058 Gossip (2)
The "Law of Broken Windows" tells us:
If the windows of a house are broken and no one repairs them, it will not be long before other windows are broken inexplicably.
On one wall, if some graffiti is not cleaned off, it will soon be covered with messy and unsightly things.
In a very clean place, people are embarrassed to throw away garbage, but once there is garbage on the ground, people will throw it without hesitation and without any shame.
If this law is put in gossip, it can be summed up in four words: "People's words are terrible."
The boys are okay there, the girls are here, all kinds of gossip, and they can explode the pot after dinner.
Some things, which are not true, can have a bad impact, and some things, which are true, are also other people's privacy, and what is passed on and around will not only cause a bad impact, but also cause indelible psychological trauma.
I can't say that I've always been a bystander, there are some things that I'm a participant in, and some things that I've heard are wrong and I haven't helped the person to argue against them. Apathy and participation are both accomplices.
There are more than 50 people in one class, both men and women, some mediocre and some excellent.
Among the outstanding people, some are because of their excellent grades, some because of their good looks, and some because of their excellent character......
And praise is followed by controversy and slander.
I don't remember who said some of the words, but I have a general impression in my mind.
Groups of girls, after physical education class, sit around the grass.
They discussed the question of who was good-looking in the class, and most girls at this age paid more attention to beautiful girls than boys.
Whether it is a rebellious girl like Gao Huan, or a ladylike beauty like Chen Yingying, or a cheerful girl like Wang Qin...... None of them can escape the fate of being discussed.
I vaguely remember that this was how their conversation began.
Girl A said, "Which girls in our class do you think are good-looking?" ”
Girl B said, "Chen Yingying." ”
Girl C said: "Gao Huan, but after she was expelled from school, there was no news." ”
Girl D said: "You say Gao Huan, I heard that after she dropped out of school, her family gave her a blind date, and she was about to get engaged." ”
Girl A said, "Really? How do you know? ”
Girl D said, "Of course it's true, I have a friend from their village. ”
Girl B said, "Oh my God, are you going to get married so early?" ”
Girl D continued: "I heard that she was messing around outside, her belly was big, and her family thought it was ugly, so she was engaged." ”
Several of the people present sighed, more or less, all bad words.
Girl E had been silent just now, and when she heard them say this, she began to be a little overwhelmed, and said seriously: "Don't talk nonsense, she just went to work, my house is very close to her, don't say something that she doesn't have."
She's just dressed up a little bit different, but she's still a good person and has a good personality. ”
Girl D couldn't help but be a little embarrassed when she saw that her nonsense words were exposed, and said with a smile: "Hey, what are you doing so seriously, I just heard about it, who knows if it's true or fake?"
Yes, yes, she does have a good personality. ”
The other girls didn't talk much about it.
This should be the end of the rumors to the wise.
I just happened to pass by and saw that their voices were getting quieter and quieter, and they were about to leave.
Who knows, they started a new topic.
"It's just that you can't judge people by their appearance.
Look at that Chen Yingying, don't think that she pretends to be a lady on the surface, but in fact, her conduct is very poor. Girl C picked up the topic and continued.
Girl D was surprised and asked, "What's wrong?" I think she's pretty good. ”
The other girls also looked at C with a curious expression, encouraging her to continue.
Girl C continued: "I'll tell you, I'll tell you this, she is in love with a boy in her second year of junior high school.
Not only that, but I heard that when she was studying outside, she was known by the school teacher and criticized in public because of her early love.
Later, the reputation in that school was too bad to mix, so I turned back. ”
Girl E sneered and asked, "You can't also listen to her from the same village, right?" ”
Girl C knew that E must want to dismantle the stage again, so she cleared her throat, straightened up, and said, "It's not."
My cousin was in the boy's class, and I heard that the boy was showing off everywhere in the class, saying that he had found a beautiful girlfriend, and my cousin asked curiously about the name and class, but I didn't expect it to be Chen Yingying in our class.
This is true. ”
Girl A asked, "Then their homeroom teacher doesn't care?" ”
Girl B said: "No, I thought Chen Yingying was a good child, but I didn't expect that she was still in early love?" More than once? ”
Girl C sneered: "How can you look at the surface of people?
The last thing I see is a girl who deliberately dresses up to show off.
You say, let's go to school every day and study, who has time to watch? Isn't it just to seduce men? ”
Girl D glanced at C and said, "You can't be jealous of the good-looking parents of others, and your family is rich, so you deliberately smear her here, right?" ”
Girl C glanced at D tirelessly and said, "Cut, I don't envy it." My mother said that ugly people are more weird, and those who dress up so flamboyantly are either juniors or immodest women. ”
Girl E glanced at C in disbelief and said, "Your mother actually said that?"
Oh my God, I don't think you guys should be here, just say this and that, okay, I don't have anything to talk to you about, I'll go back to the classroom first. ”
Girl D glanced at Girl E coldly and said, "Then you can go, it's not uncommon for you to listen." Let's move on. ”
Girl E leaves the group and walks straight to the classroom.
Girl C continued, "You know what? The boyfriend Chen Yingying talked about, don't look good, but his conduct is actually very poor.
I don't know how many times I've talked about it, and I'm still fighting, and I'm a well-known gangster in the second year of junior high school, and I'm not a good student. ”
After listening to this, Girl A said, "Oh my God, I can't believe it, there is really something wrong with Chen Yingying's vision." ”
Girl C said: "People are happy, you can't control it, and I can't control it." What we're saying here today, don't spread nonsense. ”
Everyone nodded.
Girl B said: "It seems that people really can't be deceitful. ”
Girl D said, "Let's go, let's go, it's time to go back to the classroom." ”
After they dispersed, I sat alone under the tree.
In recent days, there have been too many gossips I have heard, true and false. However, Chen Yingying's boyfriend, I have seen it, and he really doesn't have a good temper, but is it as bad as they say?
I can only have a big doubt in my heart, after all, my mother taught me: "Don't be idle, just take care of your own business." ”
Originally, I wanted to defend myself, but not everyone will believe that what you say is true, after all, in their eyes, truth is much more boring than rumors.
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