Chapter 231: Hot Spring Night Talk
Wu Yanan and I were very excited about this trip, and it wasn't until we got on the plane that this excitement calmed down a lot.
Two and a half hours later, the plane landed in the capital of the island nation.
As soon as we walked out of the airport, someone came forward to pick up the luggage of the two of us and took us to the hotel that had been booked.
Instead of staying in a Western-style hotel, we stayed in a room that is unique to an island country, with people in the front and a hot spring in the back, and it is divided into open-air and indoor.
However, it is daytime, and there is no point in soaking in the hot springs.
So we put down our luggage, Wu Yanan and I changed into the traditional kimonos of the island country and walked through the streets with the most distinctive clogs.
The island country is more famous for cherry blossoms and sushi, but we came at the wrong time, and the cherry blossoms have already gone.
We found the most famous sushi restaurant here according to the online guide, and we heard that the owner is a very casual person who is not in the store every day.
But even so, there are still a lot of visitors.
Wu Yanan and I happened to be in a hurry today, and the boss happened to be there.
The two of us were overjoyed, and we lined up at the end of the crowd with a tacit understanding, taking pictures with our mobile phones, while waiting to taste this legendary sushi.
There were so many guests that we waited two hours before we could get in.
The sushi chef beckoned us to sit down and pinched the sushi for us on the spot.
A lump of rice, a spoonful of caviar, a few cherry blossom petals, and a piece of seaweed turned into delicious sushi in his hands.
I picked up a piece of cherry blossom sushi and put it in my mouth, and as soon as I chewed it twice, the sweetness of cherry blossoms exploded in my mouth.
When I swallowed it, I still felt that the aftertaste was endless, and my mouth was fragrant.
The irritability that had been waiting impatiently outside the store just now also dissipated with this sweetness, and the body became transparent.
I didn't eat a lot of food, but the sushi was so delicious today that I ate a dozen plates before I stopped.
Wu Yanan on the side is not bad, there are empty plates around him.
Looking at the pile of cleanly eaten plates, the two of us looked at each other and smiled.
As we walked out of the sushi restaurant, the sun had already set, and the slanting rays of the setting sun shone on the people who came and went, stretching their shadows extremely long.
Wu Yanan and I walked leisurely on the street, and when we saw something delicious, we went to buy one and ate as we walked.
After a while, the two of us had some food in our hands, such as octopus balls and dorayaki.
I can't finish eating, but I will buy something delicious when I see it.
After strolling around for a while, seeing that time was running out, Wu Yanan and I returned to the hotel, changed into bathrobes and went to the outdoor hot spring.
It's not the tourist season yet, there aren't many people, and there are only two or three people in the hot springs.
Finding a more secluded place, we sat in the hot springs and leaned comfortably against the boulder behind us.
The temperature of the hot spring water was just right, and the whole person hesitated and fell into a warm embrace.
Coupled with the fact that I had eaten and drunk enough and had a feeling of drowsiness, I looked up at the sky above me.
The black curtains were dotted with stars, and there was not a single cloud in the sky, causing the moonlight to pour all over the ground.
Even if there are no lights in the hot springs, you can see the surrounding scenery clearly.
"It's a good feeling, if only I could live like this in the future." Wu Yanan sighed.
I squinted my eyes and laughed, "Make more money and earn the rest of your life before you get old, so that you can retire early and enjoy life." ”
"It's going to be a long time, I'm going to be an old woman."
I reached for a handful of hot spring water, and the water slid down my fingers into the hot spring again, but I couldn't get tired of holding it after handful.
"I want a good life, but I don't want to work hard to make money, how can there be such a good thing in the world."
"It would be nice to find a rich man." Wu Yanan muttered quietly.
"You're not wrong in this idea, finding a rich man can save you a few decades of struggle, and you can have no worries about food and clothing in the next life. But, what do you think you can attract people? My eyes slowly looked at Wu Yanan.
"Pretty?"
Wu Yanan shook his head.
"Talented?"
She shook her head again.
"Will it make money?"
Wu Yanan looked sad, "Couldn't you marry a rich man without these?" ”
I stared at her face, pondered for a moment, and said, "It's not that you can't get married, but how to maintain this relationship after you get married." For example, two people who don't have three views together, chickens and ducks talk about it, and no one can understand anyone. For example, if a rich man marries you because you are beautiful, but when you are old and decrepit, will his feelings for you still be the same? ”
Seeing Wu Yanan bow his head, I continued: "Marrying a rich man is not the result of marriage, but the beginning of marriage. From the day you marry him, it means that you are going to take on new challenges. Rich people like to eat Western food and taste red wine, but you don't know what to do? There is no other way to learn this way. You can't expect the rich to eat food stalls and drink beer like you, right? ”
Wu Yanan thought thoughtfully, "Is this the reason why you opened a studio and were not satisfied working in Yuncheng?" ”
I hooked my lips and didn't say whether it was or not, but said, "People live in this world, except for marriage, family, and men, I hope to have my own things." When I get old and sit in the sunset and think about it, I can remember that my life is colorful, not that I have nothing left but my family. ”
"But isn't the most important thing for a woman her family?" Wu Yanan looked dazed.
"Family is important, but not all. Are you willing to be subject to your family all your life? ”
"I don't want to." Wu Yanan shuddered and said.
"That's right, no one wants to do that. But if you don't work hard, you will be forced to do this in the future. Don't believe too much what men say about raising you and loving you for the rest of your life. If you're both on the same level, there's nothing wrong with that. But when there is a big gap between the two sides, this sentence becomes a contradiction between the two. ”
I have experienced a failed marriage, I always see more, men say that the sky will raise you and love you for a lifetime, these words may be true at the time, but ten years later, twenty years later?
And love words are the spice of married life, but not a necessity, compared to this dispensable thing, I care more about whether I and this man's spiritual level and three views will be the same.
When I used to be with Chen Feng, I told him real-time news, and he told me jokes on the Internet.
I buy good things, but he buys average, even defective.
For example, he once bought toilet paper, because it was a three-no brand, and I had skin allergies after using it.
When Chen Feng learned about it, not only did he not feel sorry for me, but said that I was delicate.
Later, I bought the paper again, and Chen Feng kept using the three-no brand until it ran out.
Are you saying the two of us are at fault? No, it's just that our three views are not on the same channel.
If you think about it carefully, it is really a torture to get along with such a person with different views for a lifetime.
"So what should I do?" Wu Yanan frowned and asked.
"Work hard to make yourself better, don't you see Xu Yue is also working hard? If you want to be with him for a long time, you have to work hard. Even if they can't catch up with him, the gap between the two should not be too wide. Otherwise, there will be less and less common topics between the two of you, until there is nothing to say. ”
A touch of calmness appeared on Wu Yanan's face, "I understand what you mean." ”
The corners of my mouth curled, and it was in vain that I had said it for a long time, but fortunately she understood.
"I'll work as hard as you will in the future, and I won't be thinking about unrealistic things." Wu Yanan clenched his fists and said.
I smiled, "It's okay to think about it, Xu Yue is a capable person, he will give you happiness." ”
Wu Yanan's face instantly turned red, and he said in shame: "I won't tell you." ”
She buried her head in the hot spring, revealing only two dark, watery eyes.
I took the sake that was placed on the edge of the hot spring and drank it down.
Less leaning, I looked at Wu Yanan, who was still holding his breath in the water, and couldn't help but smile.
"You're so careful."
She poked her head out of the water, drops running down her hair onto her collarbone and sliding into the water.
"Actually, I've always had a question for you."
I poured myself another glass of wine before I said lightly, "You ask." ”
Her eyes rolled as she walked over and sat down close to me, "What would you do if the president cheated on me?" ”
I smiled, "Did you notice something wrong with him?" ”
Wu Yanan shook his head busily, "I mean, if you see that the president is handsome, even if you are married, there are still many women who are waiting to pull you off the horse and get on the throne." ”
"If he really cheats, the only result is just one parting and two forgiveness, and everyone will be happy."
Wu Yanan looked surprised, "Are you willing to give up the president to Xiao San?" ”
I shook my head slowly, "It's not so much to give it to Xiao San, it's better to be kind to yourself." Whether he is intentional or unintentional, mental or physical, cheating is cheating, and there is no reason to use it as an excuse. ”
"But do you still have feelings for each other?"
"No matter how good the relationship is, it can't withstand the thorn in my heart, even if I don't care about it, I will always think about it in my heart. Over time, this thorn will not only not be pulled out, but will pierce deeper and deeper, and a little force will make you bleach. I can't really forgive, so I'm not going to be embarrassed about myself. ”
"However, in the marriage of two people, in addition to cheating, there are other things, such as conflicts in life and differences in concepts." I added.
To be honest, even if Jiang Cheng's relationship with Su Xinyue was so close before, I never suspected that they had physical contact.
As for the spiritual exchange, they were originally a couple, and I couldn't even ignore them.
So what I was angry at the time was that Jiang Cheng was obsessed with her and left me aside.
Let a person let go of the person who has been in love for more than ten years in a short period of time, let alone Jiang Cheng, if it were me, as long as the other party didn't do anything unacceptable to me, I don't dare to guarantee that I can really let go.
This night, Wu Yanan and I talked a lot, almost all about marriage and family.
She went from ignorance to ignorance, and I understood a lot from her words.
When two people are together, it is important to support each other and advance and retreat together.
I still want to be Jiang Cheng's side-by-side existence, not a young eagle hiding behind his wings.
At this moment, the empty heart is full at the moment, and there is no longer a trace of emptiness.