I see, this Teacher Huang is really a woman who has been hurt.

After Du Juan and Tang Hongye listened, they suddenly increased their understanding and tolerance for her two sentimentality.

"That'...... We can also understand if you find it difficult to assist with our investigation. Du Juan said to Mr. Huang more tactfully. This can be regarded as thinking for her, and it can be regarded as thinking about herself and Tang Hongye, on the one hand, it can avoid bringing greater stimulation to Teacher Huang, and secondly, she and Tang Hongye are here to understand the situation, not to do psychological counseling, and they really don't have so much energy to appease Teacher Huang.

I thought that Mr. Huang was crying and crying, but now when I hear myself say this, I should want to leave and not continue to stay here, so as not to make myself feel bad, but Du Juan actually guessed wrong, Mr. Huang bit his lip, wiped the tears on his face with a tissue, and then shook his head firmly.

"No, I'm fine, I just didn't control it all of a sudden, I caused you trouble, I will adjust my emotions, Sister Fan is my benefactor, I want to help her do something." She said.

Teacher Chen also gently stroked Mr. Huang's back on the side, nodded to them, and echoed: "Yes, Director Fan usually gets along with us at work or in private, which is quite good, and this time they encountered such a thing at home, we were all very surprised and thought it was unexpected." We don't know how else we can help, so if there's a need to use us, we're definitely duty-bound. ”

Teacher Huang also nodded violently on the side, for fear that he would not express himself resolutely enough.

"Can you say, with your understanding, how do you get along with Principal Fan, whether it is within the unit, or with the parents of the children? Have you ever had a grudge against anyone? Tang Hongye asked.

"No, Sister Fan is so good, how can she have a grudge with someone! She and her brother-in-law are very good people! Teacher Huang hurriedly spoke, frowning and said to Tang Hongye, "I think someone must be jealous that their family is so happy, so they deliberately want to do something to sabotage!" ”

In contrast, Mr. Chen is older than Mr. Huang and has a much calmer personality, so he will be more objective than Mr. Huang when he speaks, and he will not be mixed with so many subjective feelings.

"Our Fan Yuanyuan, don't look at the age, but the mind is very smart, also very responsible, people are serious preschool education major university graduates, so the concept has always been relatively leading, in this regard has been more affirmed by the parents of children." She said to Tang Hongye and Du Juan, "In her usual work, Principal Fan is more strict with the teachers and staff in the park, but she is also very moderate, she is very methodical, even if she criticizes anyone, she will not particularly hurt people's self-esteem, they are just talking about things." Occasionally, when parents have trouble because of poor communication or other reasons, they can basically be solved very well in the hands of Director Fan, so Director Fan has a good reputation regardless of whether he is on the side of the kindergarten staff or the parents. ”

"Then Lin Kailang, the son of your Fan Yuan, you should all be familiar with it, right?" Cuckoo asked.

Teacher Chen smiled and nodded: "Yes, it's very familiar." For example, Teacher Huang is younger, Lin Kailang has already gone to school when he comes here to work, and occasionally he will come to us after school early or forget to bring his key or something, so the number of meetings is a little less. Like us, who are about the same age as Fan Yuanchang, or a little older than Fan Yuanchang, it can be said that we watched Lin Kailang be born and watched him grow up, Lin Kailang Kindergarten was on our side, and Fan Yuanyuan was not the principal at that time, but in order to avoid suspicion, she didn't let Lin Kailang in her own class, so it was also taught by our other teachers, and it was really as close as her own children. ”

"What kind of type of child is in all aspects of personality?"

"Alas, Lin Kailang is really a very good child, sensible, polite, and the tutor is very in place, Director Fan herself is a person engaged in education, and she is very strong, so she will never allow her children to have any problems in upbringing. According to Director Fan's words, children are her most intuitive works, so even if you don't learn well, you must learn to be a good person. Teacher Chen replied very firmly, "You can ask anyone about this matter and see if anyone will say that there is a problem with Lin Kailang's upbringing." The child's personality is a little shy, not as skinny as some boys, and he is very polite when he sees people saying hello or dealing with others. All in all, Lin Kailang is really a very good child, I really don't understand why this kind of thing happened! ”

"In the work of the kindergarten for so many years, Principal Fan has not encountered any conflicts and disputes with others? None of them? Du Juan asked, she didn't think that Fan Jiying would necessarily have any character problems, there was such a thing as contradictions and disputes with others, people with bad character may be more likely to have conflicts with others, but good character is also unavoidable, and there is no inevitable connection between them.

She just thinks that kindergarten, as a special service industry, faces all kinds of children and parents of all kinds, it is inevitable that they will encounter different concepts, dissatisfied with the way of solving problems, or thorns in the thorns, just like a medical worker who has worked in the hospital all his life, I am afraid that few people have never encountered any big or small doctor-patient disputes in their lives, and an old policeman who has done public security work all his life is unlikely to have never encountered the scene of the red light of the police-people relationship.

As soon as she asked, Teacher Huang and Teacher Chen didn't speak, the two of them seemed to be reminiscing, and they seemed to be hesitating, and for a while, several people became very quiet, and no one spoke.

"Is there anything unspeakable?" Cuckoo asked.

Teacher Chen smiled and waved his hand: "That's not true, I was mainly asked by you, and I really can't remember if it's a conflict or a grudge." Usually Mr. Fan has dealt with a lot of various problems, the more common is generally which class of children have conflicts with each other, who hit whom, who scratched whom, the teacher generally dealt with it for the first time, and will also give feedback to the parents, but you also know that the children now are the little treasures and little ancestors of the family, and they are not enough to pet in the palm of their hands, so there are many times, the parents of the children who are bullied will be more unforgiving.

Generally speaking, unless it is true that a child has injured a classmate very seriously, it must be dealt with seriously, but if it is just a small fight, the kind of unintentional fault, our kindergarten is still based on criticism and education, as for the private apology and compensation or something, that is the responsibility of the parents of the child who hit someone. You two look quite young, and you probably don't have any children, so it may not be clear. Children are like that, one second the two of them scuffle together, and the next second they hook up and become good friends, there is really no deep hatred. It's just that parents don't understand it so much, and many times because of a little conflict between the two children, it has evolved into a feud between the parents of both sides, and the children have long been reconciled, and the parents still don't like each other. ”

"This is ...... with Fan Jiying What does it matter? Tang Hongye failed to understand what Mr. Chen meant.

"That's the case, generally speaking, we think that the kind of thing that makes a small fuss, the child is not intentionally hitting and hurting others, but accidentally touches it, or it is a small contradiction and pushes twice, it will criticize the education, let the child apologize, and the other parent also gives a good attitude, basically it's okay. But when encountering the kind of special treasure of their own children, parents who do not forgive, must not be satisfied with this method of treatment, and they will not simply feel that the sincerity expressed by the other party's parents is not enough, and they will feel that we are deliberately biased towards whom, so the contradiction is often accidentally transferred to our heads. ”

Teacher Chen patiently explained to Tang Hongye: "So when you say that you have ever had a dispute with someone, at least personally, that's what you can think of, but these things, you say that contradictions are contradictions, and you say that they are not a big deal, and they are not a big deal." Director Fan is a very measured person, but whenever a child has a conflict, really scratches someone, bites someone, or deliberately bullies other children, she will definitely deal with it seriously, and must let the parents of the children give an explanation to other children and their families, which will not cause any dissatisfaction. Wait until that kind of thing is not a big deal, that is, too precious to your own children, even if your own children go to grab other people's toys first, so they are pushed forward, they have to go to the platform to say the law, this is a loss in itself, Fan Yuan knows that it is reasonable, and basically there is no big problem. ”

"Let me take the liberty of asking, does Fan Jiying usually get along with you or other people at work, will she give people the impression that she has a solid family background and is generous?" Tang Hongye asked.

Teacher Chen and Teacher Huang glanced at each other, looked at each other, and then shook their heads in unison.

"No, Sister Fan is very thrifty," Teacher Huang opened her mouth first, "The conditions in her family will definitely not be so bad, after all, her income is stable, her husband's job is very good, and the treatment is very good. However, Sister Fan is really very low-key, the skin care products she uses are all cheap goods on the market, and her clothes are often bought and worn for several years without being updated, fortunately, she has a very good temperament, so even if it is a style from a few years ago, she still makes people feel very good-looking when she wears it. ”

"Yes, Director Fan is indeed not publicistic at all, not only is she unassuming, but her husband and children are also very low-key, steady, and feel very self-contained." Teacher Chen also nodded in agreement.

"You all seem to know her husband well, don't you?" Cuckoo asked.

Teacher Chen smiled: "That's natural!" I have been friends with Mr. Fan for many years, and I have known her since she first came to us and was still 'Little Fan'. Her husband was very good to her, when she was young, her work was not as busy as it is now, sometimes when it was windy and rainy, her husband would definitely send her an umbrella and pick her up from work, at that time I was really envious of many female teachers in our garden! If you are single, you hope that you can find a husband in the future, and you can be as good as Director Fan and her husband to her, and if you have a partner, you will go home to educate your husband, so that your husband can also learn from Director Fan's husband how to love his wife. ”

"When you said you weren't so busy at work before? Wouldn't that be the case now? ”

"Now, isn't Director Fan's husband a leader now, and there may be more things, so sometimes there is no way to do it himself, so he is comprehensive. But people don't need to send umbrellas in person now, Director Fan's husband feels sorry for his wife's commuting in the wind and rain, and he is busy, and there is no way to pick up and drop off every day, so he bought her a car, and Director Fan now drives to and from work. ”

"yes, yes! That's why I feel that when I look at Sister Fan, I have hope for happiness again! Teacher Huang was busy helping on the side, "I once felt very desperate, I felt that there were no good men in this world, there would be no good days in life, I felt that there was no hope at all, and it was not interesting to live, and then Sister Fan enlightened me and persuaded me to let me adjust my state and cheer up, otherwise how could I face so many children every day." In order to help me, she also took me to her house, making dumplings and eating something at their house, I just looked at the appearance of the two of them, Qin Se and Ming, it is really very enviable, my brother-in-law is very good to Sister Fan, he has strong work ability, and he is considerate, and the child is also well-behaved and sensible, which is simply a big winner in life. So then I didn't drill the horns, I just felt that there are still good men in this world, and there are still good days, but I didn't have bad luck before, as long as I live my life well, I will be met sooner or later in the future! ”

Teacher Chen smiled a little sneeringly, slapped Teacher Huang with his hand on his side, and whispered to her: "Xiao Huang, the focus now is on Director Fan and his family, don't always talk back and forth about your little things, pay attention to the occasion." ”

Teacher Huang's face was slightly red, and he seemed to be a little embarrassed, pursed his lips, and stopped making a sound.

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