Chapter 159: Ideological Work
"You don't need to deliberately cater to her, you just need to be yourself, so that you won't lose your nature, and she is the woman I admire the most." Duan Ruochen pinched the bridge of my nose and said with a smile.
"Ruochen, you say, can we really stay together for a lifetime, and will we never be disturbed by external factors?" I rested my head on Duan Ruochen's shoulder, and for a moment I circled in his palm.
"Naturally--" Duan Ruochen held my head with both hands and said solemnly, "No one can stop it, otherwise I will be anxious with him, even my mother, unless, unless you yourself are unwilling." ”
"Fool, how can you think so, I have moved all my belongings here, in the future, this will be my home, if you don't drive me away, I will stay here for the rest of my life." I pointed to the poor pile of suitcases and a couple of backpacks in the corner.
"Hmmm! In the future, this will be our home, you are my person, only belonging to me Duan Ruochen, so no one wants to snatch you away from me, otherwise I will--"
"What will happen to you?" I asked him with my lips pursed.
"I'll make that life worse than death, and then I'll snatch you back." Duan Ruochen thought for a moment and clenched his fists and said.
"Then what if you do something sorry for me and I leave by myself?"
"That's easy to do, anyway, it's better to die if I lose you, and it's easy to die directly." Duan Ruochen didn't think about it and said.
"Fool, don't talk nonsense." I quickly covered his mouth, "Don't worry, we will definitely grow old, and no one can separate us." ”
"Well, why does that sound so good?" Duan Ruochen blinked his eyes, seeing that my gaze was getting thicker and thicker, "Actually, for the sake of our future growth together, you can express your sincerity first." ”
"Sincerity, how do you show it?" When I was still thinking about the meaning of Duan Ruochen's words, his lips had already come up, and he said with a smile: "Give me a little benefit first, okay?" ”
"Nasty, don't, hmm--"
During the preparation of the wedding between Duan Ruochen and me, the small turmoil that occurred when Duan's mother visited for the first time quickly disappeared because of the love for us, and then, Duan Ruochen worked harder to prepare for the wedding, and the wedding photos, dress customization, and furniture updates were soon put on the agenda.
For Duan Ruochen's hasty and in full swing pre-wedding preparations, I was faintly uneasy in my heart, but I couldn't say why for a while, so I didn't think much about it anymore and waited to get married with peace of mind.
Out of courtesy, I wanted to go to Duan's house to meet Duan's father and Duan's mother, but Duan Ruochen said that there was no need, at most he would inform Duan Ruoxuan at that time, although I felt that it was inappropriate, marriage was a matter of two families after all, but I understood that he didn't want me to see Duan's mother again, and there was a conflict, so I gave up, no matter what he arranged, I should respect his decision.
Next, I chose a weekend and took Duan Ruochen to officially board Chen Chen's house as a fiancé.
Father Chen has had a good impression of Duan Ruochen since he last met him, so he is not dissatisfied with our marriage.
But Chen's mother is different, the last time Duan Ruochen came to Chen's house, she privately reminded me again and again that I couldn't walk with him, the old man couldn't have imagined that in a short period of half a year, I actually took Duan Ruochen back to the door, and it was as a fiancé.
That day, Chen's mother was busy in the kitchen for a day, and she didn't say a word to me, especially in the evening, after she ate a little bit, she went back to the room on the grounds that she was not feeling well, leaving us to look at each other, and the atmosphere on the table was extremely embarrassing, but fortunately, Chen's father turned the tide, "You continue to eat, don't pay attention to her, she has been like this all this time." ”
Duan Ruochen looked at me, I didn't know what to do, I looked at Chen Chen, Chen Chen only cared about eating with his head down, and didn't care about the subtle atmosphere on the table at all.
"I said, Ruochen, aren't you a good cook? If you don't wait for your aunt to be hungry, you can cook her supper! I said to Duan Ruochen with a smile while serving Duan Ruochen vegetables.
"Of course, there's no problem with that, but you have to ask Auntie what she likes to eat first." Duan Ruochen immediately said happily.
"You'd better eat yourself for now." Chen Chen said angrily.
After eating, Chen's father went to the study alone, and I instructed Chen Chen to help me clean up the dishes and chopsticks, and then blocked him in the kitchen.
"Chen Chen, didn't you say that you would do it on Auntie's side? Why is this happening? I asked, crossed, and angry.
"Ye Shen'er, you little conscienceless, I have done so much for you, you can't see it, you still come to question me at this time, you don't want to think about it, if I didn't do a good job for my parents in advance, do you think you can be so comfortable in Luzhou?" Chen Chen poked my forehead with his hand, and said in a low voice: "If it weren't for me, Mommy would have rushed over and arrested you a long time ago." ”
"I—Didn't I think you hadn't messed with them yet?" I was dumbfounded by Chen Chen's words, "It seems that Auntie is really angry this time." ”
"Of course I'm angry, there's no one who doesn't get angry as a parent." Chen Chen nodded his head like a rattle, "Look at the two of you, you haven't even taken a drag, you are so eager to get married, you are even more disagreeable, you live directly with others, Mommy just gives you a look, you are not happy, have you ever stood in their position and thought about their feelings?" ”
"Alas! What did you say, aunt doesn't know, even you don't know? I moved in with him because I had to take care of Duan Ruochen! We were innocent, and I really thought about it, and I didn't think about it any difference between getting married earlier and getting married later. ”
"So, you have your thoughts, Mommy has Mommy's thoughts, she can tolerate you dangling under her nose without exerting power, and you have already been Amitabha Buddha without driving Duan Boy out of the house, just bear with it, and wait for her to be angry, isn't it good?" After Chen Chen finished speaking, he touched my head with great sympathy, and then left without looking back, leaving me alone in the kitchen, thinking about how to persuade Chen's mother and how to make her accept Duan Ruochen completely.
In my impression, Mother Chen has never been so out of shape in front of outsiders, it seems that she doesn't generally dislike Duan Ruochen, just like Chen Chen doesn't like Situ Yunzhe, it's all based on likes and dislikes, their mother and son personalities are too similar, if it is determined, ten cows will not be able to pull it back.
I naturally feel a little sad about Chen's mother's knot, but I know very well in my heart that if the person who wants to enter into marriage with me, if it is not Chen Chen, anyone else must be approved by Chen's mother, because if I don't get her approval, it is equivalent to not getting the approval of my mother who died early.
Therefore, Chen's mother's level is very important to me.
In view of the seriousness of the situation, I immediately adjusted my mentality, took a deep breath, and knocked on Chen's mother's room with apprehension.
"Come in!" Chen's mother's neutral voice immediately came from inside, and it seemed that she had already guessed that I would knock on this door.
"Auntie!" I closed the door, sat down beside her, and bowed her shoulder flatteringly, saying, "If you are in a bad mood, you can count me down and scold me, but don't sulk alone." ”
"I'm in a bad mood, you can ignore me." Mother Chen shook off my hand and said childishly: "Anyway, you didn't give birth to me in October, so you don't have to feel sorry for me." ”
I listened to a pain in my heart, and then I was relieved, this is the most cruel thing that Chen's mother said to me since I can remember, Chen's mother could have turned a blind eye to this matter, and I got married, she is worthy of my parents, but she is so small to me, and there is no difference between making me small and Chen Chen, proving that she has never treated me as an outsider, but really wants to help me pass every pass in a good life, to put it simply, she is afraid that I will regret it in the future.
If she says that person is not good, that person will definitely not be an ideal person, but she knows that once I decide, it will definitely be eleven cows that can't pull it back, so she will sulk alone.
"Then Chen Chen was conceived and born in October, did he listen to you?" I pouted, and I got angry.
"Don't talk about him, I'm really not worth it for him, you say that he can't compare to that Situ, but is it really not as good as this kid surnamed Duan? Why can even he win your heart, my Chen Chen has to stand aside. Chen's mother was still babbling childishly, and I couldn't laugh or cry when I heard it.
"Auntie, look at what kind of mess you said, Chen Chen has a girlfriend now, I don't know how moist my life is, I told you, there will be a lot of uncertainties in being a lover, but being a brother and sister is different, a lifetime of doing it, Chen Chen is for me, but a lifetime of reliance and glory, I don't want this relationship to deteriorate." I guided Mother Chen step by step, step by step.
"Don't interrupt." Mother Chen simply twisted her head and pretended to be busy with the rest, "In short, I just can't accept that you are with this kid." ”
I stroked my forehead, and I said so much to her just now, and it was all in vain.
"Auntie, I know what you think, I am afraid that I will suffer in the future and have no place to complain, but no matter what, I want to be the master myself, even if he really can't give me happiness in the future, I am willing to bear all the consequences alone, I don't want to get your blessing, but I hope to get your approval." I simply turned my heart sideways and pouted and said to Chen's mother.
Mother Chen's forehead suddenly jumped, and she pointed at my forehead and began to frenzy, "I can tell you, Ye Shen'er, I can do anything else by you, but the marriage is not up to you." ”