Chapter 173: Human Nature, Personality, Character
Chapter 173: Human Nature, Personality, Character
Since Wang Haitao accompanied Fang Qianyi to watch a performance, Fang Qianyi's attitude towards Wang Haitao has changed a lot. At first, he felt that Wang Haitao seemed to have something that made people feel that something was wrong, but after getting along, he also had a new understanding of Wang Haitao.
From the conversation of this seemingly dull person on the surface, Fang Qianyi realized that Wang Haitao's personality and style are actually a type of good man. If his brother is a giving and leading type, then Zhang Fengyi is a practical and romantic type, and Wang Haitao is a giving type plus mediation type. Fang Qianyi analyzed everyone thoroughly, which is inseparable from his character.
From the very beginning, Fang Qianyi discovered Wang Haitao: when he looked at Zhang Fengyi, there was something wrong. He believes that his eldest brother is a smart person, and without his own reminders, his brother will keenly notice that something is wrong with the people around him, and he can also reasonably handle the relationship between everyone and Zhang Fengyi.
After all, no one can be like himself, he can have no scruples in front of everyone, and freely express his intentions, so that the eldest brother can deal with and deal with it clearly. Fang Qianyi went through several psychological struggles, and finally he was sure that he was indeed attracted by Zhang Fengyi, and he was trying his best to restrain himself. He changed his love for Zhang Fengyi in a different way, because Fang Qianyi belongs to a perfect and observational person.
There are two sides to human personality, sometimes angels and demons are equal parts, sometimes they are angels, and sometimes they are devils. People with dual personalities change the angels and demons in their hearts when they encounter different things. It varies from person to person and from thing to thing, and the choice of which side to prefer is different from person to person, and the performance is not the same.
This is human nature, innate human nature, a fact that no one can change, which is more important, we all have a scale in our hearts. We all weigh ourselves on the scales, weighing what is important or unimportant in our hearts. In the depths of my heart, I am constantly making trade-offs; Constantly struggling; Constantly making choices. Human nature is contradictory, and the good and the bad are always in struggle.
Human nature is a neutral word, both good and bad. Human nature is the common nature of all people, and there is always a good side and a bad side, so there is a theory that human nature is good and human is inferior. We all have two qualities that are fighting with our souls to varying degrees. In any case, we must understand human nature. Of course, we must give full play to the advantages of our human nature and give full play to the good side of human nature.
Personality is different, it is a compliment, it is obtained by people in the acquired experience, it is the essence of perfection that we get in life, it is self-awareness and self-control, that is, the main body with feelings, emotions, will and other functions, and personality is what we need to praise and work hard to learn. Author: Jin Lan Xiuxian
It is also a manifestation of personal dignity, the sum of a person's value and moral character, because of the different genetic qualities of each person, especially the social practice activities, so that each person is different in personality tendencies and personality psychological characteristics, forming different personalities, that is, individual differences, which are not only manifested in whether people have certain characteristics, but also in different levels of the same characteristic.
In different experiences, personality can be basically divided into nine types, that is, the "Enneagram Personality", which is the life code for self-achievement and influencing others. The Enneagram theory has eternal value, it can help us understand ourselves, so as to win better development for ourselves and create a better life.
Zhang Fengyi has established a good entrepreneur's personality charm for himself, and he has won the recognition and trust of employees by virtue of his talent, creative spirit, dedication, professionalism, sense of responsibility, and coordination spirit. With his own behavior, he gradually established an excellent entrepreneurial style, and he used his unique personality charm to conquer the identity of everyone in the industry and even around him, so as to reach the peak of his career.
In addition to giving full play to the advantages of human nature, we must also continue to cultivate a good personality in the experience of life, and at the same time, we must sublimate our own character.
Character refers to the quality and character of a person. Character is an upgraded version of human nature and personality. Character includes a person's taste, character, and quality.
The embodiment of taste includes: your elegant speech, elegant manners, strong appeal and influence, all of which will enhance your reputation and attract the attention and attention of the public. The people around you will look at you with admiration and admiration.
Character is the basic embodiment of virtue and morality, and the level of a person's character directly affects him in society: in the interaction between people, good character will attract others and facilitate communication with the people around him. The higher your character, the more the public pays attention to you, the more friends you have in the society, and you will slowly form a certain status in the society.
Through the unique charm of character, an invisible affinity and centripetal force can be formed. Relying on the charm of his character, he can conquer more people in the society, and he can also attract many like-minded friends with him.
Qualities include: intelligence, wisdom, knowledge, talent and practical spirit, which can promote the harmony and harmony between man and nature, and enable us to create a beautiful ecological environment in which we can work, study and live. It can better create a stage to show self-worth and talent. The better our quality and the higher the credibility of the society, the more people will be attracted to trust you and admire you.
Whether we are poor or rich, we must constantly improve ourselves in life; Experienced; Boost yourself! And tirelessly! Never get tired of it! It never ends! Renew and reinvent ourselves, and constantly purify our souls.
This process is a process in which human nature, personality, and character are combined with each other and promote each other, and it is upward and forward-looking. It makes my life more meaningful; more successful; More brilliant.
Therefore, Fang Qianyi believes that he must be able to hold himself to a very high standard, strive to correct his shortcomings, and pursue the principle of justice. He is a very methodical person, everything is done in an orderly manner, he strictly adheres to various rules and hierarchies, he adheres to the principle of first come, first served, and never confuses right and wrong.
At the same time, Fang Qianyi is also a person who keeps his distance and experiences the process of life, and likes to be quiet and independent. He can deliberately control his emotions and not be bound by things and relationships. He prefers to observe the state of development of things rather than actions, and prefers to think rationally. Detached from life, live freely. To put it bluntly, he is to protect himself from the influence of external things, and to ensure that he is not harmed in any way.
Fang Qianyi was more certain through observation: Wang Haitao's psychological inclination towards Zhang Fengyi, he felt that he should do something, so he had the idea of using his own ability to solve Wang Haitao's trouble first, which is a manifestation of his perfect personality. Even if it's not for himself, at least he should clear the obstacles for his eldest brother, and at the same time, his observational personality decides to let him not get involved too much.
After the contact between the two, Fang Qianyi took the initiative to leave Wang Haitao's phone number. In order to facilitate his time in China and to have more contact with Wang Haitao, he also gave his contact information to Wang Haitao. After Wang Haitao sent him home, Fang Qianyi began to plan: how to create the next opportunity to meet Wang Haitao.
With Fang Qianyi's understanding of Wang Haitao, this person will not be easily asked out by himself. If you want to ask him out, it is reasonable to accompany yourself around. He had to get Zhang Fengyi's support for him first, so Fang Qianyi regarded Zhang Fengyi as a stepping stone for him to ask Wang Haitao to come out.
For the happiness of his eldest brother and Zhang Fengyi in the future, Fang Qianyi also fought hard, but he felt that what he was doing now was right. He never thought that everything he was doing now would become the introduction of his feelings for Zhang Fengyi getting deeper and deeper in the future.
So much so that a year later, when he recalled today, he felt ridiculous. Even at that time, he had already developed resentment towards many people, and even he wanted to take revenge on everyone. Because at that time, he was already in a very crazy state.
Fang Qianyi got up early, and he wanted to make breakfast for the two of them. He wanted to take advantage of this to please the person he liked from the bottom of his heart. His eldest brother Fengyi, no, should be his "sister-in-law", or should he be called "brother-in-law"! Not right either! Feng Yi is the other half of the eldest brother! It's not too much to call him "Mrs. Fang"! Or Mr. Fang's wife! It doesn't matter what it's called! In short, it is right to call that person sister-in-law.
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