Chapter 22: The Rogue Reflects
A seemingly merry hooligan must have been ruthlessly rejected.
Hooligans are not afraid, they are afraid that hooligans are educated, and they are even more afraid of hooligans studying, introspecting, and summarizing.
Be a qualified hooligan, go to college, and be a better hooligan.
Hooligans also need a suitable platform to play hooligans, and they need opportunities to approach women.
Ordinary people, in fact, are cowardices, and they dare not talk to and approach interesting people of the opposite sex, and lack the courage to step forward.
Rogue is to break through the invisible wall between people, get closer to the opposite sex, increase contact, and quantify the only success of success.
After the two have a certain sense of security, they know each other, they have a certain good feeling, and they are in an ambiguous period that exceeds the relationship between friends, not a couple's relationship, or a girl's test period, and a boy's pursuit period.
This period of time may be very short, a month or two, or it may be a bit long, and you need to wait for a year or two. But it's generally shorter, and in today's fast-paced life, talking about friends is like eating fast food.
Money does not make girls happy. This time of running-in test is sweet and bitter, if it goes well, it is the door to happiness, but the road to happiness will be bumpy and rugged.
The two get along, have a good feeling, and both want to show the best side to each other, but after all, people have their own unique personalities, living habits, regional differences, cultures, family differences, and growth experiences and other factors.
There is also an unavoidable objective reality of life, work situation, living city, family and other aspects.
Age, distance, character, three views, are all problems, love, love to the depths can be thrown, bread, economic foundation determines the superstructure, happy and sweet love needs to have a love nest, love nest is built on the higher the building, in order to fly higher and farther.
People pursue happiness, what they pursue is freedom, what they pursue is the feeling of being respected, understood, cherished, cared for, spoiled, accommodated, and a sense of satisfaction in life experience.
In today's society, there is basically no worry about food and clothing, everyone can eat, wear, use, and have the basics of life. When encountering a suitable contradiction, there are no hard conditions.
The most important thing is not how compatible and suitable two people are in all aspects, but a person who really understands you, which is why people are lonely, why so many people are single, not necessarily who is not good enough, has not met the confidante who understands himself, and is not willing to settle, so he is a single dog.
A single dog is the state of human beings most of the time, and people are eager to wait for the gorgeous appearance of Snow White and Prince Charming, who understand themselves.
Why don't you be a hooligan, expand the possibility of socializing, and increase the number of people you have been waiting for for all your life.
Rogues also need to learn, they also need to keep pace with the times, and at the same time they must constantly reflect and summarize, and it is necessary for hooligans to go to college, both to learn and increase the platform.
When the successful hooligan approaches the ideal person, the subsequent relationship runs in, step by step towards stability, marriage, and growing old together.
Holding hands, hugging, kissing, getting laid. The closer contact of the body will promote the relationship between the two people, once the tentative progressive relationship fails, return to the original stage, but the relationship between the two people cannot be defined by purpose, if you just hold the purpose of going to bed, it will never last long.
Got me.
What a short word, but it makes people miserable, lonely, and confused.
Girls are interested in you, and they will only imply that if you don't seize the opportunity, you will not understand the amorous feelings. All the inappropriateness, you are good, it's all excuses, it's that you don't understand, do you understand!
If you are issued a good person card, don't be depressed, don't complain, blame others for what, blame yourself for something, don't make excuses, seriously reflect and summarize.
Seriously recall, did you not do a good job, did not understand her mind, did not take accurate action, girls are thin-skinned, don't miss it and regret it, you were so stupid at the beginning, how to do it, Yunyun.
The door of a girl's heart opens for a short time, and once you miss it, you will never be able to enter her heart again.
So you have to be bold, even if you will be wrong, you are a stinky rascal, are you still thin-skinned?
"Thick Black Studies" carefully study, you must be thick-skinned, chasing girls, what are you afraid of, try boldly, at least let the other party know that you have this desire, your passion for her, your passion for her, your thirst for her is strong, and there is color between you.
Don't care about the refusal words that the girl said, you are cheeky, you are a piece of leper candy, you are a hooligan, you are determined to catch her, you are the person she is destined for, she will accept her fate.
Besides, girls' no, most of them mean something, of course, it depends on the character and situation.
When there is no contact for a period of time, or there is little communication, the good guy card is really refused. As a rogue, you must also not be discouraged, take it, and put it down.
You think, it's not yours in the first place, you just know someone by talking to you, and if you miss it, you miss it, and the next one is fine.
But be sure to reflect on it, review and summarize it to avoid similar situations in the future.
Don't hold on to what a pity it is to give up so much, if you always feel that you hold on a little longer, and then change the excuse in her mouth, she will turn back, she will understand that only she is the best person for her, and she will insist on waiting.
Don't be stupid, brother! Are you going to be a pointless spare tire that no one else is too lazy to ask for? Only a broken car will need a spare tire, remember who you are, you are a suitor, not a beggar.
Even if you are a hooligan, you must be a scoundrel with quality, principles and discipline!
Qualified hooligans will not be gloomy in the annoyance of rejection, but will only learn from the experience and continue to be rogue freely.
With the right mentality, the road of the hooligan has a Baidu map, although occasionally take some detours, but once on the road, it is at your disposal, at high speed, and at your leisure.
To be a good rogue, you should have the following elements:
It is premised on the exclusion of objective factors of reality, those realities that cannot be changed or cannot be changed in the short term.
Sincerity, no matter how rogue you are, you must make the other party feel your sincerity, your sincerity. Kindness and sincerity along the way will make the other person feel more authentic about you.
Be single-minded, as a suitor, stay loyal to her, let her feel that she is your only one, that you are different from others and that you give her all your favorites.
Understand her, the soldier dies for the confidant, and the woman is the one who pleases herself, both men and women are eager to be understood and appreciated. It's not that you're good to her, it's good enough for her, and she's going to go with you. A woman does follow the one who is best for her, but there is an invisible premise:
Understand her, only if you understand her, what you give her is what she needs, and if you are good to her, she feels the best.
Understand her, more than everything, this is the true meaning of love.
Demand determines whether your heart and lungs are her judgment, whether your good for her is what she wants, and whether your good is the best.
She needs apples, you have a bad apple and a good pear, and you give her a good pear as a matter of course. You feel like you've given her the best, but it's not what she wants, so you leave.
It's not that you're good at everything, they have to follow you.
The key is the need, you have to understand her.
There are only a few people who know each other in life. But imagine how rare it is to meet someone who understands you.
As a scoundrel, you are not a master key that cannot open the doors of all women's hearts, but you can try.
To understand her, first of all, in communication. A woman is coaxed, you can talk to her, make her happy, give her endless topics to talk about, give her you are an interesting soul person, give her you are the destined person, she naturally can't do without you.
Communication, you must be positive, you must tell each other what you think, chat along with her words, agree, repeat key words, you can be cold to others, you must be enthusiastic, positive, and cheerful to her, even if you think it is the most boring thing, add body movements when chatting, you can exaggerate, you can be funny, you can be funny.
Make her happy, make her happy.
Women are sensual, like to communicate to release the feelings in their hearts, communicate with her more, say words of praise to her, praise her from the subtleties, don't be afraid of bees being jealous, sweet words, sugar-coated cannonballs, and more fleshy and numb. Women like to hear that.
Chat can be from life trivialities, work and study, past experience, future ideals, hobbies, anecdotes, news jokes, entertainment gossip, horoscope destiny ...
understands her, in action, and is good at understanding customs. From the subtleties, she is keenly aware of her needs and emotional changes. In particular, some of her suggestive actions or words, we must understand her mind and accurately guess the words she is ashamed to say.
When a man is interested in a woman, it is simply to take advantage of her, promote physical contact, whether intentionally or not, enhance physical contact, shorten the distance between bodies, and finally reach a negative distance.
As long as she doesn't resist violently, she must take advantage of her inch by inch and eat her tofu. Verbally, I can talk to her very speculatively, and physically reveal my strong interest in her. As long as she doesn't resent you, she'll be yours sooner or later.
But the premise of all this is that there is only her in her eyes, sweet words are only said to her, and she only wants to have physical contact with her. Rejects other members of the opposite sex, creating a striking contrast. All of this is a preference for her. She must have felt it.
To be good to a girl, you must also grasp a certain degree, don't blindly pay, then you will become the second male number, spare tire, the rhythm of the good guy card.
If you want to catch and indulge, hang appropriately, you can't be good to her every time, you have to form a gap, you can't blindly praise like communication, and you can't just suppress it appropriately, causing her emotional fluctuations. Control a certain distance, retain a sense of mystery, don't let her eat you to death, remember that you are a hooligan.
Romantic, every girl wants to have a romantic person waiting by her side. Flowers girls like, those things that have no practical effect are romantic, and there are things that make people more beautiful, lipstick, bags, etc.
Something that is different and unprecedented is novelty and romance, and the key is that a woman has not experienced and felt.
Of course, clothes, wear also, girls are very fond of shopping, shopping, if you want to be a merry hooligan, the economic foundation is also very important, men are not romantic, just poor.
Lustful and fond of drifting young women is what every man has in common.
Of course, the pursuit of beauty, women are no exception, women also like handsome pots, like flowers, like items that can make them beautiful, cosmetics, clothes...
A sense of security, people need to have a sense of security, you have to be self-motivated, have a career, the simple point is to be able to earn money or have the ability to earn money, life will get better and better, you can give the woman the material and security she needs, give her hope.
Finally, the most important point, even if you are together, don't be too careful, people will change. Don't take a woman too seriously, she has changed, just let it go, you can keep it, but don't stay where you are. No matter how beautiful the clothes are, they will be broken and they will not be liked, and no matter how delicious the food is, they will get tired of eating it all the time.
Keep your enthusiasm positive, your life is not only about love, but also a lot of fun things waiting for you.