168, Dandan
Eleventh mail.
"Hello, I am very different from other classmates, I studied in Chengdu when I was in primary school and was admitted to the middle school, but my mother spent a lot of money to let me go to the best middle school in Chengdu - Chengdu Foreign Chinese College."
Reading this, Cheng Yi paused, and he said: "Chengwai, Chengwai, I know, a very good school." ”
After commenting a few sentences, he continued: "After going outside the city, the competition was too great, my classmates had very good academic performance, and the knowledge taught by the teacher was also difficult, I couldn't, I couldn't learn, and slowly became the student with the worst grades."
The two years of junior high school were torment for me, I didn't dare to think about it, but in the third year of junior high school, I dropped out of school, and then went to Leshan, Sichuan, and it was my father who found me a relationship and let me study in the best middle school in Leshan, and I began to repeat my studies from the second year of junior high school.
But at that time, I was already decadent, because I was in Chengdu junior high school, I had become a bad student, and I was just messing around here, and I had no intention of studying.
There were many times when I went out to surf the Internet, and once I was discovered by the school and notified my dad, and he found me in the Internet café, and now I regret it.
Because of these, I studied in Leshan for a year and dropped out, my father spent money to find me another school, and I went in the third year of junior high school, I didn't study well, and my father could only find a relationship to send me to vocational high school.
Vocational high school mixed for two years, after graduation to the hotel internship, internship back to play until now, in May this year turned 21 years old, played at home for two years, during the period of one or two jobs, the time did not exceed three months.
My dad wanted to send me to the army, but I didn't get it, and now my mom has got me a job learning pastry with a senior chef in a hotel, but I don't like it, I'm confused now, and I don't know what I like.
I only have a secondary school diploma, I want to take the junior college exam, I want to go to university, but my grades are not good, I see that there are many people who apply for the adult college entrance examination on the Internet, I want to read, I want to have a higher education, what should I do, please give me some guidance. ”
After reading the email, Cheng Yi unconsciously folded his hands, and he ignored the barrage on the barrage that said "waste", "there is a mine at home", "it is recommended to gnaw the old", "it is recommended to lie down on the corpse", "it sounds a little angry", "decadent garbage" and "wasted".
He said, "Son, you're about to turn 21, and in your previous academic career... You're like..."
After a pause, Cheng Yi said: "I'll just be direct, it's equivalent to "eating and waiting for death" What I said may not sound good, and the medicine is bitter."
I don't mean to deny you entirely, on the contrary, I think you can still be saved, brother, a person's life is very long, some people run fast in front, some people run fast behind, and some people have been running, I think you have rested long enough in front, you can sprint.
You're just 21, you have endless possibilities, you're in your early twenties, what a good age, and your family situation is obviously not bad, so I think you have a lot of room to get back into a city, even if your current state is very poor, even a mess.
I analyzed it, and I think your current state is not that you don't want to learn well, but you are actually a person who doesn't want to be a salted fish and don't want to gnaw on the old, so you sent me this email.
From this email, I can see that you really want to learn well, but now you have become confused, and you don't know how to learn well through years and experiences. ”
pondering the words, Cheng Yi said: "You were a mess before, and now you are still a mess, which makes you very uncomfortable, you want to go well, your grades are too poor, and you can't figure out some things yourself, and your family finds you a relatively low-threshold job according to your situation, and you don't want to do it."
You are very anxious, I can understand your feelings. ”
With a long breath, Cheng Yi said: "Friend, now you say that you want to apply for the adult college entrance examination, and I agree with this."
Really child, you be brave, to learn, to progress, this society is now very tolerant, and the social level of the adult college entrance examination is becoming more and more recognized.
In the past five years, ten years, the adult college entrance examination was not recognized at all, but now it is different, no one will scoff at it, so you want to go to the adult college entrance examination, want to improve your academic qualifications, I am very supportive of you, because you have this self-motivation, I believe that your family will also support you. ”
After a pause, Cheng Yi said again: "21 years old, graduated from vocational high school in 19, you have been playing at home for two years, I believe you will not be very happy when you play at home." He spoke in a very sincere and apt tone.
Then he said: "Brother, I have also been on the Internet and skipped class, I know what kind of state it is, it is a kind of escape psychology."
Escape from the world, anesthetize yourself, really, you won't have a lot of fun, no one in this world will spend their parents' money very happily, no one will be happy if they can't support themselves, no one will be willing to gnaw at the old, I know that there are some people who have no lower limit to do that, but he is definitely not you.
You are a person with a conscience, and you have three minutes of heat, so I suggest that you use the heat that you can ignite occasionally, even if it is a few minutes or even less, to find opportunities to study.
I know this thing is difficult for you, but I hope you don't give up, I look forward to you sending me an email again to tell me that you have been admitted, and I hope that the next time I see you in the live broadcast room, your image is very sunny, you are very self-motivated, and you can be responsible for yourself.
Because the more you get to the back, the more decadent you will be, just imagine, next year, the year after, when you are 25 years old, you are still in such a state, you are really wasted.
I really hope you can stand up, the old wood bowed to you, okay, please get better, child, it's not too late, I sincerely hope you can wake up and fight this one. ”
Cheng Yi said, he really bowed in front of the camera, and after doing all this, he said: "Don't give up studying when you're young, it's never too late, I've been learning!"
Today you have also seen how I work behind the scenes, I don't mean how hard I work, but "the edge of the sword comes from the sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold." ”
If you want to be looked down upon, you have to pay, decadent for a while, can't be decadent for a while, stand up, you are a real man.
I hope you will work hard, and come back here when you are admitted to the school you want to go to, Douyu 33xx66 live broadcast room is collectively waiting for your good news, when will you become famous, please come back and pretend to be 13. ”
After saying that, Cheng Yi thanked some people for their gifts, replied to some people's barrage, and began to read the next email, what he didn't know was that in the distance, an audience member who was inextricably linked with him in the live broadcast room, a veteran fan in the live broadcast room, was crying.
From Panda to Betta, his ID has never changed, at first he was called "Dandan" and then "I don't like to look at wood and Dandan".
Yes, balls, balls are crying.
In the live broadcast room, he is a brother, in Douyu 33XX66, he is full of cards, but who knows how disappointed he is in reality, he feels like a waste, a garbage, as Cheng Yi said, he is escaping the world, he is paralyzing himself, he is not really happy.
I don't like to look at wood and balls - real name, Lin Zhaoyi, his father is a businessman, and so is his mother, his grandfather's family is in Yulin, Guangxi, and his mother's family is in Chengdu, Sichuan.
He grew up in his grandparents' house before the age of 7, lived in his grandmother's house after the age of 7, and returned to Guangxi at the age of 19 after graduating from vocational high school, and spent more time in Guangdong.
He is not short of money, he really is not short of money at all, what he lacks is a man's sense of accomplishment.
has been displaced since he was a child, and his parents don't care enough about him, which is why he can get along so well with the anchor Cheng Yi, and the super rocket brushes out without blinking.
Children lack love.
There is no doubt that Cheng Yi's words deeply touched his heart, and he continued to watch Cheng Yi's live broadcast this night, and he repeatedly thought about the "adult college entrance examination" in his mind, and secretly made a decision in his heart.
After Cheng Yi went on the air, Lin Zhaoyi Baidu's "Hangzhou Normal University Adult College Entrance Examination" conditions, he decided that he had to fight for this.
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