Chapter 13: Essay "Thirteen"

I didn't deliberately record the passing of the days, nor did I cherish the good times. It was only when I stopped carelessly that I realized that the days had passed in a hurry.

Half a year has passed, and I find that I have lost a lot of things, unlike when I first entered the workplace, I can have that kind of hard work with a group of young colleagues, and I still laugh together, complain together, and get drunk together under that difficult condition.

At that time, I felt like I was losing too much now. Maybe a change of environment can really make a person's attitude towards some things change a lot and relax a lot.

Recently, I was watching an urban drama "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad", which everyone is popular, and it seems to reflect a lot of real problems, so that people sometimes have to think about it.

When they were children, they had no idea what life meant to them. They just know that the days are always so monotonous and cyclical, and they may even doubt the meaning of life itself because they never really understand it.

It seems that it is in their nature to love to play, and they can frolic and play unbridledly. And the joys, sorrows, and sorrows of life itself, they don't pay attention to it at all, and there is no need to pay attention to it.

Different living and learning environments can completely affect their personality and change their future life path at a young age.

In the years I have been teaching, I have always felt that children should learn and grow in a healthy and happy environment, rather than blindly pursuing scores, at least children's childhood should indeed be happy, I remember a sentence in a movie has been deeply imprinted in my mind until now, yes

"Studying is not seeking scores, and reading is not reading dead books", this sentence is actually not unreasonable.

Each child is born with different appearances, qualifications, intelligence, etc., and has its own differences. It is impossible for every child to become a genius, and it is impossible for every child to be stupid, so there is no need to impose too many things on the child, I have always believed that a child has good conduct, high morals, and cultivation, which is more important than anything else, and will also play a vital role in his future development.

Growth always comes at a cost because it's always a hard process. No one's life will be a straight line, always tortuous.

There are highs and lows. Some people can be brave and self-conscious in the climax, and they will definitely become a successful person.

Some people cower and slump in the trough, slowly sinking into the abyss from which they will never recover, dissolving themselves.

Therefore, no matter what kind of environment we are in, we must always remind ourselves that there is still a long way to go, and do not abandon our goals and requirements, so that we will not lose a lot of precious things.