Chapter 8 Meet Netizens
This morning, when Qi Fang was exercising with Andy, he found that she was a little distracted, so he couldn't help asking.
"When we first met, I found that you were a little unsettled, and you were also absent-minded in your exercises, did something happen?"
"Oh, sorry, nothing." Andy shook his head. "I'm just thinking about a question."
"A question? What question can stump even the genius who graduated from Columbia? This question must not be a professional problem, if I guess correctly, it should be a life problem. If you don't mind, you can say it, maybe I can give you some suggestions. β
"Well, it's not really ...... It's a netizen who made an invitation to meet, and I don't know if I should see it. β
"Meet netizens?"
Qi Fang raised his eyebrows, and immediately understood what was going on, and quickly turned a few thoughts in his heart, and said quietly: "This question will make you so entangled, which means that you subconsciously want to meet him, but due to some factors, you don't dare to meet." So what are the factors that make you afraid to meet, I analyzed it, and it is nothing more than three situations. β
"Huh?" Andy listened.
"First, the issue of safety, now the Internet is full of news about girls seeing netizens persecuted, which will indeed cause some pressure on people, but it should not be the problem that you are worried about. If you're really worried about security, I can be your bodyguard for free. Second, suffering from the psychological problem of gains and losses, before meeting, always imagine the other party to be perfect, afraid that after meeting, the other party is not as good as you imagined, resulting in disillusionment, and in the end even netizens have to do it, so they will suffer from gains and losses. Qi Fang said.
Andy quickly shook his head and said, "It's not a problem in this regard, I don't care about the other party's conditions, I just appreciate the other party's words, and I have never considered this aspect of the problem." β
Qi Fang said firmly: "That's the last situation, inferiority!" β
Hearing these two words, Andy suddenly fell silent.
"Looks like I guessed right."
Qi Fang glanced at her and said, "My advice to you is to meet." β
After a moment of silence, Andy asked thoughtlessly, "Aren't you curious?" β
Qi Fang naturally knew what she was asking, shrugged his shoulders and said, "I'm not curious, through the past few days, I can probably guess six or seven points of the question on you." Your withdrawn personality and aversion to physical contact with people is a mental illness that causes 90 percent of these psychological problems to be caused by childhood shadows, which are almost all due to family problems. β
After a pause, he continued: "Family problems are nothing more than three kinds of feelings, first, both parents are complete, but there is emotional discord, quarrels, and domestic violence. Second, single-parent families were often bullied when they were young. Third, orphans have been discriminated against since childhood and lack the love of their fathers and mothers. From what I know of you, you are certainly not the first, you should be the second or third. β
"Oh, you're right, it's the second and third. Actually, I am from Boning, born in Daishan, and in my only memory, there is only my mother and a younger brother......" Andy let out a long breath and told his story. ββ¦β¦ In fact, the main purpose of my return to China this time is to find my brother. β
Qi Fang listened quietly, and after she finished speaking, he comforted: "Actually, you don't have to feel inferior because of this, your knowledge, your ability and your beauty are all your pluses, probably you haven't realized that you are far better than you imagined." After a pause for a few seconds, he added, "Do you know what my first feeling was after listening to your story?" β
"What?"
"You're so self-righteous, do you think you're the sun, the whole world revolves around you. To be honest, this story of yours is really rotten, bloody and clichΓ©, and the scale is too small. Look at it, even if you haven't been by your stepfather's strong daughter, and you haven't been cheated out of money and sex by a scumbag, let alone a car accident and amnesia, there is not even a breaking point in the whole article, where do you let the audience find refreshment? You should really watch more talent shows from a few years ago and see how other screenwriters write them! All in all, you're just feeling good about yourself, it's a disease, it's a cure. β
"Me? Feeling good about yourself?! Andy's eyes widened, and he couldn't believe his ears.
Qi Fang's words simply subverted Andy's three views, exploding like a bomb that stunned her, and said angrily and funny: "Oh my God, I really don't have ......"
"If you don't feel good about yourself, why do you recognize people and people pay attention to you all the time, why do you think of yourself as the focus? It's too late for others to pay attention to celebrities, who will pay attention to you, maybe this matter is an insurmountable mountain for you, but for others, it's really just a trivial matter, and you don't even bother to talk about it a second time when you talk about it after dinner, no one will care about this kind of thing, you don't have to take it to heart. β
"I, I...... Well, I'll reflect on myself. Andy couldn't laugh or cry, and he had no choice but to bear the scourge of feeling good about himself.
"That's right, think about it yourself. Also, when are you going to meet your netizens, I'll be your bodyguard. The first is for your safety, and the second is to satisfy my curiosity, to be honest, the first time you met a netizen, it made me more curious than your life experience. For my sake, for the sake of me comforting you so unconventionally, you should not refuse me. Qi Fang said.
"Okay, I'll send you the time and place when I get back." Andy had no choice but to say yes.
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At noon, Andy and Singularity made an appointment to meet at a CBD restaurant on Financial Street.
Qi Fang came to the restaurant first according to the time and place that Andy told him, and with a sweep of his eyes, he saw Wei Wei sitting by the window, and then sat down next to him.
Not long after, Andy also came to the restaurant and immediately saw Qi Fang.
Qi Fang gestured to her, who smiled helplessly and walked slowly under the guidance of the waiter.
"Singularity?" Andy walked over to Wei Wei's table and looked at him at the same time.
"I am, Andy?" Wei Wei smiled and stretched out his hand. "Finally seeing you."
"Am I sitting here?" Andy is not used to physical contact with people and refuses the request to shake hands.
"Of course, you may be seated."
Wei Wei took it easy, quietly resolved the embarrassment, and after Andy sat down, he quickly opened the topic: "It seems that my speculation is correct, when I was abroad, I always thought you were a man, and then you hesitated again and again when I invited you to dinner, I overturned my previous idea." β
"But you're still a little surprised to see me."
"Yes, you must not be angry when I say it. Girls in science and engineering are generally called dinosaurs, and although I guessed the gender correctly, I didn't guess the others. β
"Actually, I guessed wrong on this point, I thought that the people who mixed up in the science and technology forum were young people...... Sorry, it's not polite for me to say that. β
"It's okay."
"Oh, by the way, a friend of mine came with me, and he ...... Worried about my safety, I hope you understand. Andy suddenly mentioned Qi Fang.
"I understand, please come and sit with him." Wei Wei said.
"Qi Fang, come and sit together." Andy waved at the same time.
Qi Fang was not far from them, so he naturally heard their conversation, shrugged his shoulders when he heard the words, walked over, and said as he walked: "I always thought that disturbing other people's dates was a heinous thing, and I never thought that one day I would do this kind of thing." Hello, Qi Fang. β
"Wei Wei."
The two shook hands, and Wei Wei said, "Mr. Qi, please take a seat." β
After Qi Fang sat down, he said: "I originally just wanted to be a spectator, but I didn't expect Andy to point me out, I'm really a little embarrassed, I hope I didn't disturb the two of you, you continue, just let me not exist." β
"It's okay, it's normal for a beautiful woman to have one or two bodyguards by her side." Wei Wei had a smile on his face, at least on the surface, he was very understanding, but it was unknown how it actually was.
"I'm not very familiar with Chinese food, so you can order it." Andy said.
Wei Wei called the waiter over, ordered a few dishes, and then put the menu in front of Qi Fang: "Brother Qi take a look and what else do you want?" β
Qi Fang flipped it over and said, "Let's have three catties of steak." β
The waiter was surprised: "Three catties of steak? β
Qi Fang nodded, but the latter sentence was said to Wei Wei: "Yes, three catties of steak, and the rest are not needed." I'm sorry, I have a big appetite. β
"Okay, do you need some water, sir?"
"I'll just drink pure water."
After the dishes came up, Qi Fang began to concentrate on dealing with the steak, and indeed as he said, he didn't say a word. However, with him at the table, Andy's conversation with Wei Wei will always be affected in some way, and what should have been an interesting conversation suddenly becomes a little boring.
At the blind date table, the most embarrassing thing is not that the other party's friend is against you, but that he is sitting there, but he pretends not to exist.