Chapter 12 Another unspoken rule
In the past few days, Fang Yuhao has been wandering around major hospitals, looking for psychological patients.
Not to mention, with the gradual smoothness of his acting skills and the improvement of his self-confidence, he is becoming more and more like a real psychiatrist.
His understanding of the skill of "heart-to-heart communication" has gradually deepened, and he has summed up more experience.
Everyone's mind is different, some people are a huge complex space, some people are a deep ocean, but the vast majority of people's spiritual world is just a complex flat painting.
Why this discrepancy, Fang Yuhao has not yet reached a final conclusion.
According to his speculation, it is likely to have something to do with imagination, intelligence, and even the "soul" in the dark.
The couple in front of him was his ninth guest, but there was some unpleasantness in it......
"What's the matter with you!"
"I said I was going to get a massage, but my wife suddenly became stupid! Are you responsible? A middle-aged man in a suit was scolding Fang Yuhao.
Fang Yuhao drank coffee one after another, slightly embarrassed in his heart.
When the patient is pulled out of the faith, he will always be dull for a few minutes because of the blank mind, which is the biggest shortcoming of the "heart and mind" ability.
As a result, the accompanying family member directly thought that his wife was stupid by Fang Yuhao.
Well, it's not a big deal, based on past experience, the speed of sobriety is inversely proportional to the number of beliefs pulled out.
The less faith is removed, the faster it recovers.
"Stop!" The clay man also had three points of anger, hearing that the other party's voice was getting louder and louder, and he was getting more and more angry, Fang Yuhao raised his voice and stretched out a hand: "It's just a hypnosis, five minutes, you just wait for five minutes!" ”
"If it doesn't return to normal in five minutes, I'm responsible!"
Since Fang Yuhao said so, and there were more and more onlookers, the man was stunned with a red face, and finally snorted coldly and sat down heavily.
He actually pulled out his phone and began the countdown while staring anxiously at his somewhat Muggle-like wife.
Fang Yuhao was not in a hurry and waited patiently.
To be reasonable, this woman suffers from a more typical "postpartum depression".
When Fang Yuhao entered her spiritual world, he found that the roots were intricate, and there was neither a very obvious and stubborn belief like Lin Yixuan that could be dragged out, nor an impulsive emotion like Wang Dahai.
The patient's situation is as follows: after she conceived a baby in October and gave birth to a daughter, on the one hand, she loved this daughter very much in her heart and liked this little life that had just been born into the world; On the other hand, when a child cries, it often feels troublesome and annoying.
This is the first contradiction.
At other times, the daughter attracts the attention of most relatives and friends, and neglects her, a long-suffering mother.
There was a slight jealousy in her heart...... Yes, jealous of their own daughters.
This is the second contradiction.
To be reasonable, this situation is not difficult to understand, especially the girls nowadays, most of whom are only children, and they have lost the attention of the people around them all of a sudden, and there will always be some psychological gaps.
These chaotic thoughts are all mixed together, like a mess, you have me, I have you, cut constantly, and sort out the mess.
If Fang Yuhao can extract some "bad emotions", or enough to say this kind of "jealousy", he can also cure this "postpartum depression". But unfortunately, because this mess was too complicated, he tried for a while and found that his level was simply not good.
"Alas, I don't have the ability for the time being, so I can pull out one of them alone."
"Maybe my skills aren't good enough......"
Fang Yuhao was silent for a long time, and he also scratched his head and touched his ears, with a terrible headache.
It doesn't matter if you forcibly pull out all these messy "beliefs", but in this way, maybe this mother won't even love her daughter.
There are so many emotions and memories here, and when they all disappear, it is likely to affect normal life.
"Isn't that harmful?"
After thinking about it, he could only temporarily clear away some of the "unpleasant" emotions floating on the surface, so that the patient could relax a little.
This is only a palliative solution, and these "unpleasant" emotions may re-breed over time.
"Well, I'll have repeat customers in the future? I didn't mean to. ”
"People are really complex animals, and all beliefs are intertwined, some good and some bad, and they affect the whole body."
"Like Wang Dahai and Lin Yixuan, there are not many thoughts that can be removed neatly."
Because there were fewer beliefs to clear and the impact was limited, it took about a minute for the lady to wake up from her stupor.
"Dr. Fang, your massage is amazing, I feel much more relaxed! I don't feel like I want to cry and die all day long......" she said, "It seems to be back to the time when I was not pregnant." ”
The woman still rolled her eyes and squinted at the man sitting next to her.
The man panicked, and quickly put away the mobile phone that was still counting down, his face was slightly red.
"That's good."
Fang Yuhao smiled and said: "But this kind of massage hypnosis is only a palliative solution, and it can only be relieved for a while." Most of it still depends on family interactions, as well as your own psychological adjustment...... Otherwise, the sentiment could return. ”
Fang Yuhao squinted his eyes and looked at the man: "Especially in terms of family, this gentleman, usually have to be patient and communicate more with his wife." Be empathetic, take into account the psychological needs of the other party, and don't lose your temper at every turn......"
"If the temper is so irritable, the wife suffers from depression, and the responsibility of the family should account for at least 50% ......"
was counted out like this, and the man was half agreed, half embarrassed, so he could only smile and nod there.
“…… Don't care about your company all day long, it's important to spend more time with your family. This is the only way to restore health. ”
Fang Yuhao didn't care too much: "Okay, let's stop here today, this experience is here." You can make an appointment with me next time if you need to. ”
……
A few minutes later, a man and a woman walked out of the café.
The man hurriedly asked in a low voice, "Do you think this kind of psychological counseling is useful?" This kind of massage, just a few minutes of effort, really works? ”
"Of course it works, you think I'm not a polite word?" The woman said angrily: "Why are you so fierce to the doctor, the doctors are all offended by you!" Don't you know it's called hypnosis? ”
"Hypnosis! Do you understand? ”
The man said with a bitter face: "I don't care......"
He also felt that he was so stupid just now, looking at Fang Yuhao so young, he thought he was a liar, but he didn't expect to become a master all of a sudden!
The woman recalled the scene just now: "At that time, I felt that my brain was blank, but when I regained consciousness, I suddenly felt very relaxed and forgot all my troubles. It seems that I have seen a lot more at once, and I am not so depressed...... This kind of hypnosis is a real skill! People like you who don't read novels don't understand. ”
"Isn't it because of your father and daughter?"
The man laughed embarrassedly twice: "I work hard for the sake of the family!" Where can life come from without material things? ”
The two got into a silver car, and then, the man seemed to remember something: "By the way, since you think it has an effect, if the problem recurs next time, you have to make an appointment, you can't offend the doctor." Do you have any red envelopes or envelopes? ”
"I'm looking for ......"