103 I want to hug her
In Buddhism, "all living beings are equal" is always preached, and the saying "everyone is equal before the law" is always popular in a society governed by the rule of law. ”
But I have seen with my own eyes the most injustice.
Life is full of all kinds of helplessness, and you never know which disaster or tomorrow will come first.
There are many things that we can't control her to happen, including today's article, which is about the unfortunate fate of a girl, I don't want to write too explicitly, but I really want to hug her.
was abandoned by her own mother at birth and left to her grandparents to raise, and her father later married a stepmother and gave birth to a younger brother, and her position in the family became particularly embarrassing.
Life can only be lived like this, in addition to being able to get some money from her father every month, the girl spends most of her time with her grandparents who live on the side, and she doesn't have much sense of belonging to her family, she lives so sensible and stubborn, but life always doesn't leave her any mercy.
Just last week, the girl's father died suddenly in a car accident, and the perpetrator paid hundreds of thousands of dollars.
When do people feel particularly helpless and hopeless? Is it a time of near death? I don't think so, it's when a loved one dies.
Originally, this father didn't love her very much, but he was just fulfilling his obligations and giving her a little living allowance every month.
The countryside has always been so backward, many children do not study, and have children in their teens. Her parents belong to the type of early marriage and early childbearing, and her mother regretted giving birth to her, left her, and found a better family to marry.
Because she is a girl, her father doesn't pay much attention to her and leaves her grandmother to raise.
In the context of the vast countryside, there must be a lot of such things.
Seeing my parents so harmonious, I had the impression that people who got married were like this respectful to each other, until I came to Lingnan Middle School and learned in depth that there were several children with divorced parents in the class, and not all of my peers grew up in a simple and harmonious family like me.
Domestic violence is no longer used to it.
In our village, three households away from my family, there is one such family.
The man was a psychopath, and he had been in a psychiatric hospital for a while, sometimes normal, sometimes abnormal.
Every once in a while, I can always see him in the village holding sticks and other things, chasing his daughter-in-law and beating him, and their only daughter, who is four or five years younger than me, stands aside, so scared that she doesn't know what to do, and can only cry.
It was this person who gave me a deep understanding of what "chickens fly and dogs jump". Basically every household in the village has chickens, and many families have dogs. As soon as he chased and bullied him, it was really the live version of chickens flying and dogs jumping, the chickens in the village were scared everywhere, and the dogs kept barking.
There are some kind-hearted elders in the village, most of them are relatively strong men, and they can only avoid the tragedy by running to hold on to the mental illness. In one serious case, they all picked up a stone and smashed it, and I stood from a distance to see that there was clearly visible blood stains on his daughter-in-law's head.
It's been going on like this every once in a while, and after a long time, there are fewer and fewer people who are willing to help with the fight, and there are still many people who regard this matter as an after-dinner conversation. Even this mentally ill parent, because I couldn't stand the unharmonious family environment and the strange eyes of the villagers, moved to live in a mud house at the other end of the village, and according to my mother, it was their old house.
Sometimes when I talk to my mom about it, I can only express my incomprehension: "Mom, why does this woman want to marry this psychopath?" Why didn't she resist, why didn't she get divorced? ”
My mother touched my head and said earnestly: "Her mother's family is too poor, so poor that she has no food to eat, so there is no way to marry him." It's useless to resist, who will the child follow after resisting? This man can still make some money, and the family depends on him to support him. ”
I looked at her in surprise, I couldn't believe what she said, as the old saying goes, "Marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat." ”
I could only sigh unwillingly and said, "Hey! ”
My mother smiled and said, "If you don't study hard, if you can't marry a good family in the future, we won't be able to help you." ”
I shook my head, frowned, and said, "Okay, then I must study hard." ”
This is the case in the countryside, if a woman gets married wrongly, her life will be like this, her children will not have a good life, her marriage will not be happy, and her life will almost be ruined.
Zhu Ya hasn't been back for a week, and this week, I miss her and want to hug her.
She is the unfortunate girl I am talking about, a girl who is deliberately forgotten by the jealousy of angels, fate never seems to favor her, except for pain is disaster, I want to hug her.
Teacher He just sighed, shook his head helplessly, sighed again, and said weakly: "Classmate Zhu Ya has something at home, so I asked for leave this week." ”
The classmates sighed for a while, stumbled for a while, and then quieted down again.
(Can't write...... Caven again)
In Buddhism, "all living beings are equal" is always preached, and the saying "everyone is equal before the law" is always popular in a society governed by the rule of law. ”
But I have seen with my own eyes the most injustice.
My mother touched my head and said earnestly: "Her mother's family is too poor, so poor that she has no food to eat, so there is no way to marry him." It's useless to resist, who will the child follow after resisting? This man can still make some money, and the family depends on him to support him. ”
I looked at her in surprise, I couldn't believe what she said, as the old saying goes, "Marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat." ”
I could only sigh unwillingly and said, "Hey! ”
My mother smiled and said, "If you don't study hard, if you can't marry a good family in the future, we won't be able to help you." ”
I shook my head, frowned, and said, "Okay, then I must study hard." ”
This is the case in the countryside, if a woman gets married wrongly, her life will be like this, her children will not have a good life, her marriage will not be happy, and her life will almost be ruined.
Zhu Ya hasn't been back for a week, and this week, I miss her and want to hug her.
She is the unfortunate girl I am talking about, a girl who is deliberately forgotten by the jealousy of angels, fate never seems to favor her, except for pain is disaster, I want to hug her.
Teacher He just sighed, shook his head helplessly, sighed again, and said weakly: "Classmate Zhu Ya has something at home, so I asked for leave this week." ”
The classmates sighed for a while, stumbled for a while, and then quieted down again.
Teacher He just sighed, shook his head helplessly, sighed again, and said weakly: "Classmate Zhu Ya has something at home, so I asked for leave this week." ”
The classmates sighed for a while, stumbled for a while, and then quieted down again.
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