Chapter Seventy-Seven: I Want to Be Alone

Xiao Qi looked at Luo Zhe with a confused face, blinked his eyes, frowned, and called out in a low voice, "Luo Da Shao?" There seemed to be some uncertain questioning.

Luo Zhe hurriedly explained: "Baby, listen to me, I didn't mean to hide it from you, but I never found the right opportunity to talk to you. ”

Xiao Qi's expression did not change, and he was still at a loss.

"So, are you the flowery Luo Dashao who often appears in gossip magazines?"

Xiao Qi doesn't usually read much gossip magazines, she thinks that those things are not nutritious, and it is a waste of time, it is better to watch an episode of Conan. But sometimes, when the colleagues around him chatted, Xiao Qi would occasionally lean over curiously to listen to them say a word or two, and sometimes some conspicuous headlines would automatically pop up on mobile phone news headlines.

It's just that Xiao Qi and Su Yu haven't read the news carefully, so for this legendary Luo Dashao, they have only heard of the name, and have never seen photos, even if they have glanced at it once or twice, but because they were all taken secretly, their faces are not clear, and they are people who have nothing to do with themselves, so they don't remember it at all.

This is also the reason why when they met for the first time at the food stall, Luo Zhe was surprised that Xiao Qi didn't know him.

Listening to Xiao Qi's words, Luo Zhe's heart was desolate, and a sense of powerlessness and frustration swept through his body, and he silently lowered his head. Come out and mix, sooner or later you will have to pay it back. No wonder others, they all did their own sins, and they had to clean up when they knelt, Luo Zhe quietly admitted his mistake: "It's me." ”

"It's me", these two weak words made Xiao Qi feel as if he was sitting on a roller coaster, he just rushed into the clouds five minutes ago, and now he "snapped" into the sea.

Xiao Qi seemed to have received a fatal blow, piercing his heart from the top of his head to the soles of his feet. Memories that had been swept away and not cared about suddenly became clear. The dazzling and eye-catching headlines that popped up on the webpage appeared one after another, "Luo Dashao quickly changed his female companion, claiming to avoid visual fatigue." "Nen, the model sisters live broadcast and spend the night at the Luo Dashao Hotel." "Luo Da Shaohao threw millions and smiled for Bo Beauty." "Luo Dashao and the new movie star are passionate on the set, and the scene is hot."

Xiao Qi's expression was a little trance, like a dream, it was too unreal, he didn't look at Luo Zhe again, and walked out slowly holding on to the wall, just leaving a sentence "I have to be alone and quiet." "I don't know if it's for myself or for Lozhe.

Luo Zhe put Xiao Qi on his shoulders and strode out, how could he let her be alone at this time, and when she calmed down and re-examined their marital relationship, she also figured out what a scumbag man she was before, and her death time would come.

When lovers quarrel, cold treatment is the most undesirable method, especially when men treat women, feel that women are unreasonable and make a big fuss, so they don't want to go crazy with her, close the door and hide in the study or simply slam the door to find cleanliness, leaving the woman alone to restore calm, these are all evasive practices.

"Hitting is kissing, scolding is love." Not nonsense. She was originally a gentle and quiet woman, why did she not hide it from you and expose the other side of freedom, because you are her closest and most trusted person.

Many times there is no absolute right and wrong between two people who quarrel, you can think that she is vexatious and making a big fuss, but she is actually just coquettish to you, hoping to get your attention, she just wants you to coax her, let her go, that's all.

At this time, communication is the most important, not only to eliminate misunderstandings, but also to effectively release the pressure in the heart, facilitate the catharsis of emotions, and is conducive to the recovery of mentality.

Cold treatment can not make the problem solve in time, in modern marriage, cold treatment belongs to a kind of domestic violence, is a very hurtful way of doing things, each other will pile up some negative things, over time, the other party will be more and more dissatisfied, patience is getting less and less, misunderstanding is getting deeper and deeper, mood swings are getting bigger and bigger, when it becomes a habit, the diaphragm is generated, once the diaphragm is formed, it is very difficult to eliminate, because two people have lost the ability to communicate, It's a vicious circle.

Most women are sensitive creatures and are more accustomed to seeing things with emotional thinking than men. You don't want to quarrel with her, you can pretend that you can't hear or see, you can coax her without words. She's in a state of confusion, and you don't have to explain to her, she won't listen at all. You can even ignore her anger and complaints, but you can't leave her side, you can't snub her, even if you just hold her hand or hug her, let her know that you care about her and that you have her in your heart.

If the man allows the woman to treat herself coldly, when the woman calms down, she will realize that she has just gone too far, and she wants to apologize to you, but at the same time she also finds that you are not with her and leave her alone. This will make her unable to guess what you really think in your heart, and she will wonder if you are starting to get bored with her, if there is another woman outside, and she will feel insecure and gradually lose her dependence on you.

Luo Zhe coaxed softly: "Baby, go home with your husband." ”

Xiao Qi grabbed the corner of the wall and yelled: "I said, I want to be alone quietly!"