Chapter 44: Causes of Character
After a series of examinations, the doctor in charge of Gao Lanna first called Wei Huili in and talked to her, when she came out of the doctor's office, Wei Huili's expression looked a little melancholy, and she was very depressed, and hurriedly thanked Du Juan and Tang Hongye, and didn't have time to say more, so she hurriedly went to Gao Lanna to go through the hospitalization procedures.
Du Juan and Tang Hongye waited at the door for a while, and when the doctor was almost busy and signaled to them, they pushed the door and walked into the office, intending to have a good understanding of Gao Lanna's situation.
Gao Lanna's attending doctor, surnamed Cai, is a female doctor in her forties, after listening to Du Juan and Tang Hongye explain in detail the inextricable relationship between Gao Lanna and the deceased in the criminal case they are in hand, Dr. Cai is also a little surprised and embarrassed, more of a helplessness.
"I really didn't expect that Gao Lanna's condition would deteriorate to such an extent, and the reason why I respected her mother's decision not to let her daughter be hospitalized at first was that I felt that this girl's condition was not bad enough to need to be isolated, and that her relatively free and colorful life might be more helpful for her adjustment." Dr. Cai let out a long sigh, "If I had known this, I might have insisted on persuading her to be hospitalized in the first place." ”
"Doctor Cai, in your opinion, is Gao Lanna the type that has the potential to violently attack people and will behave irrationally?" Du Juan asked Dr. Chua, "I don't know much about mental illness. ”
"Normal, many people don't know much about it," Dr. Cai smiled, "Gao Lanna can't be counted as a psychological problem anymore. Mental illness is actually mental illness, but there is a boundary between mental illness and mental illness that is not particularly easy to quantify, and the severity that does not exceed the boundary is mental illness. Originally, Gao Lanna didn't have a holiday, but this time, her problem was much more serious than before, so it was basically at a critical point. ”
"Previously, Gao Lanna's current Wei Huili told us that Gao Lanna's psychological disorder is called emotional trauma syndrome? What kind of mental illness is this? Tang Hongye asked.
Dr. Cai waved his hand: "Emotional trauma syndrome is just a more obvious problem when she came to the doctor, in fact, Gao Lanna, this girl, she has become what she is today, step by step, the factors behind it are still more complicated, her psychological problems, or now it should be said that mental problems, are not congenitally inherited, but because of the gradual deterioration and formation of her acquired personality, I have talked to her several times before and after this girl, her personality is very problematic, I have also communicated with her mother about this, and I have tried to understand some of her upbringing from her mother, and I can tell you very responsibly that half of the responsibility for the reason why Gao Lanna has become what she is today is due to her experience as a child, and half of the responsibility comes from her family, or her mother. ”
Du Juan was a little surprised, she originally thought that most of the reason why Gao Lanna became what she is today should be from Leng Zhiqiang's original behavior, but she didn't expect the doctor to give her a very different answer as soon as she came up.
"You think it's unbelievable, don't you?" Dr. Cai smiled at her, "Looking at Sister Wei, do you think that she is not easy, quite pitiful, she has suffered so many grievances for the sake of her children, with hard work?" ”
Cuckoo nodded: "From the experience of their mother and daughter for so many years, it really gives me this feeling." ”
"That's the problem," Dr. Cai immediately pointed out to Du Juan what the problem was, "As a policeman, you are just investigating the man who had a relationship with Gao Lanna, and by the way, ask Gao Lanna about the situation, and Sister Wei will tell you what hardships she has paid to protect Gao Lanna, and what hardships she has experienced. When I met Gao Lanna for the first time, Sister Wei cried to me for a long time about how much she endured humiliation and suffered for this daughter, and later I found that Sister Wei said these things, a bit like Xianglin's sister-in-law, she couldn't control her desire to talk at all. ”
And more importantly, when Sister Wei told these past events, part of it was accusing her ex-husband's family of behavior, and part of it was actually adding weight to Gao Lanna, using how much she had paid and sacrificed for Gao Lanna, and morally kidnapping her daughter, what she actually wanted in her bones was that Gao Lanna felt guilty about her because of these, and felt that she owed her mother too much, and therefore became obedient in her attitude and behavior. I also communicated with Sister Wei in this regard, and I said that her behavior would cause a projection of Gao Lanna, affecting Gao Lanna's thinking and behavior patterns, but it was obvious that Sister Wei didn't listen to it, so it deteriorated to what it is today. ”
Du Juan thought about it, and felt that what Dr. Cai said was quite reasonable, putting aside the different manifestations of family affection and love, simply comparing the behavior of Wei Huili and Gao Lanna, in fact, it is not difficult to find that the mother and daughter have a lot in common, they both think of forbearance and dedication, and repeatedly convey to each other a concept of "I have paid so much for you, you owe me so much", trying to make the other party feel sorry, so as to repay them and make up for them. Wei Huili repeatedly emphasized the sacrifices made for Gao Lanna from childhood to adulthood, trying to make Gao Lanna give up the feelings and lifestyle that Wei Huili thought was wrong because of guilt and emotion, while Gao Lanna blindly tolerated Leng Zhiqiang, and also hoped that Leng Zhiqiang would be moved by her guilt, so that in the end she would no longer be in the morning, and she could focus on herself and repay the love she had given before.
"Sister Wei also likes to emphasize in front of Gao Lanna how difficult life is after leaving her husband, and how difficult it is for her to live as a single mother with her daughter than a healthy family," Dr. Cai sighed, "So when she dealt with me before, Gao Lanna revealed that she felt that for women, it was still a man who was the most important, and if her mother hadn't left her father, their life would not have been like this." Therefore, Sister Wei herself actually has certain psychological problems, but she is older and there is nothing particularly out of place in her behavior, so after communication, she is not particularly accepting of our views, and we don't do anything special about her. ”
"The other half of the reason why Gao Lanna's psychological problems have escalated to this level today is her 'boyfriend'," Tang Hongye asked with a frown after listening to Dr. Cai's words, "With your grasp of Gao Lanna's current condition, do you think that man's words and deeds may bring direct stimulation to Gao Lanna?" The kind that directly inspired her violent tendencies or something? ”
"I don't rule out this possibility, after all, I also saw Sister Wei just now, I heard her say that she still has those wounds on her face and body, all of which were beaten by Gao Lanna, if it wasn't for you to help stop it, I don't know what it would be like now." Dr. Cai was very helpless, "When I contacted Gao Lanna before, I found that the man who had a relationship with her was a very special existence for her, like a spiritual pillar, and like a time bomb. But on the other hand, the man, I have heard that his attitude towards her is not serious, so this ungraspable uncertainty and uneasiness may bring her the most serious mental stimulation at any time. ”
"So I told Sister Wei at the beginning that if you want Gao Lanna to get rid of that state, you need to start in many aspects, step by step, first of all, to create a relatively positive and optimistic living atmosphere for her, reduce the number of times she complains and self-pity in front of her, and secondly, help her cultivate a little healthy and positive hobbies, divert and distract her, and gradually transfer the spiritual pillar that can support her life from that man to other more certain things. I usually take her to a psychiatrist for psychological counseling to help Gao Lanna re-establish her outlook on life and help the child come out little by little. But judging from today's inspection of Gao Lanna, Sister Wei must have failed to do this, her handling method was too rough, not only did she not have a way to keep Gao Lanna away from the core of the problem, but pushed her into it little by little, and it completely deteriorated. ”
"Then when you communicated with Gao Lanna just now, did you think her thinking and expression were normal? I mean, is her current state of mind sane or a state of illness? Cuckoo asked.
"She is now standing at the critical point of mental illness and mental illness in the strict sense, which can be said to be mild mental illness or severe psychological problems. What do you mean by behavioral capacity...... Dr. Cai pondered for a moment, "I think there is no problem with her ability to express herself, basically as long as she doesn't get involved in problems that irritate her too much, her thinking is still relatively normal, and there is no gibberish." ”
Since there is no gibberish, then the part she said about Leng Zhiqiang's child seems to have a certain degree of credibility, it should not be her subjective fabrication, and listening to Dr. Cai's meaning, Gao Lanna's current state, what she is most afraid of is being stimulated, and she can basically remain normal when she is not stimulated, and once she receives strong mental stimulation, there will be some more intense reactions.
The beating of his mother before is a very vivid example.
"Then ......" Du Juan thought about Gao Lanna's reactions after being brought to the hospital, and he also felt a little uncomfortable, "Now that man has been killed in a criminal case, after this person dies, although Gao Lanna has no spiritual support, but there is no time bomb, will this have a better impact on her recovery, or may the impact be bad?" ”
"I've already mentioned this question, staying away from that man, it's definitely good for Gao Lanna in the long run, but in order to avoid mental stimulation, you need to take it step by step. This time, the person you are talking about died suddenly, and there was no sign before he died, which is a stimulus for Gao Lanna, so when I tested her, I found that she was out of a self-protection mechanism, as long as I didn't directly mention the fact of the other party's death, she could talk to me about the man without any obstacles, as if the person was not dead at all, and was still alive and well. Dr. Chua said.
"She's running away from herself?"
"Sort of, subconsciously self-hypnotizing yourself to ignore and forget the fact that the other party is dead, and reduce the stimulation and blow to yourself." Dr. Chua nodded, "A lot of people will react like this. And judging from Gao Lanna's situation, I have been in contact with her a few times before, some of her mother brought her over, and some of us made an appointment to meet somewhere else, so I may not know much about her living situation, and I have a good grasp of her mental state. To tell you the truth, there is another main reason why I immediately advocated for her to be hospitalized this time, and I found that Gao Lanna had already had a paranoid reaction. ”
"Can you tell us more about this?" Tang Hongye asked.
"I tentatively asked about the dead man, and Gao Lanna's reaction was not a little sad or painful, she told me that this man finally regained his heart this time, and he would never go to anyone else in the future, and he would only be good with other women, and from then on the two of them would only be enough for each other, so she was very happy."
This kind of reaction Du Juan and Tang Hongye can also be regarded as having seen it, in the process of dealing with Gao Lanna, except for the first time after hearing the news of Leng Zhiqiang's death, Gao Lanna cried bitterly all of a sudden, and then almost collapsed, since then, they really haven't seen sadness and pain on her face.
Combined with what Dr. Cai said, it seems that such a kind of Gao Lanna's psychological activities can be sorted out - when Leng Zhiqiang was alive, he could even be said to be dirty, which made him very miserable, and then Leng Zhiqiang died, and after he died, it was naturally impossible to find any other woman, and mentally, he thought that Leng Zhiqiang was not dead, but just changed his form, and from now on he belonged to her alone.
And this is exactly what Gao Lanna has always wanted to pursue.