Chapter 145: The World Is Not Fair
Under Feng Ling's description, Wu Bin has a preliminary understanding of the field of adoption.
First of all, the big data of adoption was about the same before 05 years, and the number of adoptions at home and abroad was about the same, but after 05 years, the adoption data appeared for the first time that the international was greater than the domestic one, and the peak reached 7,900 orphans who were adopted abroad.
It is said that one out of every three orphans in the United States came from China at that time, and domestic adoption centers were also open to 14 countries, including Denmark, Finland, Spain, and France.
According to Feng Ling's knowledge, there are two main reasons why international adoptions are greater than domestic adoptions.
One is that domestic adopters are more stringent than foreign adopters, and the biggest difference is that domestic adopters are required to be childless.
Second, the domestic adoption system is very standardized, unlike some countries' adoption agencies that will have many problems before adoption, so international friends are especially willing to choose to adopt orphans in China.
There seem to be some things related to interests in other aspects, but Feng Ling doesn't know much about it as a teacher, so I didn't say it in detail.
Seeing this, Wu Bin had probably digested all this information, and Feng Chime threw the last bite of bread into his mouth and sighed.
"One thing I have to say is that in terms of the adoption of children with congenital disabilities, the proportion of foreign friends who are really adopted is really much higher, I have an alumnus who is now studying for a doctorate in the United States, and told me that she often goes to the Chinese elementary school compatriots who are adopted by American families, and the children in it are all disabled, and even severely disabled, but they are very confident and do not feel inferior, because they say that they can have such a warm home, very content."
Wu Bin thought about it after listening to it, and expressed his opinion: "After all, kindness is also premised on a material foundation, and basically only those with relatively superior family conditions will adopt a few more such spare forces, but the country must have no children, which directly blocks the road of those families." ”
"You have a point." Feng Ling nodded, took out a bottle of yogurt from the plastic bag in the supermarket, inserted it into a straw and drank it.
"And after that? What happens to those children who are not adopted? Pei Jiamin asked with some anxiety.
Qin Tao on the side saw Pei Jiamin's anxious appearance, snickered and walked behind her, pinched her face and said, "Don't worry, even if they are not adopted, the hospital will take good care of them, and they will also be arranged to go to school, even if their physical conditions do not allow them to go to school, why don't we teach them." ”
After hearing this, Pei Jiamin suddenly held Qin Tao's hand that was pinching her cheek, and said softly, "You must all be angels." ”
Qin Tao was a little stunned for a moment after hearing this, but quickly smiled and hugged Pei Jiamin from behind, "Thank you for saying that." ”
Looking at this scene, Feng Ling also smiled with satisfaction, and then said: "When they grow up, those who are healthy will leave the welfare home and go to work, and then the vice president will help them apply for low-rent housing." ”
"That'...... What about those who can't take care of themselves? Wu Bin asked.
"Then stay in the courtyard and do some manual work, there will always be someone to take care of them." Sighing, Feng Ling looked at Wu Bin and said, "At least in this welfare home, companionship is far greater than material, so if you can establish a relationship with those children, we are also very happy." ”
"We will." Wu Bin and Pei Jiamin said in unison.
"Then I'm looking forward to seeing you again next week." Qin Tao said and pinched Pei Jiamin's face again, and said while pinching; "High school students have tender skin."
"Hey, don't look like an idiot, okay?" Feng Ling couldn't help but complain.
However, Qin Tao pinched it even more excitedly after hearing this, making Pei Jiamin a little overwhelmed.
……
At 7 o'clock in the evening, after agreeing with the children to come to see them next week, Wu Bin and Pei Jiamin left the welfare home.
Walking on the path illuminated by the street lamp, Wu Bin let out a breath of cold air, his expression was a little solemn, and he was really distressed when he remembered the reluctant expressions of those children when they said goodbye to him just now.
"You ...... next week" Wu Bin turned his head and wanted to ask when Pei Jiamin planned to come together next week, but found that she was gone!
In his eagerness, he immediately looked back, only to find her squatting not far away.
Wu Bin, who was relieved, patted his chest and walked over slowly, and then heard a deliberately suppressed sob.
"If you want to cry, cry out." Wu Bin took out a tissue from his backpack and handed it to Pei Jiamin.
"I ...... I didn't want to cry. Pei Jiamin took the tissue from Wu Bin's hand as he spoke, "Just ...... When I went to the toilet just now, I met Yingying, and she said that she had sneaked over, and she cried that she liked us very much and hoped that we would come back next week. ”
As he spoke, he suddenly cried with a "wow".
Wu Bin just silently pulled out another piece of paper and gave it to her.
After wiping her tears with her hands, Pei Jiamin took out a blue paper crane from her jacket pocket, and said while crying: "She gave me this, saying that if I go again next week, she will give me another one that looks better, woo......"
Listening to Pei Jiamin's words mixed with sobbing, Wu Bin's nose was sour, and he almost couldn't hold back.
Yingying is the girl with a tumor on her face, she was sent to a welfare home when she was three years old, and now she is six years old, she has been recommended by teachers to adopters several times, but so far no one wants to accept her as a new family member.
For children in welfare homes, the likelihood of being adopted decreases by one point for each year older, and the most are adopted before the age of three, and after the age of three, because they already have their own consciousness and the memory of staying in the welfare home, many parents are afraid of "not being able to raise them"
"She's so sensible...... It's not fair, it's not fair, it's not fair, it's not fair, it's so cute, and yet it's going to be so painful......"
Pei Jiamin cried louder and louder, as if she wanted to vent all her emotions.
Wu Bin took out another tissue and stuffed it into her hand, saying, "There are too many unfair things in this world, and all we can do is to accompany them more." ”
After crying for a while, Pei Jiamin finally calmed down a little, wiped away her tears with paper, looked at Wu Bin and asked, "You said before that you wanted to help them, have you thought about how to do it?" ”
"Not yet." Wu Bin shook his head, "If I want them all to have a warm home, I have a lot to learn." ”
Pei Jiamin, who wiped away her tears, nodded and said seriously: "I will also help you, although I don't know what I can do, but I will help you." ”
"That's reassuring." After Wu Bin finished speaking, he stretched out his hand to Pei Jiamin: "Okay, get up, otherwise the uncle on the other side who is looking at us is estimated to call the police." ”
Pei Jiamin couldn't help but laugh after hearing this, and put her hand in Wu Bin's palm.