Chapter 156: Grievances

"The main reason I'm angry isn't because of this, it's because of this star, do you know what he's here for?"

Leng Bing shook his head and said, "I definitely don't know, what is he here for?" ”

"She actually wanted me to help her check whether the baby in her belly was male or female. I didn't want to help her do this kind of gender determination, she even took out a dozen dollars to buy me, I didn't agree and was angry, she thought it was not enough money. ”

After listening to this, Leng Bing sighed: "Does this foreign country still have patriarchal thinking? ”

"Who knows what happened to them? But to do this kind of gender identification, she must want to keep the boy and not the girl, otherwise why would she do this kind of identification? These people are really, their private lives must be very chaotic, since they are not prepared to raise him well no matter what kind of child they are, then why not do safety measures, these people are really irresponsible at all. ”

Leng Bing looked at Xu Weiwei more and more talking, and hurriedly persuaded her: "Okay, okay, after all, this is someone else's business, and we can't say anything more." There is no need to be angry for other people's things for so long, the body is their own, and there are many things that we can't change and solve. ”

"Hey, that's the truth, but I'm just uncomfortable, maybe it's a doctor's occupational disease."

Suddenly, there was a loud cry from inside the nursery.

Leng Bing had a headache, this was her son Leng Aotian crying again.

Sister-in-law Wang had something to do recently, so she took a few days off to go back to see her daughter.

So the child had to be taken care of by Leng Bing.

The cold headache is that I don't know why the children love to cry so much.

Leng Bing felt that he had tried his best to coax them, but he still kept crying, and Leng Bing felt that he was being noisy and had a headache.

As long as one child cries, the other two children will continue to cry as if they have some telepathy, so as soon as they cry, the three of them cry together, Leng Bing feels that his spirit is not very good, and the tortured ones often do not rest well.

It's normal for children to cry, but Leng Bing really can't stand it.

He also asked the doctor about this, and the doctor checked that there was nothing abnormal about the child, it was just a crying.

Leng Bing and Xu Weiwei hurriedly ran to the baby room together.

Leng Bing first hugged Leng Aotian, and among the three children, he cried the most and loved to cry the most.

Wen Bin used various methods to tease Leng Aotian, but Leng Aotian still kept crying, as if he didn't like anything, and he kept crying in his mother's arms.

Leng Bing really felt a sense of despair at this time.

No one can help her, she feels very tired in her heart, and she can't coax the child no matter what.

And Xu Weiwei picked up Xu Baobao and Leng Jiaojiao, and kept coaxing the two of them.

The whole house was filled with the cries of children, and Leng Bing felt a headache.

What the hell is she going to do to get these kids right?

But the result of the matter was that Leng Bing tried hard to coax Leng Aotian, and he often cried even more, Leng Bing was in a hurry, and he didn't know what to do at all.

Seeing this, Xu Weiwei said to Leng Bing: "Girl, put Leng Aotian down first, I'll coax him later, don't let him cry more and more." ”

Leng Bing's heart was very uncomfortable, she felt that she was really a failure as a mother, why couldn't she even coax her own children at all?

She went through so much before giving birth to these two children, she was alone from beginning to end, and she had to be deceived by a scumbag. Now it's hard to have both children and daughters, thinking that they can live happily, but they are in such a noisy environment all day long, although Leng Bing loves his children very much, but he feels very aggrieved and uncomfortable to spend Leng Bing in such an environment day after day.

So the more Leng Bing thought about it, the more aggrieved she became, but there was no way to solve it, and she couldn't throw her children away or ignore them, how could this be? So Leng Bing began to cry.

Leng Bing knew that it was impossible for her to give her children to Fei Lie, and it was impossible for Fei Lie to take care of her own children, she thought that other women had children, accompanied by their husbands, and husbands and wives took care of the children together, and she could only be alone but there was nothing she could do, and the grievances in her heart simply reached the extreme.

Leng Bing suddenly burst into tears, which frightened Xu Weiwei.

She had to hold the child in her hands and coax Leng Bing.

"What's the matter, girl, why are you crying again all of a sudden? Did you think of something, or did something happen? ”

Leng Bing said aggrievedly: "I just don't know why children love to cry so much, but I can't do anything, I feel so useless, as a mother who gave birth to them but can't make them happy, and I can't do anything to make them laugh." ”

"This has nothing to do with you, girl, these children are the kind that are easier to cry, just wait for them to be a little older, this is the hard work of being a mother, now it will get better after being tired, get through this for a while."

"I often wonder, why should I have children? I gave birth to them without my father's love, and I, as their mother, couldn't even coax them, and I didn't know how to do it, my mother was really derelict in her duties, I was so annoying, why didn't anyone help me? ”

Xu Weiwei felt that Leng Bing's mood seemed to be starting to be wrong, she was usually busy with work and would take care of the children when she came back, she didn't know what happened to her at home when she was cold and sick when she went to work.

"Girl, don't think nonsense, children are like this, you quickly adjust your emotions, don't blame yourself for everything, think about how much you wanted children before. Now there is a great blessing from God for the dragon and phoenix fetus, if you really think it is too noisy, then you usually go out and walk around, or we will invite the confinement sister-in-law. ”

Leng Bing shook his head: "It's useless, no matter how many confinement sisters-in-law you invite, it's the same, they just like to cry very much, and Sister-in-law Wang can't coax them every time." ”

"Then I'll take a little more rest in the future, and come back to take care of the children with you, you're too tired to be alone, and there is no one to talk to, and your emotions are easy to suppress. Don't think about this all the time, think about something happy, I'll take a day off tomorrow to accompany you at home, I'll make something delicious for you, okay? Don't be sad, girl. ”

Xu Weiwei tried her best to say good things, she wanted to divert her cold attention.

After all, she is a gynecologist, Xu Weiwei knows that mothers are prone to bad emotions after giving birth, because they are too tired and cold to take care of the child, and often have no one to accompany her, plus without the help and care of her husband, Xu Weiwei is worried that Leng Bing will have postpartum depression.

Leng Bing nodded.

Xu Weiwei felt very guilty in her heart, she had been busy with work recently, and she wanted to make achievements in her work, but she ignored her cold feelings.

She hadn't thought about what kind of life Leng Bing lived at home every day, even if she had a sister-in-law with her, but after all, there was no way to comfort her.

Xu Weiwei was very annoyed, why was she so careless, Leng Bing now seemed to be in a very bad mood, Xu Weiwei hoped that through her company, Leng Bing could gradually get better.

After Leng Bing, he slowly stopped crying, it didn't seem that the situation was so serious, Xu Weiwei felt a little more comfortable, it should be good that Leng Bing's mood was particularly bad, and it should still be too late to save it.

"I'm sorry, girl, it's me who didn't think about it well, I've been focusing on work lately, all in the hospital, and I haven't been able to take care of the children. You must be working very hard these days, blame me for not being good, I didn't expect these children to be so noisy, you must have been so noisy these days that you haven't had a good rest. ”

Leng Bing shook his head and said: "It's okay, girl, you can do whatever you want, I can actually hold on, but sometimes I occasionally have an emotional collapse, for example, when the three of them cry together, when I can't coax it, I'm so frustrated." It's okay for me to be wronged, you must not blame yourself for this matter, otherwise I will be even more unhappy, and the child will make you feel guilty if you don't coax well, then I will be too much of a failure. ”

"Then you promise me, don't think nonsense."

Xu Weiwei was still a little worried in her heart.

"Well, the girl is not as serious as you think, I just saw that you came back, and I have some grievances in my heart, I just want you to coax me, girl, although I am already a mother of two children, but I am also your little baby."

said to Xu Weiwei with a cold smile.

Xu Weiwei saw Leng Bing's hippie smiling face, and felt that she should be in a better mood now, and she should have been too worried just now.

Fortunately, Leng Bing is not so serious, and I will take care of her emotions more in the future and help share some of her things to take care of the children.

Leng Bing hugged Leng Aotian again, although Leng Aotian was still crying at this time, his voice was much quieter than just now, Leng Bing began to coax him softly again, and began to sing lullabies.

Slowly and slowly, Leng Aotian finally stopped crying, he should have been tired of crying, and finally fell asleep, and Leng Bing and Xu Weiwei finally breathed a sigh of relief.

Xu Baobao and Leng Jiaojiao were also asleep just now.

This collective crying mission has finally come to a successful end.

After the children fell asleep, Xu Weiwei and Leng Bing returned to the living room, and Xu Wei asked, "Girl, have you ever thought about going back to China to have a look?" ”

"What are you going to do back home? I still have children to bring here. ”