Chapter 6 Neutrality

What she said can be regarded as frank and unrestrained, but Du Juan and Tang Hongye couldn't laugh or cry when they heard it, in just a few minutes, about Xian Heyu's ex-wife and herself, two different periods of the same role and situation, Shi Yuyan's evaluation is very different, Xian Heyu's ex-wife is a rice worm who doesn't work, likes to work and hates hard work, and she also doesn't go out to work to make money, but in order to give Xianheyu a warm harbor.

For the first time, Du Juan listened to others say such double standards face-to-face, and he also felt a little emotion in his heart, he was strict with others and lenient with himself, I am afraid that he was talking about people like Shi Yuyan.

"If Xian Heyu's ex-wife still wants to renew her relationship with him, then you shouldn't have reason to doubt that she might want to harm Xian Heyu, right? After all, if something happens to Xian Heyu, won't his ex-wife's idea of remarrying be completely frustrated, which is probably only bad for her, not good? Tang Hongye said.

Of course, Shi Yuyan didn't want to hear someone talking to her husband's ex-wife, so she glanced at Tang Hongye with a somewhat unsightly face: "Do you think she wants to remarry my husband, is it really because she loves him?" Then you can't help but think of her as a little too innocent! is a middle-aged person of that age, how can she still have such a vigorous love, isn't it just for money! Originally, before my husband and I officially registered our marriage, the woman was bent on pulling people back, but later I saw that the two of us were still married together no matter how she made trouble. If my husband dies, her daughter will take half of the property! Then can you still have her share? And why did my husband buy so many old traffic accident insurances in the first place, and the beneficiaries all wrote about his daughter, this book is very strange, it feels like someone is looking forward to him in a traffic accident! ”

"Do you know that Xian and Yu have bought a lot of insurance?" This surprised the cuckoo a little.

Shi Yuyan nodded: "Of course, my husband told me before the two of us got married, after all, I am so much younger than him, and marrying him is actually a sense of security, and mature men can be relied on with confidence, so my requirement for him is that if there is anything, the two of us must be honest, even if there is something irreconcilable, no one is willing to compromise and cannot compromise, resulting in the two of us having no way to finally get married, it is better than pressing the problems below and whitewashing the peace, After marriage, there were many contradictions, and in the end, he couldn't go on with his face torn up, just like him and his ex-wife, which was really not worth it. He told me, I didn't ask much at the time, after all, there are more people who buy insurance, and there are not many people who can really use it, so I didn't take it too seriously, and I think he wrote the beneficiary as his daughter, which is still a very responsible thing, and it is a good man's performance. It wasn't until he really had a car accident that the more I thought about it at home, the more I felt that something was wrong, and the more I thought about it, the more I felt that it was quite strange. ”

"What caused the relationship between Xian Heyu's ex-wife and him to break down?" Cuckoo asked.

Shi Yuyan smiled: "The two of them didn't have much affection in the first place, in that era, wasn't it just that the head parents or relatives in the family introduced and matched, and then they were together!" I did talk to my husband about this, after all, he is a person who has been married for a while, my past is like a blank slate, if I don't communicate these things clearly, how dare I marry such a man! It was because I communicated with him very clearly, so I knew that I had nothing to do with his previous marriage at all, and later I was treated as an enemy by his ex-wife, and I always made small moves behind my back, so I felt particularly aggrieved. ”

"Then please tell us about the specific situation, how much do you know."

"What I know is what my husband told me, I don't have the habit of checking people behind my back, I'm a person, you don't understand, otherwise you will know, don't look very similar, in fact, I am a special person with a tendon in the rectum, whether it is good or bad, it is the gong and the drum in front of the face, so it is good." When Shi Yuyan talked about Xian and Yu's previous marriage, she first added a self-promotion in the front, and then cut into the topic, "My husband said that when he was young, he was not like now, late marriage and late childbearing are everywhere, and it is normal not to get married and have children in his thirties, but not at that time, if you are twenty-five or sixteen years old and have not married, many relatives, friends, neighbors and neighbors feel that it is abnormal, there is a problem, the leaders in the unit think you are a big problem, what about him, he had a girlfriend in college, According to the current words, it is the goddess in his mind, but after graduating, he joined the work, and the goddess has a way to go abroad, how difficult it was to go abroad in those days. Anyway, after the goddess left, my husband didn't decline, and he couldn't afford to look for a partner, so he delayed, and later introduced his ex-wife to him for a while, he felt that as long as he was a woman, alive, and able to communicate with the head of the family, he agreed so vaguely, and got married in a daze, and when he came back to his senses, he felt that there was no emotion, and when the life was boring, the children were born, so he made do with the children. ”

"It's been more than ten years, why can't you make do with it?"

"Because his ex-wife is so unreasonable! I don't pay attention to the image at all, I don't care about the image at all, I don't think I'm old enough to make myself look like an old woman, I don't have confidence, I began to be suspicious of my man, my husband used to earn a dead salary every month, she thought his income was not high enough, the family was tight, unhappy, and then my husband went to the sea to start a business, the income is getting higher and higher, she thinks that men will become bad when they are rich, and they are mentally ill every day to check his various posts, strictly guard against death, there is no space at all, and over time, It's a personal estimate that I can't stand it, my husband feels that life is too depressing, the two of them don't have any common language, even their children are not optimistic about the marriage of the two of them, and they feel that they are separated early, and the woman doesn't know if menopause has arrived, and has become particularly hysterical, my husband finally can't bear it, and filed for divorce with her, and the two of them have really divorced from filing for divorce, and this has been tugging for more than a year, and then his ex-wife can't drag it on, so she finally relented. ”

"So what did his ex-wife get when she divorced at that time? Listen to what you said earlier, their common daughter lives with her mother? Du Juan felt that there seemed to be some inconsistencies in Shi Yuyan's story, "If Xian and Yu wanted to leave more money to their daughter in the future when they divorced, but they were unwilling to give it to their ex-wife, and his economic conditions were far better than his ex-wife, then why did he let the child live with his mother instead of just letting the child follow himself?" ”

"I didn't ask specifically how they divided the money and things in the divorce at that time, I didn't want my husband to think that I was the kind of woman who fell into the eyes of money, after all, it was a matter of his previous marriage, and it had nothing to do with me, and it was not appropriate for me to ask. However, the emaciated camel is bigger than the horse, this may not be particularly suitable for use here, just make do with that, no matter how reluctant my husband is to give his ex-wife more money and real estate, with his economic conditions, he can give it casually, it may be more than the ordinary poor couple divorced man who leaves the house and leaves the woman behind, otherwise it is difficult to give not a penny? Let's not talk about whether Xian Heyu can be ruthless, even if he can, his ex-wife may not be willing, I think his ex-wife made trouble everywhere later, but it was not a good stubble. Shi Yuyan replied, "I really asked him about my daughter's matter, and I'm not afraid that you think my character is not good enough, everyone knows that stepmothers are not good, if you want to be a good stepmother, what is the best way?" It must be that the well water does not interfere with the river water, get along less, deal with less, and make fewer mistakes, especially if the other party is not a little girl, a teenage girl, and there are many ghost ideas. ”

Shi Yuyan obviously dealt with Xian Heyu's daughter Xian Weiwei, when she talked about Xian Weiwei, there was a bit of a strange look in her eyes, and her emotions were very complicated, including many different emotions, but it definitely did not include the positive ones of liking and appreciation: "So I also talked to my husband about the child before marriage, I said that if he said that he was with his ex-wife, in fact, the child would have to stay with him for a long time after the child, and live under the same roof with me. Then I am willing to go through the run-in period before registering my marriage, so as to ensure that I will not jump in the future, and I can be safe. He swore to me that his daughter would not come to us unless there were very special circumstances, he was thinking that he was busy with business, and said that he would go to other places to negotiate contracts with people, and he didn't have time to take care of the family for ten days, half a month or even a month, and when he divorced, he didn't know how long it would take for him to get out of the impact of that failed marriage, and muster up the courage to start a family again, so in order to ensure that the children's lives were not affected, he gave it to his ex-wife. ”

This explanation makes sense, just having money and no time and energy at all, this is definitely not able to take care of a child, but with the care of his mother, coupled with the living expenses paid by the father, the child's life guarantee after the divorce of the parents may really become much more secure.

"You don't like Xian Heyu's daughter either, do you?" Tang Hongye decided to ask more boldly and directly.

Shi Yuyan's expression was slightly cramped, and she quickly adjusted her state and nodded calmly: "Yes, I don't like it, I can't talk about it, but I can't like it, I really have something to say, you should also need to contact her when you go back, right?" Then you have to be mentally prepared, I dare say so, there is a good chance that you two will not like her at that time. How to say it, although the little girl is not very old, she feels like a ...... It's like there's no smell! ”

When Tang Hongye heard this, he smiled: "Isn't this summary a bit heavy?" ”

"It's not heavy, when you look back at her, you will know that what I said is not heavy at all," Shi Yuyan shook her head, "My husband's daughter is eighteen or nineteen years old, and she is not very young, right?" Adult, but it feels like I don't talk about feelings at all, whether it's to my husband, or to her own mother, I don't have any temperature at all, I don't care about anything, I don't even care about my own father and mother, what kind of character am I! At the time of the head dealing, I also felt that even if the age gap between the two of us was not big, I would soon become her stepmother, and I still had to deal with her, so I took the initiative to show goodwill with her, but this girl didn't move her eyelids at all, as if I was a cloud of air next to me, if it weren't for my husband's face, I would have had a seizure on the spot, and I didn't have the same knowledge as her. Oh, yes, you say, it's just such a child, she took the initiative to propose it to my husband, asking my husband to buy more traffic accident insurance, as much as he can insure, don't you think it's scary? ”

"So, Xian and Yu's daughters are still more emotionally inclined to their mother's side?" Du Juan speculated based on Shi Yuyan's description.

Shi Yuyan shook her head: "No, I heard that it's just average, when did I say that my husband and his daughter are with her mother?" No, the kid ignores me, it's really because of his weird personality, and it has nothing to do with anything else, you can go and investigate casually, I have nothing to do with my husband's previous marriage, so his daughter can't be hostile to me for that reason, this may not exist. My husband told me that his daughter said it herself, she is a neutral country, and her parents will live well if they want to, don't bother her, and leave happily if they want to leave, and the request is still the same - don't bother her, no matter who it is, as long as she continues to maintain her original standard of living, she doesn't care about anything else. At that time, my husband still smiled and said that his daughter must be a shrewd businessman in the future, because she knows how to protect her own interests. If you want me to see, this is purely because it is my own birth, so it is particularly subjective, if you want me to describe it, it is solved in four words - cold-blooded animal! "Mobile phone users, please browse and read, a better reading experience.

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