Chapter 452: Ignorance
"Is my daughter-in-law still in confinement? Mother, do you have something to do with her? Didn't you say you were going to come to live with us before, and we made it clear? What are you doing now? After a few good days, are you feeling sick again? Tang Zhian said dissatisfied.
"What are you talking about? What is it that I have lived a good life for a few days, and my heart is uncomfortable, why should I come to live in your house? Aren't you my son? Xu said angrily.
Tang Zhian looked at her and said: "Mother, you also said this, what did we say before, if you have to come to live in this house, we have to go to the village chief to talk about it, and the county magistrate probably has to talk to you about it, right?" ”
Hearing this, Xu's heart chuckled, what she said was really anxious, she was afraid of the county order.
The people of the Tang family were also frightened, and they were all in a hurry, so they hurriedly said, "Don't, Tang Zhi'an, you can't go to the county order." ”
Tang Zhian glanced at them and said, "So are you still making trouble here?" You're sure you don't want to go back quickly. ”
Tang Zheng looked at him and said: "It's not that we won't go back, but that this kind of thing you did made your mother's heart very uncomfortable, and you also know about her, if you really don't give an explanation today, this matter is estimated to be really impossible to pass, and your mother will definitely not agree to go back." ”
Tang Zhi'an's heart was irritable for a while, what he said was a bit threatening to him, I really don't know what this person thinks, he sneered and said, "Are you threatening me?" I really don't know what to say about you, don't you know what kind of person my mother is like? Do you want me to make this clear to you? Whether she can go back or not depends on what you do, Dad? ”
"You don't mess with your father here, I want to ask you, how are you going to solve this matter? I'm your mother, do you have a good face for me? Are you looking down on me for being so good to that rich lady? You think you're ashamed to have me, don't you? But I'm telling you, no matter what you say, I'm your mother! Xu said.
When Tang Zhian heard this, his face was also ugly, "You still know that you are my mother, I thought you had forgotten, don't you only have your other two sons in your heart?" How will you know that my son was also born to you, I grew up by myself since I was a child, what credit do you have, and I am still here to serve you, it is already very good that I can provide for you now. ”
Xu's face turned pale, "How did you speak?" Whether you want me or not, I'm your mother, as long as you have this, you have to honor me, no matter what, it's the same everywhere. “
Tang Zhian looked at her and said, "I didn't say that I was not filial, didn't I say yes?" I give the annual offering according to the time, why do you say so much? ”
Xu Shi was angry, "You think what I said is redundant now, do you?" Are the gifts you give during the New Year called Boxing gifts? Your family is so rich now, you can invite the whole village to have a good meal, is this how you treat your father and mother? “
Tang Zhian understood what he meant, he still wanted money, and after saying so much, it wasn't that they had no money in the family, so he remembered his son again, and he wanted to come over and ask for money quickly.
Xu looked at him and said, "What else do you say?" Your daughter-in-law really doesn't know what's going on, she is still in confinement, where do we countrymen have confinement, she's expensive, right? is still confined, and most people just sit for a month, what about her? If she doesn't come down yet, why is she so lazy! ”
After saying this, Tang Zhi'an's face changed, and his daughter-in-law was too late to hold it in the palm of his hand, not to mention that it was just confinement, why should he be talked about by this Xu family.
Before Tang Zhi'an could speak, the princess over there came, walked to Tang Zhi'an's side, and said in a cold tone: "Does my daughter want you to talk here?" The people in your village don't go to confinement, that's their business, and our daughter is going to be confined, aren't you convinced? ”
Xu Shi looked at her and said: "We countrymen don't have this habit, I think they are all good, they can eat and sleep, and they are also very good at work, why do you have to be confined when you get to your daughter?" ”
The princess looked at Xu as if she were looking at a dead person, "What about my daughter's confinement?" You're all separated, can you take care of this? Besides, if you don't care about my daughter's body, I must look at it yourself, and you are embarrassed to say that the people in your village are in good health without confinement. ”
The princess is really angry, this Xu family is looking for trouble for her daughter, if this is in the capital, she would have asked people to play the board a long time ago, but if this countryside is beaten, these people don't understand what is wrong with this Xu family, these countrymen feel that unfilial piety is very serious, but what kind of unfilial piety is this, they don't know at all, they feel that the old man's words must be right.
"Are those daughters-in-law in your village really in good health if they don't go to confinement? Have any of you ever asked, you are all just thinking about your own children, and you don't want to be slaves to other people's children at all, and you resent your daughter-in-law's mother-in-law for abusing your daughter-in-law, but at the same time you are oppressing your daughter-in-law at home, have you not thought that your daughter-in-law is also someone else's daughter-in-law, and your daughter-in-law's mother also resents your daughter-in-law's mother-in-law as much as you, that is, those of you who have become mothers-in-law? ”
After the princess finished speaking, the courtyard was quiet all of a sudden, what the princess said was the truth, but the people in the village never reflected, but just treated the daughter-in-law as a subordinate of the family.
Now the princess's words hit them like a stick, making these people feel pain, and at the same time, they also began to reflect on whether they really did something wrong.
Xu didn't know what he had done wrong, looked at the princess and said, "Are we wrong about this?" This has been like this since ancient times, isn't what we say as fathers and mothers right? They're supposed to hear it, aren't they? “
The princess sneered and said, "It's really ignorant, are you parents right?" Who told you this, isn't there no bias in your hearts as parents? Children should have their own ideas when they grow up, do they always have to listen to you, are you doing it right? “
Xu's face turned red, he really didn't know what to do, this woman was really too much, she actually said this, everyone in their village knew it, and there were parents in the world.
The princess didn't plan to say more, the people in this village are all the same, and no one will really recognize the mistakes, this is also because they haven't read books and don't know these truths, which she can't change, so she won't care about these things.
Those mothers-in-law in the village don't care how good they are to other people, how good they are to their children and grandchildren, and how not patriarchal they are, but they are very harsh in the face of the problem of daughters-in-law, which is their long-standing consciousness.
It may also be that when I was a daughter-in-law before, I was tortured by my mother-in-law, and when I became a mother-in-law, I didn't hope to be able to put on a score and transfer my previous grievances to others, as if the sins I suffered before could be completely eliminated.
After the princess finished speaking, she looked at Xu Shi and said: "I don't care what you think in your heart, how the people in your village usually treat your daughter-in-law, I don't care about these, because those are the habits you have formed for a long time, or it can be said that this is also your ignorance, but my daughter, you don't want to treat it like this, I am a treasure child, you dare to touch her to try." ”
Xu stopped talking, she was still a little weak-hearted, in fact, in her own opinion, there was nothing wrong with what she had done, who in this village didn't treat her daughter-in-law like this, and she didn't see any daughter-in-law's maiden family looking for trouble!
Tang Zheng didn't dare to say anything, but he could see that this Lin Qiu'er's mother was not easy to mess with, she was definitely not one of those people in the village, she was afraid that going to her daughter's in-law's house to make trouble would make her daughter's situation more difficult, or that she would simply be divorced, so they all knew that their daughter was guilty, but they didn't dare to support her.
Tang Zhichang's eyes lit up, this woman's big truth is a set of things, which proves that she is definitely not an ordinary woman, and it is very likely that she is a person of noble status!
"This lady is right, the people in the village just haven't read books, so they don't understand a lot of truths, what you said is so right, we will definitely keep this in mind in the future." Tang Zhichang stepped forward and said.
Seeing his actions, Tang Zhi'an's brows furrowed, he really didn't know what was going on with this person, Tang Zhichang he understood, this person was unprofitable and couldn't afford to be early, so he must have his purpose when he spoke to the princess at this time.
"Madam, I am a talent in this village, I am the only one who has been admitted for so many years, I can understand what you said, these are the reasons why there is no study in the village, you don't have to worry about them, if you really have anything, you can tell me directly."
The princess glanced at him, from the first time she saw this Tang Zhichang, she didn't have a good impression of this person at all, his eyes were full of shrewdness, and at a glance, she knew that he was a person with many eyes, and it was certain that this person was definitely not so simple.
Tang Zhichang was a little uncomfortable by her eyes, this person's eyes made him feel that he had nothing to hide in front of her, as if he knew what he thought in his heart.
The princess ignored him and said to the Xu family, "You don't care about my daughter, do you know?" If you pay attention to me in the future, if you dare to find trouble for my daughter, I will definitely not let you go. ”
Xu shrunk his neck, "I'm her mother-in-law, she should be filial to me, shouldn't she?" ”
The princess looked at her and said, "My daughter is filial to you?" I'd like to ask you if it's worth it? ”