Chapter 178 The words of the staff increased the concept of husband and wife
After coming to this ancient country for a while, it was the first time I had encountered such a thing, and I was not familiar with the ancient criminal law, so after returning home, I asked the housekeeper if there were anyone in our house who knew the law of this great qi.
Soon the housekeeper found me a gentleman, the person who came was called Mr. Luan, everyone in the house called him that, he looked like he was in his forties, he looked average, but his eyes showed a faint solitary height, and he was wearing a green shirt on his body, which felt like a hermit going out of the mountain.
This person's identity is different from other people in the house, according to the time he was rescued by Lixing, and then he has been by his side, and those who don't know think he plans to make a promise to Lixing.
The first time I met when I got married, but there were a lot of people at the time, and I didn't pay much attention to it, but now that I look at it, I always feel that his expression on my face is a little subtle.
According to the time when he rescued him, the original owner's house had not been raided, and he should have seen the original owner's parents, maybe he was remembering the original owner's parents through my face, after all, the top people of an era fell like that, and it always makes people miss it.
I smiled slightly: "Mr. Luan, I have a question for you." ”
He arched his hand: "Don't dare to ask for advice, Madam can only ask what she wants." ”
"I have a friend, her mother was born in a Qinglou, her father helped to redeem herself, and now she can't live anymore, how can she leave smoothly? And in the future, my friend and her mother, can they apply for a new household registration? ”
Mr. Luan was a little embarrassed, stood up, and arched his hand at me: "Madam, this is a little embarrassing. ”
"How embarrassed, you are."
"Although this dynasty has canceled the slave registration, but the household registration of the Qinglou is still slightly different, it is not impossible for the lady to erase the traces on the top, the most troublesome thing is to leave, this dynasty has no Qinglou woman to take the initiative to leave after the good, there has always been only the abandoned, and then there is no follow-up."
"There's no follow-up, why is that?"
"The woman who was abandoned committed suicide by throwing herself into the river on the night she was abandoned."
I was shocked: "This ancient woman is such a living environment?" Tynyima is terrible. ”
"Madame what, Nima?" Mr. Luan looked at me suspiciously.
"It's nothing, is she going to kill herself because of her reputation?"
Mr. Luan gave me a deep look, and then nodded: "Exactly." ”
Okay, okay, probably because I'm worried that I don't seem to have a good reputation, of course, in my opinion, it's not a big deal, and the original owner was divorced from the marriage has never been a thing.
I didn't really care: "Okay, I probably understand, isn't it just a reputation?" That thing can't be eaten. ”
"Madam, you can't talk like that......"
I waved my hand and quickly stopped it, the most annoying thing to hear some remarks about the inferiority of men and women, and what was too famous: "Okay, you just need to tell me where to go and leave, what you need to prepare, and then the matter of household registration." ”
Mr. Luan's face was a little ugly, but he still dutifully told me the formalities, and then took his leave, and when he left, he still frowned and glanced at me, as always, he was not very satisfied with me, the housewife, and really thought that I was a girl like the original owner, and I couldn't see it.
Second, I took Yan Song and the two sisters Bing Xue, as well as a number of guards, and took a special carriage, all the way to Camel Bell Street, and greeted me gently, shocked by my posture, after all, I was very low-key when I went out with her before.
Chen Laosi was supported by Aunt Yuan and stood at the door in a daze, and I sat in the carriage, through the curtain, domineering: "Chen Laosi, I want Yuan Zhen'er to divorce you." ”
As soon as these words came out, some onlookers gasped.
Rao was a little scared of being beaten yesterday, and Chen Laosi dared to raise his neck and yell at me: "Why are you, if I hadn't ransomed her back then, this slut might still be in the Qinglou ...... now"
The foul language that came out later was like a woman with a long tongue in the market, this ancient scholar subverted my cognition here, the history books are harsh on real women, and such people should also be recorded, this is the equality of men and women.
I looked at Aunt Yuan, her expression was indifferent, her eyes were numb, obviously she was used to her husband's abuse like this, so she didn't divorce?
I genuinely admired the endurance of ancient women, and of course I mourned their misfortune and angered them.
Becoming a husband and wife is more about mutual respect, such a debasement, why can a man be like this?
However, men who are not ancient, that is, many men in our modern times are not also this virtue, putting their wives in a lower position than themselves, belittling them at will, as if they have a shengzhi device and are superior to others.
The people around the onlookers didn't seem to have any intention of standing up for Aunt Yuan, and even some women joined the battle, occasionally adding a few ugly words, and sure enough, it was often women who embarrassed women, and this concept had been poisonous for thousands of years.
How can I change this?
In this era when men plough and weave, science and technology are not developed, and physical labor is more important than mental work. This is a long way to go, and what I want to do is not just to help a woman get out of such a marriage, but to change their attitudes.
I remembered that it was very late when I came back last night, and I hadn't fallen asleep after cleaning up: "Why don't you sleep yet?" ”
Compared with this ancient man's deep-rooted patriarchal and inferior thoughts, he was as tolerant and respectful to me as the man I had fantasized about, if he didn't really know some new words and some new technological terms, I even wondered if he was a fellow countryman with me.
He lay beside me, and I wrapped my arms around his waist: "Strictly, I don't go out in men's clothes at home, and I am very close to Huo Suixin, I like to do business, and Mrs. Chaozhong has a bad reputation, and I even wrote a h-book, I think you should also know, "Morning Flowers and Evening Records" was painted by me, and it is a typical deviance, do you really mind?" ”
Li Xing grabbed me with one hand and patted me on the back shoulder: "Who is you, what?" ”
"No, I just think it would be nice if the men under me were as tolerant as you."
Li Xing smiled softly: "You went out today to see another man to his wife?" ”
I nodded, pulled me closer, and kissed me on the forehead: "You are my wife, the one who will spend my life with me in the future, do whatever you like, as long as you don't touch the law of the land, you will touch, just hide behind me." ”
I hammered his chest: "I don't do illegal things, besides, how can you be like this, the dignified prime minister, take the lead in bending the law for personal gain, what if I am really spoiled by you?" ”
Li Xing took my fist with his other hand and placed it on his chest: "Naturally, I know that Madame is not such a person who does not know what to do. After a pause, he continued: "The previous ones, I only hate that I didn't meet you earlier and let you be persecuted, of course, the books you wrote and the paintings you painted are nothing, do you remember the white-bearded Jiang Shilang?" ”
"The sixty-year-old one? See you still call yourself a student? ”
Li Xing nodded: "He used to write plays for the Joy Club, and the famous "Mandarin Duck Match" was written by him. ”
I think of him abiding by etiquette, such a serious old man can still write a long and lingering drama like "Mandarin Duck Matching", this world is once again mysterious!
But after thinking about it: "Lanling Xiaoxiaosheng can't also be an official of the DPRK and China, right?" ”
Li Xing glanced at me and pinched my nose: "His books can't be read at will, you need me to be around." ”
Is this an admission?!
I was about to continue asking, but he continued with what he had just done: "Ethereal, what a man can do, you can also do it, even if you do it better than them, my wife can write and draw, this is my lady's talent, and the official is also deeply honored." As for others, how can the lady of the true appearance allow others to put their beaks? ”
This love story boy, a word coaxed me to a heart, I didn't think about it until I went to bed, I seem to want to ask who Lanling Xiaoxiaosheng is? I'll go back tonight and ask.