Chapter 374: Love is the Grave of Marriage
After knowing that the little guy was just a common cold, An Mu's heart was finally relieved.
"Whether it's a common cold or not, it should be treated well, you know, by the way, why didn't your husband come with you these times?"
As soon as Li Yulong was mentioned, Shen Wenwen's face immediately became ugly, and she said with an unhappy face.
"He had something going on in the company, so he didn't come with me. β
Seeing Shen Wenwen's unhappy appearance, An Mu asked cautiously.
"Wenwen, tell me honestly, have you and your husband had any problems during this period of time?"
Because An Mu was in confinement, Shen Wenwen didn't want to use her own troubles to annoy her.
"It's okay, you don't have to think about it there. β
Although Shen Wenwen said that there was nothing wrong, the expression on her face betrayed her.
"Wenwen, do the two of us have something to hide from each other, don't I know you if others don't know you? No matter what is always on your face, so you don't have to tell those lies to deceive me. β
Seeing An Mu's worried look, Shen Wenwen finally told her everything that had happened in the past few days.
"An Mu, do you think Li Yulong has a ghost in his heart?"
Think about the past, in order to stay with his children, Li Yulong would rush home as soon as possible after work every day.
But now, every night I go home drunk, and sometimes I go home without even looking at my children and go to bed.
At first, Shen Wenwen thought that there was something wrong with him at work, so she tolerated him all the time, but last week Shen Wenwen knew that there was no problem in the company at all.
When Shen Wenwen put the problem on the table, Li Yulong refused to admit that he had any problems during this period of time.
And he was still lying, so Shen Wenwen was very sad.
So during this period of time, Shen Wenwen and Li Yulong were in the Cold War.
Seeing Shen Wenwen's excited face, An Mu hurriedly comforted her.
"Wenwen, are you thinking too much, how could Li Yulong, whom I know, mess around?"
Think about how loving Shen Wenwen and Li Yulong are together!
Besides, they had just had a child, so An Mu would not believe that Li Wanglong had changed his mind at this time.
So An Mu felt that there must be something in the middle that they didn't know.
"Wenwen, is there any misunderstanding here, I think there should be more communication between husband and wife, instead of a cold war, you will only push him farther and farther away, so you should calm down and think about what went wrong between you. β
At this time, Shen Wenwen couldn't think about it so much.
Shen Wenwen just felt that it was very hard for her to take care of the children every day, as her husband, he didn't help take care of it, but he still lost his temper with her at this time, and he didn't go home at night, she would never allow a situation like this.
"An Mu, you don't know, since giving birth, I haven't quarreled with him at all except for taking the child, usually when he is at home, I will let him rest as much as possible, not let him take the child, every day is to smile and face him, I don't know where I didn't do a good job to let him treat me like this. β
Originally, Shen Wenwen could control his emotions at first, but when he said this, he suddenly became excited.
"I just feel that there must be someone outside him, if I find out, I will leave him with the child, why should he use such an attitude towards me!"
After hearing Shen Wenwen say this, An Mu didn't know how to persuade her.
She always felt that the problems between their husband and wife had not reached that point at all, and now Shen Wenwen said it angrily for a while.
Therefore, An Mu can only let her vent the grievances in her heart well, and only adjust it after she finishes venting, I hope the two of them can reconcile as before.
"You don't know how hard it is for me to take care of my children every day, but as a husband, he doesn't feel sorry for me at this time, and he still shows me every day. β
When she said this, Shen Wenwen's tears also flowed out unconsciously.
"An Mu, what do you say such a man is for! I really don't know which eye I was blind in the past and actually married him, now I really regret it when I think about it!"
Now thinking about the sweet time at the beginning, Shen Wenwen feels that it is a kind of irony.
At this time, Shen Wenwen stretched out her hand to wipe away the tears on her face, and said angrily.
"At the beginning, my mother said that men don't have a good thing, and I had an argument with my mother at the time, and now I think about what my mother said is not wrong at all, men just don't have a good thing. β
If I had listened to my mother, I might not have ended up like this.
After hearing Shen Wenwen say this, An Mu felt that her current thoughts were really too extreme.
If it is not resolved like this, the relationship between their husband and wife will definitely be affected.
"Wenwen, are you thinking too extreme, even if your husband came home late this time and drank when he came home, it doesn't mean that there are people outside him!"
People who originally loved each other so much didn't expect to become like this in just one year.
It seems that two people who love each other again, as long as there is suspicion, the relationship will be in jeopardy.
"Wenwen, before you find out the truth of the matter, can you not make a decision? Do you know that your thoughts like this will make you go the wrong way, is it possible that you have been with your husband for so long, just because of such a little problem, you have doubts about him?"
It seems that women with children at home are really cranky!
After Miss Ben was discharged from the hospital, in addition to taking care of the children, she still had to find an easy thing to do.
"Wenwen, if that's the case, then you don't have confidence in your husband, don't forget how good Li Yulong was to you before. β
Now think about it again, when they were in love, they envied a lot of young boys and girls.
"So I want you to calm down and think about it for a while, and don't think about it here. β
Her thoughts are extreme, she didn't stand in her perspective, of course she could say such things, if this happened to her, maybe she wouldn't have said it so lightly.
When he said this, An Mu stretched out his hand to take Shen Wenwen's hand and said heartily.
"I know you're very sad right now, but you have to know that we need to be calmer at this time. β
Why are women always so helpless when they encounter emotional things?
Could it be that in love, a woman is always the injured party?
"Wenwen, if your husband really does something sorry for you, I will stand up for you without you saying it, and make him suffer, but if your husband doesn't do anything to betray you, then your current behavior is hurting the feelings between you. β
When she heard this, Shen Wenwen also began to reflect on what she had done.
"So I hope you can deal with this matter rationally, not like you are now, if I were a man, I would be very angry to see you like this. β
Shen Wenwen, who was originally very angry, slowly calmed down after hearing An Mu say this.
Indeed, An Mu is very right, as a woman, she must calm down at this time, even if there is really a woman outside, then she should leave with chic and self-esteem, not like a shrew.
"Wenwen, don't worry, no matter what the ending is, I will definitely stand behind you and support you. β
After hearing An Mu say this, Shen Wenwen looked at her with a touched face.
"Thank you, after listening to your words, I know how naΓ―ve what I have done for a while, you can rest assured, I will definitely deal with this matter well after I go back, I will definitely not let Li Yulong think that I am a shrew." β
Even if their relationship comes to an end, then she will leave in style.
and will not make others feel that they are dead and want his little bit of pity for love.
"An Mu, don't worry, even if there is someone outside him, then I will leave in style, and I will make him regret the decision he made today. β
When she said this, Shen Wenwen's face showed a resolute expression.
"If he hadn't betrayed his feelings, I would have apologized to him and managed our relationship well. β
After hearing Shen Wenwen say this, An Mu's heart finally let go of a lot.
However, she was still very worried about the matter between their husband and wife, and she really didn't know why Li Yulong, who had always taken care of the family, would do such a ridiculous thing during this period of time.
If it were another woman, maybe it would be like Wenwen.
"It's good if you figure it out, but you still have to be cautious when dealing with this matter, I don't want any change in your relationship. β
In fact, Shen Wenwen also hoped in her heart that this matter did not really exist, and she hoped that this matter was just her own heart.
After all, she still has him in her heart, and the baby also needs a father, she doesn't want her complete home to be broken up like this.
Seeing An Mu's sad face, An Mu continued to discuss his views with her.
"Although I'm not you, I don't know what you've been through during this period of time, but from my usual point of view, I don't think Li Yulong would have done anything like that. β
I really hope that all this is just Wenwen's overthinking.
If Li Yulong really betrayed this relationship, I really don't know what Wenwen will become.
"After all, it has only been a short year or two since you realized it, and I believe that a relationship will not be short-lived like this, after all, I can see from Li Yulong's eyes that he really likes you. β
Although An Mu persuaded Shen Wenwen like this, she knew it very well in her heart.
If it were her, maybe she would have done something even crazier.
"So I hope you can think about this matter, after all, you all have children now, and it is impossible to break up the family because of this little thing. β
In fact, sometimes think about it, if a woman really wants to get family happiness from marriage, she can only pretend to be confused with wisdom.
If you are too smart, you will only make yourself more and more miserable.
There may be times when you hear from a woman how happy they are to get married, but only she knows.
Whether there is more happiness or more pain in the family, in fact, An Mu himself does not know.
In fact, sometimes An Mu doesn't know how to face various problems in marriage.