Chapter 19: Persuasion
After Fan Shengmei arrived at the company, she submitted her resignation application on the grounds of taking care of her sick father, and the company quickly helped her go through the resignation procedures in special cases.
Qi Fang took her to see the store, and then the two signed a special agreement, after that, Fan Shengmei began to run for this small shop, although she seemed busy, she also enjoyed it, and there was a smile on her face that she hadn't seen for days.
Capital.
At the business forum, Wei Guoqiang gushed his views on the domestic and foreign economies, but when he returned home, he received an email.
The email contained details of a woman, which highlighted the woman's background, and this person was Andy.
Wei Guoqiang's heart was very shocked when he saw it, and he rushed to Haishi overnight, but he didn't meet Andy immediately, and a letter alone was not enough to make him fully believe it.
Through some means, Wei Guoqiang got some of Andy's DNA tissues, and after genetic comparison, he was 100% sure that Andy was his daughter.
After that, Wei Guoqiang came to Shengxuan and recognized Andy.
Andy's attitude was very indifferent, and the conversation between the two was very unpleasant, but Wei Guoqiang still told her what happened back then.
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"Andy, what's going on?"
As soon as Qi Fang entered the door, he saw Andy sitting on the ground with his knees crossed, and there were several empty bottles on the ground in front of her.
"Let's break up." Andy glanced up at Qi Fang, his eyes regained a little brightness, and he proposed to break up as soon as he opened his mouth.
"We'll talk about the breakup later, you tell me first, what happened to you and how it became like this." Qi Fangdao.
"My biological father has come looking for me." Andy said.
"And then? Even if a father suddenly pops up, it won't blow you like this! Qi Fang said.
"He told me......" Andy told Qi Fang bluntly.
"You're breaking up with me because of this?" Qi Fang asked.
"We have a history of hereditary mental illness in my family, and I have the genes for mental illness in me, and I might go crazy one day. I don't want to drag you down, so let's break up. Andy said bitterly.
"Andy, I didn't expect you to think so long-term, it really makes me embarrassed. Since you're breaking up with me for this reason, let's have a good talk. ”
Qi Fang said to her item by item: "First, you know that I am a person who is happy in time, living in the moment, and being happy in time. To be honest, I don't even know when we're going to break up suddenly, maybe we'll be separated before you get sick. According to the survey, the probability of getting married at the first love is less than 5%, since you know that there is a 95% chance of breaking up, why do two people start to fall in love? So it doesn't make sense for you to break up with me for this reason. ”
"Second, assuming that your future illness is an established fact, and this matter will not change in any way because you have a boyfriend or not, then why don't you have a relationship before you get sick. If you're afraid of dragging me down, you can refer to the first one. ”
"Third, you don't necessarily get sick. According to the theory of biological evolution, human genes can be carried out, and maybe in your generation, the genes of mental illness will just be gone. ”
"Fourth, the onset of any mental illness has a trigger, and this trigger is nothing more than emotional fluctuations. Your grandmother's onset was before the age of 20, and your mother's onset was around the age of 20, and people at this age are still immature in their emotional outlook, values and worldview, and their mood swings are very large, so there is a relatively high probability of inducing mental illness in the genes. And you are now in your thirties, with a sound mind, mature outlook, and relatively small mood swings, and there is a high probability that you will not induce mental illness in this life. ”
"Fifth, your family may not have a psychiatric gene. The cause of your grandmother's illness is unknown, but it is likely that your grandmother went mad because she was persecuted. People who have not experienced that era can't imagine the horror of that era, under such blows and oppression, normal people can go crazy, let alone your grandmother, a little country girl with little culture and no knowledge, this cannot be evidence that your grandmother has a mental illness gene. The reason for your mother's illness is that she fell into the water and has a low-grade fever for several days, even if a normal person has a fever for several days in a row, it is possible to burn out the brain, so this is not evidence that your mother has a psychopathic gene. There are many reasons why your brother is ill, maybe he has been abused, maybe he is too young to bear the psychological capacity and can't stand the discrimination of others, maybe his father's relatives have mental illness, there are many reasons, and you can't be sure that he has the gene for mental illness. ”
"Sixth, the current level of medical care is progressing very fast, even if there is no effective means to treat mental illness, but maybe in three or five years, ten or eight years, mental illness can be completely cured."
"Seventh, in the end, this is a problem that money can solve. Your grandfather and your father had many reasons, the first was the background at the time, and the second was that they didn't have any money at the time, so they had no other choice. If it is put now, your grandfather and your father can come up with a sum of money to settle your grandmother and your mother very well, just like you treat Xiao Ming. Today's society is a civilized and developed society with a sound system, as long as there is money, even a dog can live more nourishing, comfortable, and dignified than most people, not to mention that the mentally ill still have human rights. To put it a little crazy, as long as it can be solved with money, it is not a problem. ”
"Eighth, in fact, I also have a genetic disease, no one in my family has lived past 100 years in the last three generations, and according to my genes, I have not lived for decades. As the saying goes, there is no big thing other than life and death, I don't want to die or live, why are you so excited because of a small thing that I don't know if there is or not? ”
"Ninth, in fact, I am an immortal, I will help you refine a pill another day, and you will be admitted to a pill, so you will not be sick from now on, so you don't have to worry about it at all."
"Tenth, if you're really afraid of dragging me down, let me have an extra girlfriend, I'm a person with a broader mind, more emotional, and excellent physical fitness, even if I have a few more girlfriends, I can do it...... Haha, just kidding, you shouldn't have heard of this. Based on the previous nine points alone, you don't have to, let alone break up with me for this reason, I won't agree. ”
After speaking, Qi Fang picked up a bottle of water and poured it into his mouth in one go, exhaled a long breath, and said, "Okay, everything I can think of has been finished, and I have tried my best, if you want to break up with me, I can't do anything." ”
"Thank you for your comfort, I take back my words." Andy's expression has recovered a lot.
"I've finally convinced you, if only you could think about it. People, the most important thing is to live happily, don't get along with yourself. Qi Fang said.
The next day, Andy went to work, and Tan Zongming was also relieved to see Andy's expression recover.
"Andy, I'm relieved if you can figure it out."
"Actually, I didn't figure it out by myself, it was Qi Fang who persuaded me." Andy said.
"I didn't expect Brother Qi to have such eloquence, it was really unexpected. Andy, there is something I haven't confessed to you, in fact, I have known Wei Guoqiang for a long time, but I am afraid that you will think too much, so I have never told you. Tan Zongming was a little surprised, and then apologized to Andy.
"I understand, it's okay, I know you're doing my good." Andy understood.
"I don't understand now, how did Wei Guoqiang suddenly come to the door, few people should know about this matter." Tan Zongming wondered.
"Maybe he found it out on his own, it doesn't matter, with his network, sooner or later he will know about it, sooner or later." Andy shrugged, nonchalant.
"Yes." Tan Zongming nodded, and after a few more words, he waved away.