.
Confucius is still courteous, Mozi is in faith! It's good to be polite! But if you lose your credit, you can't do it either!
Zhang Fengyi is a person who pays attention to both etiquette and credit! Fang Longxing burned the etiquette he should pay attention to because of the jealousy fire in his heart. But he will never forget the promise he made to Zhang Fengyi, which shows that Mr. Fang regards credit as very important!
Who is right and who is wrong? What's right and what's wrong? People in the business field often pay more attention to credit, and pay more attention to whether the partner has defrauded themselves and whether they can perform the contract.
And the mall has never been a place where you can be reasonable, if you are reasonable, there will not be so much unscrupulous competition, right!