Chapter 499: A Pear Blossom Rain "II"
What is constant is history, and what is constantly changing is time.
Since people hit the ground, both physically and psychologically, they have been constantly changing over time.
From a weak baby crying on the ground, to a strong adult who acts independently, from young to old, from the beginning of the years to the end of the years, nothing is stagnant.
Nothing will change, love, affection, friendship are all changing in getting along or apart, with the four seasons running.
What we need to grow is happiness and change, a person cannot grow unchanged, and will always continue to change and hone himself in the long river of time.
Is this a matter of one's own life and destiny?
Not long ago, I sent a good friend to report to school, and by the way, I visited another friend, and I really felt that I hadn't seen him for a day.
We first met in high school, and the path of friendship began in high school.
She is a member of the group, and I am the team leader.
At that time, I was still very fond of learning, and my academic performance was also a good middle and upper class student in the class!
Occasionally, I would answer some troublesome questions for her, and that was the happiest time we got along.
But we are not very good friends, we only belong to the class to meet, talk, chat, imagine ideals, not the kind of friends who are best friends.
But there is still the necessary understanding, she also loves to study in high school, but it seems that the method used is not very right, and the grades have not been good or bad, which is my deepest impression of her.
Meeting again is like a drama, meeting in the vast sea of people is probably a kind of fate.
Talk about what you're doing now and your ideals.
Her words were a subversion of my mind, and they changed a lot.
There has been a clear change in both appearance and thinking.
If you really don't see it for a day, you must be impressed.
For example, when she was in high school, she was not a person who loved to study very much, but when she went to college, it was as if her whole body had been opened up to the meridians, and she studied very seriously and hardworking, which was really impressive.
From that moment on, the idea of not admitting defeat suddenly rose in my heart, I am not worse than others, I will not be so bad in the exam, I must work hard, I must work hard!
Sure enough, Huang Tian lived up to his hard work, I was in the top ten in the class when I was assigned to the final exam, and now I think about it, I feel that I was really cute at that time!
There is always a time worth remembering and nostalgic, and the youth records our entire wandering youth!
Looking back on the past, the glorious years are sad?
Everything is in infinite change, the lights are extinguished, life and death are constantly changing.
Everyone will change more or less in the face of things, such as me!
After working in a hospital for about three months, a new person joined the company, and I would talk less on my own, and I was really not as active as before.
But it's not quarantine, it's just a little overwhelming.
You don't understand how to get along with them, it's like a stranger who suddenly becomes your partner in the future.
And the people you were familiar with before probably had some depression in their hearts because he replaced the post!
When you're busy turning the world upside down, she doesn't know how to ask anything indiscriminately.
After you teach her something, she still doesn't understand when she looks confused.
There is a limit to human patience, and you will be irritable, depressed, and unfriendly in your heart.
I have said before that when a newcomer enters a position, he will inevitably be treated unequally.
Sometimes it's not about character, it's just about the wrong timing.
But none of this matters, the important thing is not to be a villain.
The environment can change a person's thoughts, behaviors, attitudes, and even personality.
There is a saying in the theory of all things: things are inherently natural, and things are inherently possible. Nothing else, nothing else.
Over time, we all change a little bit to a greater or lesser extent, like being hit by the wind, and then becoming tough.
If it is good, you must insist and do not give up on the sublimation of yourself!
It is the essence that conforms to the times, and what is backward is the dross.
Looking forward to a better self, just like a phoenix nirvana!
Progress is a source of pride, and stagnation can lead to abandonment.
Do you have any inspirational people around you, who are a little lacking in talent, but can write homework until more than 1 a.m., and keep running every day to remind themselves to work hard.
Sometimes it's not about how failed your dreams are, it's about how bad you are and how backward you are.
There is a kind of person who can get by, and I am that kind of person.
I don't have a strong sense of self-motivation, and I've always been a mediocre person since I started school, with mediocre grades, mediocre appearance, and mediocre family.
I don't have a strong sense of initiative on weekdays, and I always feel that mediocrity is also a kind of happiness.
I will not envy others for having good results and beautiful rewards, because I know that I will not get if I don't pay.
Later, after going through high school and college, I gradually realized the horror of mediocrity and the helplessness of being unmotivated, and I realized my stupidity.
This world is constantly advancing, and not moving forward already means going backwards, and it may slowly be submerged by the river of time and be sealed in the dust.
A friend came to play with me a few days ago, and the two of us chatted for a while.
And the mood of the three views being subverted?
Everyone else is working hard for their future, paying attention to all kinds of things that will help them.
It seems that he is the only one who has not grown at all, his heart is dripping with blood, and his expression is still praising with a smile.
What a sadness?
Leaders will tell employees to be a prepared person, plan goals for themselves, and do every step in a down-to-earth manner.
Where is the difference between employees and bosses, there is a large part of the action, and the execution is incomparable.
The boss is for his own company, his own business, he must work meticulously and have the courage to fight.
The employee is different, he is just a worker, no matter how he does it, the salary is no more and no less.
Just like many people will wonder why Sun Wukong is so powerful and can make trouble in the sky, why he will ask for help from others many times in the study of scriptures.
In fact, there is no such reason to say, if you don't progress, you will be abandoned by the times, and you won't find out where the meaning of life is?
Maybe after a lifetime of searching, only despair remains.
Yesterday, I chatted with my partner and said a problem, when you come to the world, you can't leave nothing.
We may not be able to judge what the meaning of life is, but you must think, be a thinking person, and don't be fooled by this era.
People have to recharge themselves every day, whether it is in books or in the practice of society, just hope that you can learn a little bit every day, and be in a surprise of the world every day, instead of disgust and burnout.
Freshness is what we ask of ourselves.
Plain is happiness, vigorous is also happiness, and it is even more happiness to join hands with each other for a lifetime, what to ensure the realization of these?
Own commitment and own performance, love for the world.
No one is always happy, and no one is always immersed in sadness, but in a limited time, enrich themselves, be happy, and raise themselves with hard work in vain.
People will eventually die, death is precious, and they walk chicly
The flowers and plants are deep and lush, the fish and shrimp have a shallow bottom, whether to wait or pursue, it depends on your choice? 14