Chapter 670: Mother-Daughter Dialogue
All the comfort of Su Xin just now was swept away by her mother's unrelenting questioning, but she didn't expect that she would also become an "older leftover girl" and the object of everyone's "forced marriage".
Dozens of missions, although it is just a passer-by in other people's lives, not even a passer-by, but they have also seen through the warmth of the human feelings, and the world is cold.
She knew that her parents were worried about her life's events, except for a small part because they cared about the world's opinions, and more because they were worried that she had no support.
Su Xin felt that his parents were both reasonable people, and instead of dragging it out day by day, let them always worry about this matter, so he simply said it thoroughly.
Su Xin waited for Xin's mother to finish speaking, and then said in a very calm and soft tone: "Mom, I can't hide it, I have thought very clearly about my personal life's events, and I know that you are concerned about me and worried about me." But when you look at the people around you, how many of them can respect and love each other? ”
The so-called knowing daughter Mo Ruomu, when Xin's mother heard Su Xin's tone, a bad premonition floated in her heart, and asked: "Nannan, have you encountered anything sad outside?" ”
The first thought that came to Xin's mother was whether her daughter was in a bad relationship, was deceived and bullied, and so on.
Su Xin: "Mom, it's not what you think. I think that I now also have the ability and power to think independently and choose the direction of my life, and I should tell you what I really think, so that you don't have to worry about this matter all the time. If you keep doing this, you will feel very guilty for not fulfilling your obligations as a child. I think this about getting married, Mom, let's take our village as an example, Aunt Liu's daughter has been married for so many years, but if she wants to go back to her parents' house for the New Year, she is taken care of by her in-laws, saying that she will delay the time to work; I want to bring a little souvenir to my mother's house, but I am said to be a success or failure girl with my arm turned out. There is also the flower sister in the next village, who has already given birth to three babies, and her mother-in-law let her continue to give birth in order to have a son, and finally the fetus died directly in childbirth, in fact, the real situation has spread throughout the village, and everyone knows that she was killed by her mother-in-law......"
"Oh, that's just...... It's just that when you meet such a bad man and family, you will definitely meet someone who is good to you - "Which mother doesn't think that her daughter (son) is the best, she will definitely meet the best, and will be good to her daughter (son) as a matter of course."
Su Xin tried to keep her voice softer, "You don't want your daughter to be unhappy, do you?" Even if you go back to your parents' house, you have to ask others for instructions? If you want to buy a gift, you have to report it to someone, right? You don't want to see your daughter used as a tool for giving birth to a baby, do you...... Mom, in fact, I only mean this, rather than pinning your future on others and asking for the consent of others for everything, it is better to be more down-to-earth in controlling your own life. Mom, please believe me, this is the life I really want. ”
"Nan, in fact, there are still a lot of good men-" Xin's mother said in a low voice, weak. What Su Xin said just now was indeed a real thing in the village, but she felt that her daughter would definitely meet a man who was devoted to her.
Su Xin couldn't hear her mother's subtext, but now that she had been open and honest, she simply said it thoroughly, "Mom, I know you want to say that there are still many good men in the world, but everything needs to go through life to know, if they knew what kind of person the other party was before they got married, would they still marry each other?" Mom, I just don't want to bet my future life on a man like a gamble, if you bet right, you will be happy, if you bet wrong, you will not be happy, and you are still struggling to maintain a family, do you? ”
With Su Xin's current energy, she has a perfect grasp of controlling her life, and she has also thought about whether to find a man to marry in order to fulfill her parents' wish to "live a complete life". Even if the other party is as scumbag as Duan Ming, he is absolutely sure that he will "change" into a five-good man, at least let others look like a "loving couple" and the like.
But why bother?
"Nan, every woman wants to get married and have a baby, this is fate. Mom knows what you think, but when you are old and old, you are alone, no one takes care of you, how can your father and I rest assured? Xin's mother let out a long sigh, looking disappointed and sad.
Su Xin is also sad in her heart, perhaps this is what people often call "disobedience" and "unfilial piety".
However, since they have already made a life choice, if they keep "playing Tai Chi" with their parents until the end of the showdown, it will make them even more sad and sad. It's better to cut through the mess now.
"Mom," Su Xin felt very heartbroken, but the words had already been said at this point, and there was no room for relaxation, "Mom, in fact, when we want others to take care of ourselves, others also want to get more benefits, and others also want to be taken care of." When I'm old and can't walk and need to be taken care of, others can't walk and get old. Mom, you really don't have to worry about my marriage anymore, I already have my own life plan, believe me, I will live well......"
Dudu –
Before Su Xin finished speaking, a busy sound came from the earpiece.
She held the phone and was stunned for a long time, and let out a long sigh.
At this moment, she felt the deep shackles from fate.
It's so hard to walk a path of complete freedom.
The first is the pressure of parents in the name of love.
And then there is public opinion from all sides.
She remembered that there was an old woman in the next village to her hometown, who was called an "old witch" by the people around her because she had never been married in her life, and was isolated, and even when she was old, those people still pointed fingers at her.
Su Xin didn't care about these public opinions and isolation at all, because she was strong enough now, so strong that she didn't have to care what others thought of her, but others asked for her.
But she doesn't care, these public opinion pressures will fall on her parents.
Parents are her weakness, and when her parents are sad, she will feel even more guilty and heartache.
But even if she felt guilty and heartbroken, Su Xin was still unwilling to compromise on this matter.
Yes, they gave her life, even a second life, but that doesn't mean that this life has to live exactly according to their will.
Xin's father and Xin's mother were teasing their grandchildren in the courtyard just now, and when they were happy, several neighbors chatted and talked about Su Xin's body, saying that everyone in the village who was the same age as her was married and had children, and anyone and every baby could play soy sauce, and said that they should get married as soon as possible and have a baby as soon as possible, otherwise it would be bad for the woman's health and so on. Taking advantage of the excitement, Xin's mother called Su Xin and asked her to bring her boyfriend back for the New Year and go home early, they were ready, and even wanted to take advantage of the New Year to do the "thing" directly.
Originally, I was very happy, but I thought of Su Xin's basin of cold water to pour Xin's mother and Xin's father cold. Those neighbors are still there to add oil and vinegar and say cool things, saying that there is no girl who grows up and does not marry, Su Xin is also not young, only nuns do not get married and so on... It can be imagined how faceless and sad the two elders were at that time... Fortunately, my aunt drove these people away and persuaded them for a while, saying that Susu is doing well now, and the child has her own ideas when she is older, as long as she is doing well. The two elders will not faint on the spot.
After hanging up the phone for a long time, Su Xin felt like something was blocked in her heart.
I simply took out a file from the cabinet and looked through it.