Chapter 45: Essay "Forty-Five"

In fact, in real life, who you are with is really important, and can even change your growth trajectory and determine your life or failure.

What kind of person you are with, what kind of life you will have. With hardworking people, you won't be lazy; With positive people, you won't be depressed.

Walk with the wise, and you will be extraordinary; In the company of the masters, you can reach the top. Think about it in your own team, all kinds of people have it, you can learn a lot of things, sometimes, just look and don't ask, sometimes, just listen and don't speak, this is learning to be a person, doing is learning.

Scientific data shows that "man is the only animal that can accept suggestion." "Positive hints will have a good impact on people's emotional and physiological state, stimulate people's inner potential, give full play to people's extraordinary level, make people enterprising, and urge people to forge ahead.

Stay away from negative people! Otherwise, they will unknowingly steal your dreams and make you gradually decadent and mediocre.

Attitude is everything. Yes, what kind of attitude there is, what kind of future there is; Character determines destiny.

What kind of character you have, what kind of life you have. Even I don't know what I have become, happy or sad, quiet or crazy...... Some people say that there are three kinds of luck in life: meeting a good teacher when you go to school, and meeting a good teacher and a good boss when you work.

Start a family and meet a good partner. Sometimes a sweet smile and a warm greeting from them can make your life different and radiant.

To be realistic, the most unfortunate thing in life is that because of the lack of motivated people around you, the lack of visionary people, your life has become mediocre and mediocre.

There's a good saying, it doesn't matter who you are, it's who you're with. Ancient yes

"Meng's mother moved three times" is enough to show that who she is with is indeed very important. When the eagle grows up in the chicken nest, it will lose the ability to fly, how can it fight the sky and soar into the blue sky; Wild wolves grow in flocks and will too

"Falling in love with sheep" and losing wolf nature, how can you dominate the wind and clouds and gallop the earth. Originally, you were very good, but because of the negative people around you, you lack upward pressure, lose the motivation to move forward, and become vulgar and mediocre.

Aren't they all like that?

"Most people go to the grave with unplayed music." That's right

"Thrushes and sparrows have different voices, and golden roosters and crows have different nests." This may be the effect of subtle power and hearing and seeing.

If you want to be smart, then you have to be with smart people, and you will be wiser; If you want to be excellent, then you have to surround yourself with excellent people, and you will excel.

As the saying goes: things gather by like, and people are grouped. The reason why there is a dormitory where all graduate students are admitted, and the same class can be admitted to multiple prestigious schools, is probably the reason for this!

Friends are an indispensable treasure for your life. Because of the help and encouragement of friends, you will be invincible and indomitable.

The secret of life is to get along with others and walk hand in hand. The beauty of life lies in giving roses to others and leaving a lingering fragrance in your hands.

That's what life is. If you want to be with smart people, you have to be smart; If you want to be with great people, you have to be excellent.

Be good at discovering the good in others and turning it into your own strengths, and you will become a smart person; Be good at grasping life's opportunities and turning them into your own, and you will become an excellent person.

Be as passionate about the success of others as you are about your own. Learn from the best of others and be the best version of yourself.

Borrowing the wisdom of others to achieve oneself is the way to success.