"It's a difficult technique, it takes a lot of practice, it's a boring process, you have to be patient, you have to have perseverance, you have to see with your eyes, you have to learn to observe. There is a way: the master leads the door, and the cultivation is in the individual. Ding Haixing wrote it down and handed it to her.

Hongying nodded heavily, "Understood." ”

Ding Haixing took the pen and paper and continued to write, "We have to watch us speak more, and every word we say must be combined with the shape of the mouth, as long as we keep practicing every day, we will make progress; When the other party is speaking, you should pay attention to the mouth shape of the other party's speech, be bold, do not avoid the other party's gaze, concentrate your attention, and try to analyze the mouth shape. ”

When learning lip language, she should also read more classic books on human psychology, movement science, and facial expressions to assist her ability to interpret lip language.

With the current environment, where are these books in Xinhua Bookstore, Ding Haixing set his sights on the neighbor opposite.

If you come back from studying abroad, you should have heard of it, ask and see, it's really not good, looking for it from the space, but this has to be deleted, deleted, and reduced, which is very troublesome, and the key is to conform to the current 'national conditions'.

In such a world, mavericks can only die faster. Therefore, since you are here, you should remind yourself from time to time according to the standards of current mainstream behavior. This is also Ding Haixing's philosophy of life.

Hongying started a long life of practicing lip reading skills.

And Ding Haixing and Zhan Changsheng spoke patiently in the face of Hongying, so that she stared intently at the mouth shape of the husband and wife to "listen" to learn, which is a necessary process to master lip reading.

For what Hongying can already say when she is deaf, it is easy to understand the words and sentences that she can say or read, and it is also easy to understand the topics she is familiar with.

As for those who are not familiar with herself, she practiced repeatedly in front of the mirror, and asked Ding Haixing, who was sitting on the side, to help her correct it.

Sometimes, she practiced so hard that her voice was hoarse, which made Ding Haixing have to criticize Hongying 'harshly'.

"It's not something that can be done overnight, you can't be a fat person in one bite, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, you're already fine. What should I do if my throat is broken? I'm not going to help you when you're here, am I? Ding Haixing's eyes stared at her tightly and threatened.

Hongying also humbly accepted her criticism.

Since the red tassel has no sense of hearing, the other four senses are very sensitive, just as God opens a window when he closes the door.

Therefore, she has an advantage over ordinary people in lip learning, and the worse her hearing ability, the stronger her ability to understand lip reading.

"I'm back." Zhan Changsheng shouted when he entered the house.

"We're in the living room." Ding Haixing raised her voice and said.

Zhan Changsheng stomped into the living room and said with a smile on his face, "Look, I found something good for Hongying." Happily took it out from his back.

Ding Haixing looked at the cover of the book and said, "Maritime personnel are professionally trained in lip skills, where did you come from." ”

"I found it in the library, and it was helpful to us, so I borrowed it." Zhan Changsheng happily handed the book to Hongying, she looked at it casually, it was really a treasure, "Thank you!" ”

Now this girl is talking more and more neatly.

Zhan Changsheng said mysteriously, "Hey! Does Apricot know who translated this book? ”

"Right door!" Ding Haixing said casually.

"How do you know that?" Zhan Changsheng said in surprise.

"You didn't mean translation, look at your expression, guessed." Ding Haixing smiled gently, "By the way, speaking of which, I also thought about going to the right door to borrow a few books, which is very helpful for Hongying to learn lip language." ”

"What kind of books, I have to borrow them from him, there are so many books in the library!" Zhan Changsheng said reluctantly, the two don't owe each other anymore, don't they! Then he said, "If you want any books, I'll find them for you." ”

"Well, I want books on psychology, movement, and expressions." Ding Haixing looked at him with a smile and said.

"This has psychology, but does this kinesiology and expression also need to be learned?" Zhan Changsheng didn't quite understand.

"Words are the content of words that are spoken; Tone includes the high and low pitch of speech, the volume of voice, the speed and tone of speech; Body language includes facial expressions, head and body postures, and gestures. Ding Haixing said unhurriedly, "Our red tassel can't hear it, so we can only use it?" But there are many polyphonic characters in Chinese characters, and the meaning of the same mouth expression is different, so you have to look at his facial expressions and movements! ”

People focus on rational learning and application. Analysis, logic, and understanding the meaning of words are all rational operations of the left brain, and people can do these things consciously. What has been overlooked in the past is that there is a greater capacity on the side of the perceptual right brain, that is, the ability to feel, the ability to grasp the meaning of the big picture, etc. These abilities, hidden in the subconscious, have a greater impact on people.

In the communication between people, the speaker sends a lot of information, but I am aware of only a very small part, and most of it is unconscious, that is, it is sent under the control of the subconscious of the person. This section includes the choice of text, the organization of the text, the tone of voice, and the abundance of messages expressed through the body.

The other party who receives it can likewise only receive a very small part of these messages consciously, and the rest is received by his subconscious. In order to show the magnitude of the gap, the communication message is delivered at two levels at the same time:

Conscious 1%, subconscious 99%.

Traditionally, people have been accustomed to paying attention only to the meaning of words, that is, consciously receiving the content of the words used by the other party, analyzing and understanding the meaning of the other person's words, and ignoring the meaning expressed by the other person's tone and body language.

People are more accustomed to putting more on each other's words, and although they occasionally notice each other's expressions, they rarely go back to what others say, what words they use, and how they say it......

"Hello, comrade Zhan!" Ding Haixing repeated these words in different tones and body language.

"Do you feel different?" Ding Haixing looked at him and asked.

"Hmmm! I feel it, five words, so that I can feel that you respect me, that you are cold to me, that you are displeased with me, or that you despise me, etc. Zhan Changsheng was surprised, "I really didn't feel it before, let you say this, the same sentence and five words, can produce so many different effects, all of them are caused by the change of tone." ”

"You feel it again, this sentence: the sea is high and the waves are strong today, what should we do?" Ding Haixing said it twice in a row, the tone of the two times was the same, and the words were the same. For the first time, she had a smile on her face, her hands outstretched, palms up, fingers spread, and her body shaking. The second time she was a little nervous, and her hands were outstretched, but they were clenched into fists.