Chapter 34 Datang Love Science Popularization
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The world is unified, but the white night has disappeared, but fortunately, the power he established itself is not based on him, but is built with everyone as the cornerstone of the wall bricks.
He was only in charge of polishing the first batch of wall bricklayers in the early years, and when he was on the right track, it would be better to have him, and he could actually continue to operate without him. However, there is a difference in the speed of the two and the difficulties and contradictions encountered!
This is what we say, without you, the earth is still turning, and the world is also developing.
But it is not that if a person dies or disappears suddenly, there will be no effect, but this effect is on relatives and friends in the circle, etc., you can't say how much the death of an ordinary body composed of various natural elements will have a lot of changes in the entire natural world, it is nothing more than the return of the elements to nature, and another cycle.
You are not a god and demon, you are not Pangu, you do not have the ability to turn into the sky and the earth after death, in fact, to put it bluntly, in the eyes of nature, your essence is no different from a piece of Xiang.
However, Bai Ye disappeared, Shi Qingxuan, Kou Zhong, Xu Ziling and others were all working while looking for Bai Ye, and they were also thinking, where did this guy go? What exactly did it do? Didn't you get kidnapped?
Actually, this guy Bai Ye is in the deep mountains and old forests, and he is ready to spend some time, looking for a kind of tree, and doing one thing.
In the Condor World, Bai Ye once fooled Zhu Mengqing about his cognition of love, he still remembered what he said at this time, and when he thought about it, he was actually a little naïve.
At that time, he criticized the falsehood of the girl's love for spring, which was an inexplicable thing produced by the germination of youth, blind worship, and the regulation of nerves and hormones.
Almost as he said, most people's love and affection are as mentioned above: the youth of youth and girlhood sprouted and had a good impression of each other, thinking that this was their love; After youth, the pursuit of beauty, men like beautiful women, and beautiful women like handsome guys; Or is it that under the temptation of money and power, you don't know what you're reaping at all, it's a physical stimulus? Or is it material satisfaction?
When they become adults, some people have already started a family, and then they suddenly look back, and they will sigh that they married someone they don't like, married someone they don't love, and miss the time of their first love.
It's just that time doesn't go back, the years are gone, life gradually goes on, some people choose to divorce, some people choose to just live like this, and look at each other plainly for a lifetime.
There are also some people who don't understand at all, and don't need to understand the above-mentioned ones, they combine plainly, form a family plainly, and have children ordinarily.
If you ask them, what is love?
They can't give you an accurate and clear definition, if you say this kind of ordinary life, it may be their love.
To sum up, Bai Ye also specially studied it, and seriously summarized that love is promoted by the following factors: realistic economic conditions (money and material), relatives expectations (men should get married, women should get married), physiological and psychological (hormone regulation, nerve effects), and finally the level of thought.
Bai Ye flickered Zhu Mengqing at that time, that is, he mainly used physical love to fool the little girl, after all, young boys and girls are young, and they will always have a little fantasy under the action of nature.
The so-called love at first sight is mostly physiological factors, you look at a beautiful woman pleasing to the eye, your heart is naturally comfortable, if you look at an ugly girl, the first feeling will definitely not be too good.
This is the difference between good looks, some people say that this is a society that looks at faces, and whether this sentence is right or wrong, at least in people's first impression of strangers, good-looking people are always treated better than bad-looking people. For example, the phoenix and the pangtong, such as some ugly champions.
Therefore, people often dream of love, most of them will be handsome men and beautiful women, even in the novels of the ancients, the protagonist is a talented and beautiful woman, and the talented man is mostly attracted by the appearance of the beautiful woman and wants to be the guest of the scene.
Of course, it cannot be ruled out that there is really love at first sight, not because of external factors such as appearance, money and materials, but it is too little, so small that it is almost tiny.
The love composed of realistic economic conditions, most of them are purely the exchange between beauty and money and materials, the woman marries into a wealthy family by virtue of her glamorous appearance, and the wealthy family provides her with better living materials, and when she is old and decrepit, and has no children and no daughters, the prospect may not be bleak?
Relatives expect that this is often combined with realistic economic conditions, constituting the phenomenon that if you want to marry my daughter, how much dowry do you get, buy a house and buy a car. If the man and the woman have nothing in common, then it is an exchange between the man and the woman in order to continue the existence of the family, reproduce, and pass on his genes.
After all, most of the thoughts of Chinese parents are still unfilial piety.
After this exchange, the two men and women get married, maybe in the slow life, understand each other, take care of each other, and give birth to a calm and ordinary relationship, most people are like this, and more are rural people (there is no discrimination against farmers, I am a brick movers, I observe my parents and many relatives said).
Or maybe the two find that the differences are too big, each other's personalities are not good, even if there are people who have children, they will also divorce, this kind of study is more people in the city, and their marriage is not as stable as ordinary rural people.
The last level of thought, that is a kind of love that is rare and rare, people expect to meet, but the reality can be unmet.
People (with a special emphasis on normal people) have a lotus-like woman in their hearts, a sunny and warm teenager, who meets in a bright flowery afternoon, or a broken bridge in the light rain Feifei.
His (her) smile makes you warm, words can find resonance with each other, and you can't wait to stay together for a lifetime, and never change in this life.
Of course, reality is reality, fantasy is fantasy, and platonic love does not exist, but most people are just ordinary lives, including you and me, and the pursuit is the other three.
It is often said that we are born incomplete, only half, and only when we find the other half, we are considered complete!
But what is completeness? How do you find your other half again? How can you be sure that she or him is your ideal partner?
It's like a machine with parts scattered, and the devil knows if it's the original practical one that will be found again.
Bi Xiuxin and Shi Zhixuan are combined, there are two people who are attracted to each other, and there are also the expectations of the forces where Bi Xiuxin is located, which is the so-called feeding demons with their bodies.
Song Que and his wife were combined, basically for the sake of offspring, and in layman's terms, for mating and breeding.
Lu Miaozi and Shang Qingya combined, one is to learn and appreciate each other's talents, but physiology and psychology, beauties like talents' knowledge, and talents like beauties to talk about beauty. Otherwise, how could he suddenly abandon Shang Qingya and run out to fool around with the queen of the yin?
Shi Zhixuan and Zhu Yuyan's early love affair was a pair of young boys and girls who were attracted to each other, and their youth was budding.
Now, the plot of the Tang Dynasty has long been unrecognizable, Kou Zhong and Song Yuzhi, Xu Ziling and Wei Zhenzhen, have changed so much, and the reversal of their respective fates is no longer on the road where it should be.
Walking in the mountains and forests in the white night, he doesn't know what specific love and affection are, he just thinks it's good to be with Shi Qingxuan, watch the sunrise and sunset in his spare time, plant flowers and grass, and make some coarse tea and light rice, there is no need to be vigorous, there is no need for the sea to dry and rotten, and there is no need to rely on life and death.
You know what I want, I know your heart, I have my thoughts, you have your goals. Don't force persecution, don't covet longevity, just be able to witness the sunset of the day together.
Bai Ye let out a long sigh in the dense shade of the trees, remembering that in the original book, she said this in front of her mother's monument: "Didn't you say that when love breaks down, there is no way to escape? My daughter finally understands what you mean, because the door is in the heart. So my daughter decided to marry Xu Ziling as her wife, and marry in front of your spirit tonight, even if she is ruthlessly abandoned by him in the future, she will never regret it. ”
The last sentence "Even if she is ruthlessly abandoned by him in the future, she will never regret it" made Bai Ye feel that she was the most beautiful strange woman in the Tang Dynasty.
And he came to this world, changed the plot world, and also involved Shi Qingxuan.
She never said anything, nor did she deliberately ask for anything, she stood there quietly, making Bai Ye feel helpless and a kind of spiritual debt.
White Night doesn't regret it, so he runs here to find a tree and give her an answer to the result.
Personal thoughts, don't take them seriously!