Chapter 187: Persuasion Work
"Lin Xuan, Happy New Year!" Immediately afterwards, I lay on the bed and Lin Xuan started the chat mode, Chen Chen was more interested at first, and also lay beside me and listened to the two of us chatting, and then listened to us talk about some topics between girls, so I felt bored, so I went back to my room.
Next, Lin Xuan and I had no worries, and chatted unscrupulously and heartily, so we didn't laugh vividly from time to time, and I was so frightened that Chen's mother came upstairs to see what was going on with me, and then she restrained herself.
At the end of the summary, I asked Lin Xuan about the itinerary before and after the Spring Festival, she said that this year their family domestic trip, I lamented that her parents are so good at living, every year the Spring Festival itinerary is colorful, but she complained to me and two old scholars to go out to travel, it is better to stay at home, I know in my heart, she is reluctant Chen Chen.
Naturally, I also chatted with her about the interesting story of fighting wits and courage with Li Yunjun during this time, and when I mentioned the big bag of money that Mrs. Li stuffed into me, she actually sang on the phone, and she was three points happier than me, the beneficiary.
In the end, I told her about Chen's mother's urging to get married, but Lin Xuan was not surprised when he heard it, but began to get nervous, and cautiously asked me what Chen Chen thought.
I didn't know how to answer for a while, so I had to lie to her, saying that Chen Chen was preparing to discuss with her in the future.
Lin Xuan immediately looked left and right about it, shouting that her parents were looking for her, and hung up the phone in a hurry.
"Stinky girl, isn't this the result you've been looking forward to for a few years? Is it necessary to be so shy? I looked at the phone with contempt, and hurriedly trotted towards Chen Chen's room, "Chen Chen, let me tell you--"
Before he finished speaking, he saw Chen Chen coming out of the bathroom wearing a nightgown, and the pajamas had not yet been tied, except for the key parts, other skin* was exposed.
"Chen Chen, you bastard, you don't lock the door when you take a shower!" I quickly covered my face and turned my back again.
"My room has never been locked, didn't you know before? Who told you not to knock on the door before you came in. Chen Chen's voice suddenly appeared in my ears, and the warm breath blew into my eardrums, and I couldn't help but shiver, causing Chen Chen to laugh for a while.
"Bastard, you did it on purpose." I huffed and threw his phone onto the bed, ready to leave.
"Ye Shen'er, don't you have a task on your side? Otherwise, it wouldn't be so reckless. Chen Chen's joking voice came from behind him.
I had to stop, and saw Chen Chen tying the bag of his nightgown and drilling into the quilt, and finally pointed to the opposite side of the bed, "If it's cold, come up and warm up!" ”
"I don't want it!" I pouted and prepared to leave, but remembering the promise I had made to Chen's mother, I had to retreat and sit awkwardly on the edge of the bed.
In the process of growing up, we are tired of being together almost all the time, especially in winter, often simmering together in bed to study and play, at that time I felt normal, but as I grew older, there was still appropriate avoidance, not to mention that I had an experience of marriage and divorce, and paid more attention to the difference between men and women, so those intimate contact and snuggling when I was young can only become memories.
"Whatever you want!" Xu Chen Chen sensed the complexity of my eyes, so he was no longer reluctant, and got up and went to the desk to pour me a glass of boiling water, "If you have already figured out how to do ideological work for me, then don't waste time, before this cup of boiling water cools down, go back to your room." ”
I was holding a cup of boiling water, Chen Chen was waiting for me at first, but seeing that I didn't make a sound for a long time, he picked up the pillow and knocked on my head, "If you don't want to say, go back to sleep." ”
"Chen Chen, are most of you men unwilling to get married so early?" I was smashed by Chen Chen, and blurted out in a flash.
"That's how you persuaded me!" When Chen Chen saw that I didn't mention Chen's mother or Lin Xuan, but asked such an inconsequential question, he immediately cried and laughed.
"You don't care so much, just answer me." I put down my glass, grabbed the quilt, and looked at him earnestly.
"Let me think about it!" Chen Chen thought about it seriously, "It's not all!" However, Yuan Yaocheng and I don't want to get married for the time being, and I don't know about the others. ”
I thought about the 'other people' that Chen Chen said, and unconsciously remembered Situ Yunzhe, he was also reluctant to get married at first, but Duan Ruochen was different from several of them, he pursued me from the beginning, and he went for the purpose of getting married, it seems that not everyone is unwilling to get married earlier.
"What are you thinking?" Chen Chen stretched out his hand and shook it in front of me.
"Yuan Yaocheng and you are not the same type of person, he is a stable and very responsible person, he does not get married, it must be because the family conditions do not allow it for the time being, and he doesn't want Bai Hui to suffer as soon as he marries him, so he is not willing to get married so early, I know this better than you."
"Well, there is some truth in what you said, he is a good man with twenty-four filial piety, and he thinks about Bai Hui everywhere." Chen Chen sighed: "Alas! I don't know what kind of blessing this white flower is cultivated in my lifetime. ”
"You said the opposite, it should be said that Yuan Yaocheng didn't know what kind of blessing he had cultivated in his life, and he could have a woman like Bai Hui who didn't hate poverty and loved rich, and was willing to endure hardships with him and work hard with him."
"Maybe!" Chen Chen nodded, "Bai Hui is indeed a good woman. ”
"And what about you! What is the reason why you are reluctant to get married so early? I asked.
"You're finally getting to the point." Chen Chen pointed to his closet, then to his wet head, then moved his body and turned his back to me.
I knew that he wanted me to go to his closet and get a hair dryer to help him dry his hair, and although I was not happy, I thought that I had to do what I promised Chen's mother.
This bastard, I don't think I dare to refuse.
After plugging in the electricity, I helped him blow his hair, and asked intentionally or unintentionally: "If you are married, someone will help you blow your hair every day, are you so careful?" ”
"I'm thinking about everything, and I have someone to help blow my hair every day!" Chen Chen said with a smile.
"If you get married, someone will blow it for you on your birthday." I stubbornly corrected.
"You're stupid, don't you have someone to blow it for me now?" Chen Chen said happily again: "No matter who blows, as long as someone blows it, it's fine." ”
"If your attitude towards life is so casual, Lin Xuan will definitely be sad in the future." I was so angry with Chen Chen's irresponsible attitude that I deliberately messed up his hair and blew it indiscriminately.
"Didn't I say that in front of you, could it be that you will go and complain to her?" Chen Chen was not angry with me, and reached out to straighten out his messy hair.
"When exactly are you going to get married, let me ask you?" I saw that he had been playing Tai Chi with me, so I was ready to come hard, hoping to solve it quickly.
"Finish it when you want to! In this regard, I am actually a little similar to Situ Bastard, I always feel that I can't afford the responsibility of marriage, in fact, this is also a responsible attitude towards marriage, maybe at first, we all blamed Situ Bastard. ”
"I don't care what you think, but Lin Xuan has also followed you for more than six years, you can't drag it out any longer, no matter what you think, you have to give her a reassuring pill."
In order to strengthen the weight of my words, I endured the pain in my heart and the person I mentioned from time to time, "Think about the time when I just graduated, because Situ Yunzhe was unwilling to get married, I still had an awkward relationship with him for a long time? Only Lin Xuan can endure it for so many years, so no matter what, you can't make her wait longer. ”
"Okay, I'll listen to you, and after the New Year, I will appease her, and it can be regarded as a reassuring pill for her!" Chen Chen said and turned his head to take the hair dryer in my hand, and then turned the switch on, "Shen'er, let me ask you, after you have experienced a failed marriage, do you still fantasize about marriage?" ”
"I really haven't thought about this question, now, I only have one goal, which is to help Li Yunjun's girl prepare for the college entrance examination wholeheartedly." I thought about it for a while and replied, "As for the future, I want to find a decent job in Zhanyang, and then slowly plan my life!" ”
"Shen'er, your life has just begun, don't give up your love for life because of a failed marriage, a person's growth has to pay a lot of costs, although the price you pay is indeed too great, fortunately, you still have a long way to go, so as long as you think it's right, then do it according to your own wishes! Dad, Mommy and I are all your strong backing. ”
"Originally, I wanted to do persuasion work for you, but I didn't expect you to tell me such a big truth." I nodded again and again, although I was moved in my heart, I deliberately said with a bitter face.
"You don't have to worry about me anymore, Daddy and Mommy, I'll make it clear to them." After Chen Chen finished speaking, he wanted to reach out and pinch my cheek, "Now you should rest assured!" ”
"You said it, don't go back!" Before his 'claws' reached out, I had already fled.
After returning to the room, I lay on the bed alone, thinking about the conversation with Chen Chen repeatedly, especially his views on marriage, and I had a new understanding.
It turns out that most men's views on marriage have something in common, they are more rational, long-term, and think more thoroughly, unlike us women who are so emotional, they always think that it is enough for two people to love each other, and everything else is not a problem, so I understand Situ Yunzhe's idea of not wanting to get married so early.
Time passed quietly in the ticking sound, look at the time, in another half an hour, it will be the time to really say goodbye to the old and welcome the new, I look out the window and sometimes the night sky is illuminated by fireworks like day, and my heart is also excited.
Looking back on the past year, I have experienced a lot, breakups, procrastination, marriage, divorce and other life events, maybe this is someone else's life, and I may not have the opportunity to try the experience, hehe, but I have tasted it all in a year.