Gu Zhenhua's decision, after talking to Yuan Xiuqin, also synchronized to Gu Shaoqiu's side for the first time, and he first asked Gu Shaoqiu's side to prepare for increasing the burden. At this point, Gu Zhenhua is not worried about Gu Shaoqiu's ability, with Shaoqiu's ability, he could have taken on the heavy responsibility of the Gu family a long time ago, but because of the problem of qualifications, he has been sharpened and precipitated for so many years, and now people are close to the age of confusion, at this age, it can be said that he is a real Shaozhuang faction, and further, with Shaoqiu's qualifications and military merits, it is all taken for granted, and there is no trouble to hinder progress.

Originally, because of his existence, a certain constraint that restricted Shaoqiu's progress would also be because he let go and retreated, which was completely transformed into Shaoqiu's further help. He took a step back, which was also a political compromise, and of course, he also had to get some compensation. Sometimes, it's not a retreat.

The changes of the Gu family are slowly in place quietly, and the news of Gu Zhenhua's retirement is currently known to only a few people in the range. The sun rises and sets as usual, and nothing in this world will affect the eternal determination to rise and set in the west, just as time will only move forward, and there will be no room to return.

The excitement of going out to play in the summer vacation converged with the end of the holiday, and at the end of August and the beginning of September, after the start of school, they were promoted to a grade and became a third-grade elementary school student, and then next year, they will be elementary school students again, but become the big brothers in the middle and upper grades. Even now, it is not too much for them to be called big brothers and sisters in front of the newly enrolled first-graders.

The two children did not neglect their summer homework and the preparation of the new semester courses because they were out and about playing out during the summer vacation. At this point, whether at home or away, the two children are completing it step by step. Since childhood, thanks to Lin Ning's proper guidance, the two children have developed good study habits, pre-study, complete homework, customize plans, and implement plans, each of which will make a small plan for themselves, so that according to the implementation of the small plan, not only the children learn easily, but the homework tasks and homework tasks in the summer vacation are naturally completed day after day in the planning of the two children, and there is no suspicion of procrastination.

When entering the third grade, Lin Ning sent his two children to sign up alone, and did not mobilize the teachers again, so that the family could accompany them. As an old student in the third grade, the registration of two children is very simple, and the registration office can go directly to the class with the voucher after paying the tuition fee. They went straight up, the third grade just moved the classroom, the classmates and teachers did not change much, for this, the two children entered the new semester as usual. The current curriculum is not difficult for the two children, Lin Ning slowly enlightened the two children in the second language at the stage when the two children began to speak, and now, in addition to the learning in school, the two children also have to add their ancillary tasks and their respective interests and hobbies.

It's just that the two children, no one is tired, this is their own choice. When determining whether to study and increase learning tasks, my mother asked for their opinions on the study projects arranged for them. For the two children who are now comfortable with learning tasks, hobbies are their way of playing to pass the time and relaxing, so in this state of mind, naturally, their learning tasks are no longer imposed tasks for the two children, but from the heart, to experience, to immerse themselves in the joy.

Of course, such a mindset is not innate. To achieve this step, Lin Ning can be said to have been subtly guiding the two children step by step since they were not sensible, and cultivating the two children's awareness of plans and goals, and their own responsibilities according to the temperament of the two children... As for the two children to be sensible, Lin Ning added learning options to the two children step by step. While ensuring that the two children had a happy and carefree childhood, they did not relax the education of the two children.

When the two children were young, they didn't have a long time to study, interspersed with play, and it was only an hour or two a day. But I can't bear the persistence of many years, and time has accumulated today's achievements and successions. Lin Ning's persistence and patient companionship and guidance are the most important elements of success. can cultivate the two children's seriousness in learning, self-discipline temperament, self-discipline for themselves, and execution of goals, Lin Ning also has a kind of pride as a mother.

The child is a blank piece of paper, Lin Ning did not rush to scribble and depict the color when the two children were young, but first salvaged the foundation of the color block, and now on this foundation, the two children are free to sway the future, she will not make decisions for the two children, but will only guide them to do the most suitable for them and the best choice for them. The choice of the future is made by the two children themselves.

Compared with the now popular filial piety under the stick, Lin Ning is more willing to spend more effort to cultivate the autonomy and enthusiasm of the two children, so that they have a plan and active pursuit of their future, rather than the persecution of adults. Upward motivation, only their own heartfelt expectations, can be happy success, to face the challenges of the future bravely. Coercion is only effective for a while, and after a long time, it will only cause numbness between the two children and them as parents, and this kind of emotional behavior in Shanghai is definitely not something that Lin Ning is happy to see.

Until now, for Lin Ning, the most important thing is still that his family is in the forefront. Whether it was the parent-teacher meeting of the two children, or other activities, Gu Shaoqiu couldn't spare time, but Lin Ning consistently didn't miss anything. As any parent, what I enjoy most is to accompany my children to enjoy the applause of success, the annual parent-teacher meeting, and the children's award moments, which are naturally also the moments when Lin Ning is very proud and excited to be a mother. Although it is just a certificate of merit, or a reward for school supplies, but the meaning is the same, it is the glory of success obtained by the two children for a semester, and it is an affirmation of the two children's efforts.

Of course, being able to bring such affirmation to their parents and family makes the two children equally happy. The glory and encouragement also increased the motivation of the two children to chase upwards, and they slowly began to learn to experience the joy of success. In losing some of the playtime that wasn't too necessary, they gained more from learning. Gains and losses, the two children slowly experienced the three flavors.