It was hard to meet once, and we only talked for a few words, but they were in a hurry to leave, as if to avoid her. Ren Wenyan said with some dissatisfaction. "My eyes hurt a little too, so you don't talk to me, do you?"

Lu Feng didn't know how to answer for a while, after all, Ren Wenyan hadn't given a clear answer yet, if the two of them continued to talk, they would fall deeper and deeper, and it would be difficult to extricate themselves, it was better to calm down now, but it was not easy to say this. Lu Feng fixed his eyes and saw that Ren Wenyan's QQ avatar turned out to be exactly the same cat head as him, hey, she was really tossed.

Ren Wenyan immediately seemed to think of something, and said with a slightly gloomy expression: "Why did you quarrel with your mother last night!" I called you later, why didn't you answer. If we really get to the point of sea love, you still tell me early, otherwise it will be bad for each other, I used to feel that you are still okay with me, but now you say that you are too much pressure on you, I have that feeling. I haven't been sleeping well lately, and I can't seem to sleep tonight. ”

"Don't make a family ugly! I didn't answer your phone because the situation was urgent and I had to take care of my parents first. ”

Lu Feng quarreled with his mother very fiercely last night, because his mother always insisted on pleasing her favorite daughter-in-law, she was too anxious, and rarely considered her feelings about pleasing her wife, and now the woman put forward a lot of conditions, which made Lu Feng very angry.

So the father persuaded the mother on the side, saying that the child should let the child make his own decision, after all, they will live together in the future. When there was a lot of trouble, Ren Wenyan called, and Lu Feng couldn't answer it.

"My family didn't say it had to happen now. Yesterday for this? What do you say in your home? Ren Wenyan raised her head and waited a little nervously for his reply, after all, his family's point of view represented whether this blind date could continue.

Lu Feng's expression was slightly unnatural, and he pretended to be frivolous and said: "I reported the situation to my parents and expressed my opinions, and now I am waiting for you to make the final decision, whether it will be successful or not is up to you, I have no opinion." ”

"It's hard for me to be like this." Ren Wenyan bit her lip lightly and frowned. This Lu Feng was also naughty and kicked the ball back, but even if he agreed to lower his requirements, how could his mother say it.

said this, in order not to bear the parents to quarrel anymore, Lu Feng came up with this compromise solution, and the parents heard it and thought it was feasible, so they didn't argue anymore. Thinking of this, Lu Feng felt very sad, he had put his fate in her hands, what else did he want?

What's more, this embarrassment was not asked for by himself, it was imposed on his family by Ren Wenyan's mother, and Lu Feng would do it if he could meet the conditions, your mother said that it was good to be a teacher, everyone knows this, and now the retirement salary of the teacher alone has been mentioned to four or five thousand a month, which is several times his current salary.

It doesn't matter if you say you want to buy a car, but the family has no money for the time being, and even if you buy it, you can't afford it. Only when there is more money can there be hope. According to our current salary level, if we really have a family and children, with the current salary of two people, it is very difficult to live well.

Lu Feng no longer beat around the bush, and said bluntly: "The last time I talked to you, I had a feeling that I was clearly proposing conditions, and when I listened to your answer at that time, my heart became a little cold." Now my family lets me make my own decisions, and I don't want this half a year and feelings to pass like this, so I'm waiting for your decision, and now I can only do my best to achieve your conditions, beyond the scope of what I can bear, I can't bear it. ”

If you can't bear it, it means the end of this relationship, and Ren Wenyan also knows this. She was silent for a moment and said, "Actually, the final decision is up to the two of us. ”

Ren Wenyan didn't answer too much on this matter, you can be an outsider and decisively say that the feelings of sea love will be broken, but the specific encounter is two different things. She said with a left and right: "We are going to go to Dongji Island this week, it is so difficult to decide, motion sickness and seasickness, people will turn black and peel off their skin." ”

It's hard to make a decision to travel for free, and it's really admirable, and I want my unit to go to travel for a place, but I have to fight for it. Lu Feng could feel that she seemed to be dodging something, and said with a pun: "If you want to get something, of course you have to make some sacrifices, then everything can be as expected!" ”

is also like the poem with vicissitudes in the desolation of the cold moon in Cangcheng:

The only thing that can hide the winter is the snow,

There are only seeds in the land of happiness.

Even if it is eternal spring,

There will also be eternal glaciers standing,

Wave your hand, smash the black shackles and ignorant echoes,

Children, remember these forgotten and discarded,

It often doesn't go away.

Yes, all that is forgotten will come back, all that left will come back, and we, too, are drifting away. Goodbye Liu Mengling is a light rainy night, accompanied by a cold lamp.

"I've been entangled in emotional matters recently, and the girl on the blind date is very realistic, asking me to buy a car, have a good job, and want me to do more housework. Do you say this is a marriage with money, or a marriage for love? In the future, if you encounter some material difficulties, you will have to work hard. Lu Feng complained.

"Most people nowadays are very realistic, and I am also very realistic. It doesn't have to be rich, but it has to be able to survive, I used to imagine love as very romantic, in fact, life is realistic. Where does romance come from without a certain economic foundation. Liu Mengling's face was as quiet as water.

"Material things are very important, but I resent them all the time. If I don't have a house, then we don't have to talk about it, so I'm doubting the credibility of this emotion. ”

Liu Mengling closed her eyes silently, and said with a slight wave of her eyes: "Maybe she is a very realistic person." Actually, I don't know what I want now, I think I sometimes focus too much on feelings. But to be exact, I'll find someone who can take care of me, I'm not very good at taking care of my own pull. ”

In this way, he in your heart should be mature and considerate, but even if it was like this before falling in love, who will know after marriage, time changes, space changes, and people change again, depending on your decision-making and judgment ability. I'm just scared I'm going to lose this bet right now. ”

Liu Mengling was slightly stunned, and said a little puzzled: "Does your marriage really have your parents in charge?" I don't think it's a feudal society now, and I have my own choice. ”

"I want to make my own decisions, but I can only blame me for not being able to grasp what I want, so I can only follow the path that my parents envisioned." Lu Feng's eyes fluctuated slightly at this moment, and he said helplessly.

He also understands the hard work of his parents, because they are afraid that others will be small and it will be difficult to find a girlfriend when he is older, so he forced him to find someone quickly when he was young, and they were so relieved.

"Maybe your parents take too much care of you, in fact, you should have your own opinions and choices when you are so old."

Xiaomeng was right, but ......, Lu Feng's brows twisted slightly, and he stopped talking. Is it that the Hua is no longer abundant, and all the misses can be scattered with the clouds?

Maybe you will have to wait until you have enjoyed all kinds of scenery, you will be willing to take off the red dust clothes, count the flowing water and falling flowers in the ordinary days, and get used to the division and integration of this world with the attitude of being at ease with the encounter, and begin to learn to embrace the happiness in front of you.